He doesn't play well with othersIsn't there some sort of fishing club nearby? I bet you could get to know some other fly fishing enthusiasts there...
He doesn't play well with othersIsn't there some sort of fishing club nearby? I bet you could get to know some other fly fishing enthusiasts there...
Dude hopped on the scale this morning and it said 188........usually it just says ouch.Those slippers make your feet look skinny
Okay thanks for your input, you're of course welcome to reread it and add any additonal thoughts if any but you mostly covered the information I was trying to get. As for Boo, I didn't ask Boo because he has made it known that he's been without a human partner for some time. Plus I'm not entirely clear on what his situation is as far as if any of his family are still alive or not. It was mainly you being the only family member left of your childhood family that made me pick you to be the person to ask. That's because it felt to me like when my Mother became the last member of her family was when her desire to live longer seemed to change and it was just the year before when her older sister had passed leaving her as the only one left from her family.Walk done. Lights come on in 12 minutes.....
I see several have chimed in on HempKats post. Long post and I need to read it again. I do remember this.....I frankly haven't thought about living without Mrs Pute. One of us will go before the other ......inevitable. If she goes first......don't know. Depends on my health. Like Walt said when you get older your energy level isn't what it used to be.
Boo, would be a better person to ask about living without a life long mate. He lost Linda (his wife) way to early. He seems to have adjusted. Me, I don't know.....will I want to continue alone.....I can't answer that. But, I have no vision of traveling the world being a playboy.....
Today I have no real friends except Mrs Pute and my daughter. This forum is probably my best way of reaching out to friends. As stated before my family has all passed and friends......gone as well.
All the things like fishing that was my life long passion.....frankly I don't feel like it anymore. Sad......
I guess the future will be what it is gonna be and I will tackle it as it comes. I am happy and hopefully I will live out my days that way.
If your clock is like the older grandfather clocks, maybe give a look - see into and / or open the back and see if something may have dislodged the pendulum. Disrupting that movement might likely cause your clock to stop .Not much going on in the grow today so I’m gonna dump my used soil and rinse the pots. Got behind on this chore….also still working on putting bathe house back in order. Oh, gotta fins a clock repair man…..
Can anybody tell me how many steaks you could get out of this bull? - <licks lips >
*alot is not a credible answer
I'm kind of surprised to hear you say you don't feel like fishing anymore since it seems like you've talked about fishing fairly recently in the past few months I've been active in this thread. Anyway thanks again for your response.
I have looked but over my head. Guy coming wed....only $$$.If your clock is like the older grandfather clocks, maybe give a look - see into and / or open the back and see if something may have dislodged the pendulum. Disrupting that movement might likely cause your clock to stop .
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We find being around life to be a positive thing.
Now the kids are all grown we have animals.
Short,intense life spans so we pack as much as we can in each day..........seems to help us.
Bubba still getting noticeably larger each couple days as is Baby.
Now in the 250# of dogchow a month club.
I wouldn't say you were ranting and while I don't really get into fishing of any kind I feel Like I understood the bulk of what you were saying. The only thing I would say I didn't really understand was the part about how the fishing you enjoy makes you a fishing snob. Like you said though, that's mainly because I would have to do what you do to fully understand.There is a lot more to that that meets the eye. I love to fish one way and one way only. You probably won't totally understand......but here goes.
I am a catch and release fly fisherman after big fish......I will fish with a nymph if the conditions are to where I can site fish. Mostly I like a 3w rod using 6x tippet using a dry fly. Which makes me a snob by most fishing standards. I will stand on the bank of a river and wait for a hatch.......I chase hatches all over the region in catch and release water.
There is no place close to the house that I can do this......the closest is and hour and a half away. But, It is crowed every day.....
Plus the mountain roads near Denver are bumper to bumper.
I have a boat and there is a lake near me.....I get out with my son in law using bait.....not my cup of tea and it bores me.
I have a trip planned in Oct to a private lake for bass....yuk but they are big so I do it.
I just realized I am ranting......so I will stop. Ya gotta do what I do to understand......dying breed.....
Probably shouldn't have posted this.
I 100% get it.There is a lot more to that that meets the eye. I love to fish one way and one way only. You probably won't totally understand......but here goes.
I am a catch and release fly fisherman after big fish......I will fish with a nymph if the conditions are to where I can site fish. Mostly I like a 3w rod using 6x tippet using a dry fly. Which makes me a snob by most fishing standards. I will stand on the bank of a river and wait for a hatch.......I chase hatches all over the region in catch and release water.
There is no place close to the house that I can do this......the closest is and hour and a half away. But, It is crowed every day.....
Plus the mountain roads near Denver are bumper to bumper.
I have a boat and there is a lake near me.....I get out with my son in law using bait.....not my cup of tea and it bores me.
I have a trip planned in Oct to a private lake for bass....yuk but they are big so I do it.
I just realized I am ranting......so I will stop. Ya gotta do what I do to understand......dying breed.....
Probably shouldn't have posted this.
Last time I was 188 I was nineDude hopped on the scale this morning and it said 188........usually it just says ouch.
Between getting my tusks pulled and the dogs nonstop walking I am gonna disappear.
