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My Son Blackmailed Me... then Snitched!!!
- Thread starter doob-e-pufr
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For whatever reason your son is too immature to have a sense of loyalty but hopefully he grows out of his selfishness but if not there's nothing you can do about it.
When the cops searched and found nothing do you know if your son tried hard to persuade them that he was telling the truth or perhaps did the cops end up with the impression you are clean and your son was lying?
If it were me I'd consider going to church and spread the good news that I had found a "new life" and very happy about it to throw off suspicion while I was growing.
When the cops searched and found nothing do you know if your son tried hard to persuade them that he was telling the truth or perhaps did the cops end up with the impression you are clean and your son was lying?
If it were me I'd consider going to church and spread the good news that I had found a "new life" and very happy about it to throw off suspicion while I was growing.
herb weedmen
Member
yeah ya gotta play the part , when growing weed .even indoors in small closets ..keep everything looking normal always ..like nothings ever changed ..
prolly a good idea not to have him over anymore ..he'll grow up and out of this stage ..funny how all of a sudden the only people in the whole fucked up world that will be there for them even threw stupid shit like this ..its always family that stands by you ..he'll figure it out ..even my grow buddy dosnt stand between me and my family..
i'd take a bullet for my family and nothing will ever change that ..and theres only one lady i cheat on my wife with and her names maryjane..and my ol lady loves her too..haha..
chin up bro ,smile ,plant some beans and get red in the eyes ..what else is there ..and if leo wants ya ,he dont need your kid to get ya ..fuck em all ..grow your weed ..and show us some pictures of your girls ..
good luck stay hi and stay safe ..
herb weedmen
prolly a good idea not to have him over anymore ..he'll grow up and out of this stage ..funny how all of a sudden the only people in the whole fucked up world that will be there for them even threw stupid shit like this ..its always family that stands by you ..he'll figure it out ..even my grow buddy dosnt stand between me and my family..
i'd take a bullet for my family and nothing will ever change that ..and theres only one lady i cheat on my wife with and her names maryjane..and my ol lady loves her too..haha..
chin up bro ,smile ,plant some beans and get red in the eyes ..what else is there ..and if leo wants ya ,he dont need your kid to get ya ..fuck em all ..grow your weed ..and show us some pictures of your girls ..
good luck stay hi and stay safe ..
herb weedmen
doob-e-pufr
Member
Thanks everyone for replies and support!
He had his friend bring pics to them! Of him and his dumbass friend peace signing and posing in front of them. The pics were my excuse for no consent, because I'm not sure what those two idiots have been doing while I'm at work!
I'm can't get too specific, but my family has powerful connections in my home state, I grew up with most of local law, never been in trouble. I'm down south, and down here it's way more about who you know. I too believe that they don't want fuck with people like me. At least as long as there are meth cooks/dealers/addicts.
I guess a point I would like to make is, that I never acted like I was guilty of anything, because I don't think I am guilty of anything. No more than making a little wine, brewin a little beer.
It's callin me pirate!
Thank you whodi. This is the most valuable lesson to learn. NEVER give consent.
He had his friend bring pics to them! Of him and his dumbass friend peace signing and posing in front of them. The pics were my excuse for no consent, because I'm not sure what those two idiots have been doing while I'm at work!
I'm can't get too specific, but my family has powerful connections in my home state, I grew up with most of local law, never been in trouble. I'm down south, and down here it's way more about who you know. I too believe that they don't want fuck with people like me. At least as long as there are meth cooks/dealers/addicts.
I guess a point I would like to make is, that I never acted like I was guilty of anything, because I don't think I am guilty of anything. No more than making a little wine, brewin a little beer.
pugnacious
Active member
Thats sad bro. Im just staring at my 2 year old and giving him a suspicious look right now.
Im serious man I dont want my son to grow up.
Im serious man I dont want my son to grow up.
thats messed up, he can stay home drink beer, smoke YOUR stash, and then threaten to tell on you after smoking YOUR shit.
Hopefully your son will come around, and realize how cool his father is. Way to keep your cool and not go to far by getting an assault charge or worse. Also good job in knowing your rights.Hopefully in time you can rebuild the relationship with your son.
Hopefully your son will come around, and realize how cool his father is. Way to keep your cool and not go to far by getting an assault charge or worse. Also good job in knowing your rights.Hopefully in time you can rebuild the relationship with your son.
doob-e-pufr
Member
You just gave me goosebumps Bro! Thank you and same to you. I have friends that come to house and get a buzz and then get paranoid that the blinds are not shut. I always tell them, if they are close enough to tell what we are doing through that window, we are already fucked.
I've been plottin a seed project with my BOG seeds since I found them. Upgrading some gear!
sorry man i grew up with kids like this who dont think before they act. id wait till hes 18 and scare the piss out of the bugger. hes stepdad beat him so hes going to walk the earth being a prick till jail or worst. he doesnt seem to respect you much and thats where u as a father should be drawing the line. i cant stand kids who have no respect for people trying to help them.
wait till hes 18 and beat him with a belt haha just kidding. but seriously dont grow again until hes out of the picture or moved away. i feel bad for ya bro- kid needs some tough love
doob-e-pufr
Member
Pug, if they would stay that size, I would have a dozen of them.
Thanks for reply Fuzz. I hope so too.
Thanks for reply Fuzz. I hope so too.