Me too!Last time I was 188 I was nine
Thanks for the reply, SubGirl.Ok way too much reading for me. Let’s just be glad that they left the thread and get on with things. Don’t really want to go thru the argument again. Hope your day is good and everyone else’s too
Hello Hempkat, ok I'll chime in.At the risk of touching on a sensitive subject I would like to ask you a queston. If you don't wish to answer that's fine but there is no hidden objective to this question other then gathering inforation to apply towards my own thoughts on the human experience. I've noticed in the past few months that I've been active in this thread, that you tend to be a person who acts aggressively to maintain your health. One exasmple of that being the small growth on your nose. Many would just dismiss it, at least for now as the sort of changes that come to a person as they age that don't necessarily mean anything, such as wrinkles, sskin tags, etc. Yet upon noticing it you've started taking steps to have it removed on the chance it could be an early sign of skin cancer. I've also noticed from the stories you've told of your youth that you've led a fairly full life, have traveled, accomplished a number of things career wise and you keep pretty active in your retirement which probably goes back to aggressively maintaining your health. So my question is this, if your wife (heaven forbid) was no longer in the picture, do you think you would still be trying to extend your life as much as possible? I'm asking this based on what my Mother went thru and that you share in common something that was true for her when she stopped trying to extend her life. That thing being that she was the last of her immediate family as you have now shared is the same for you (not counting children). Things changed for my mother when she was the last of her family. She still had her three sons and the grandchildren that came from two of them and she loved all of us but when her final sibling passed (an older sister) she kind of gave up the desire to live past her age of 93. Now it probably helped her to reach that point, that she didn't have a living spouse which is something that is not true for you. That's why I'm curious if the fact that you still have your spouse keeps you holding on or still Trucking as you put it. I'm also comparing this to my own situation. I still have my brothers so that's not part of the equation for me although we aren't exactly close. I have lost my wife and since that happened I feel like something has changed in me. I have no desire to find a new partner and go thru all that a couple goes thru to learn how to love each other. I still do things to try to maintain my health as best as possible, like the heart procedure I had recently but I also feel like there is not much to hold on for and feel kind of indifferent to the idea of living longer (even though I'm only 64). I haven't done all that I would like but I've still done and seen a lot, traveled a far amount and had more experiences then many others have before they die. So I'm just curious what your thoughts are on life and death?
Now while I'm asking this specifically of Pute, because his situation is close to my what my Mother's was, this question is really open to anyone else who wants to chime in. I'm basically inquiring as to what makes people want to hold on and fight for life as they get closer to the typical end of life expectancy and I'm also interested in what it might take for those still trying to live longer to suddenly change their mind and stop trying to live longer. Also to be clear, by stop trying to live longer I'm not talking about suicide or thoughts of suicide. I'm talking about like what happened with my mother that when diagnosed with cancer, she decided to not try to fight it to postpone death or prolong life.
Hi DB, I slept an hour longer than usual today.@oldmaninbc will be getting up soon...
Okay, thanks for your input, we have something similar here in the US called a living will or sometimes refered to as an Advanced Directive which besically outlines what medical care one wants in the event they become unable to communicate their wants. In some cases when a person knows they'll be that incapacitated they'll give someone they trust what is called Medical Power of Attorney. That's less common though. Also as far as I know if the Living Will or Advanced Directive is done far enough in advance and it is determined that person was of sound mind, then the doctors have to go by that even if their is a family member that disagrees with it.Hello Hempkat, ok I'll chime in.
I have what is called here in BC ,Medical Order for Scope of Treatment(MOST), it's basically my end of life wants. My MOST would specify, do not hook me up to equipment that would keep me alive if I have had a stroke, heart attack any illness that would require some one looking after me. Let me die a natural death.
It also eliminates the need for someone else to make these choices of life and death. I have seen families torn apart by people who think they know what's best for another, while another family member has a completely different outlook. They argue, they create divisions and the end of life also becomes the end of family.
For some reason one of my family members spent the last four years of their life suffering from numerous conditions that had no favorable outcomes. They suffered day after day and deteriorated until they were not recognizable as the person I knew them to be. It was not only the person with illness who was suffering but the people who had to watch the slow steady decline.
When the end of life is at hand, I will do my best to embrace it.
Damn Pute you just sound so normal to me, well, mostly normalI don’t like the fish by myself anymore. Used to do it all the time. My balance is not as good as it once was walking a slippery river bed not the best thing to do at my age. Plus I missed the camaraderie. Where did they all go?
Yep, my MOST papers have to be gone over by my doctor and signed. They do their best to stay out of your choices, unless you ask them something. When I needed statistics on the outcomes of heat attacks and strokes she could give me the % numbers I needed to know. MOST has nothing to do with wills, it is strictly medical in nature. I don't want to suffer at the end of my life or hooked up to equipment that would keep me alive. I have and I am suffering already, I won't give up easily but on the other hand I won't suffer needlessly.Okay, thanks for your input, we have something similar here in the US called a living will or sometimes refered to as an Advanced Directive which besically outlines what medical care one wants in the event they become unable to communicate their wants. In some cases when a person knows they'll be that incapacitated they'll give someone they trust what is called Medical Power of Attorney. That's less common though. Also as far as I know if the Living Will or Advanced Directive is done far enough in advance and it is determined that person was of sound mind, then the doctors have to go by that even if their is a family member that disagrees with it.