BONUS BAG
Member
yes dont make there job easy to put you in jail forget how it looks.if they ask say NO.
doob-e-pufr
Member
The thing that's hard to face is who's fault is it that he's a ill-mannered, disrespectful, conniving little shit? All the time's he needed an ass whoopin like I would have got. And I reasoned that I only get him every other weekend. I did'nt whack him on the back of the head for not saying please and thank you. Bought him anything he wanted without really earning it? Some that is mine.
herb weedmen
Member
i think you have hit on something here that all people should take into consideration when it comes to raising kids and having things we need to be kept tight lipped about ..i am 45 and my kids are adults now but i can say we always had the fear of just what happen to you ..we always told our kids that they cant trust folks like they can trust us ..i think if you have a relationship with your kids that is open and always dead honest you'll find they trust you alot more ..altho its hard when they are in their teens because they all think the world owes them and theres nothing that them and their little fuck head little friends cant do ..its just like when you were a kid and mom told you shit ..its the same thing..we all seem to think as kids we are diffrent and our folks are full of shit ..if ya just stop and really think about it a minute ..you'll no exactly what i am talking about ..well as parents its up to use to make sure they understand what their actions will bring on us all..i can remember when my kids were little in school and they had a program in school called dare ..it was were the cops wanted kids to tell on their family members for any drug use and painted it in as they are helping them by telling,well we always told our kids what really happens when they tell on us ..like the fact that they will come in at anytime of day or night and take them to a foster home away from me and mom and our home..and that mom and i would be put in jail ...if you tell them the truth about it and show them that even the police are not always to be trusted ..
there must be others out there that need to speak their mind on this topic ..
sorry
so i am not sure who said they were looking at their 2 yr old with worried eyes ..start teaching him as soon as he can understand and remember to keep him close, no matter what ..familys only work if everyones on the same page and heading in the same dirrection..
again sorry for hijacking your thread bro..
there must be others out there that need to speak their mind on this topic ..
sorry so i am not sure who said they were looking at their 2 yr old with worried eyes ..start teaching him as soon as he can understand and remember to keep him close, no matter what ..familys only work if everyones on the same page and heading in the same dirrection..
again sorry for hijacking your thread bro..
WOW Doob... 1st off i would just like to say sorry for what happened between you and your son. I can't even imagion how much that must have hurt. Also being from the "old school", and having a father being involved with shady buisness, I admire your forgiveness and involvement still in your son's life. My father would have literaly buried me out in the wodds without thinking twice.. Hes long dead now so I don't mind talking about him, but if he was alive!!! Haha lets just say I would be on the lam if he even suspected me of snitching. As far as your question goes only you can decide.. It's a weird age we live in. Our kids actually rule over us.. If you smack them they can report you to social services. If you ground them then your stuck with them in the house all day bothering you haha. It's hard to be a parent this day and age. Theres no more respect. But I admire that you forgave your son. I don't think mine would be breathing if he ever threatened my future like that. If i were you I wouldn't grow anymore. You already got acused once.. If you do decide to continue, I would personally move outa the state, and leave that son wherever he is...
C
Classyathome
Wow - that kid seriously needed his ass kicked. I'd still do it...
Blackmail AND Snitch???
Nice start - all he needs is a taste for penis in his mouth, and he'd be a perfect jailhouse rat.
Do your grow - but if that little rat bastard evens lift an eyebrow at you, kick his freakin' ass (BAD).
My oldest son found my grow couple o' years back - he wouldn't, and hasn't said a word...
And I don't beat my kid, he just has respect for the fact I could...
Blackmail AND Snitch???
Nice start - all he needs is a taste for penis in his mouth, and he'd be a perfect jailhouse rat.
Do your grow - but if that little rat bastard evens lift an eyebrow at you, kick his freakin' ass (BAD).
My oldest son found my grow couple o' years back - he wouldn't, and hasn't said a word...
And I don't beat my kid, he just has respect for the fact I could...
man I can't believe your still with the kid
he is a traitor, a traitor to his own blood, he is lucky he has all his teeth
and his friend, you should take him aside, and stare him in the eyes
this shit don't fly.
I 2nd the :
send him back to the step dad
what a piece of shit
and you are right.
forgive but dont forget
you cant forget treason
he is a traitor, a traitor to his own blood, he is lucky he has all his teeth
and his friend, you should take him aside, and stare him in the eyes
this shit don't fly.
I 2nd the :
send him back to the step dad
what a piece of shit
and you are right.
forgive but dont forget
you cant forget treason
Weedninja
Member
And tell the stepdad that the kid's been talking shit about him. And give him a fifth of Jack and a pair of brass knuckles.
Wow...I don't even know what to say, that sucks, what a scumbag little punk. (no offense, man) You are a more patient man than I, doob. Honestly, I would have broken off all contact with him after that and never spoke to him again (and sent him back to step daddy for a well deserved ass whooping) after blackmailing me and then intentionally attempting to destroy my and my wifes life and all that I worked for, as well as my freedom. And paying for his college after that too? You are far too kind, my friend...
No he won't. He may grow up, but a snitch is a snitch is a snitch, they'll never change. That trait will always be with him and I am sure he will blackmail and snitch again to get his way/get himself out of trouble. Sad but true...
No he won't. He may grow up, but a snitch is a snitch is a snitch, they'll never change. That trait will always be with him and I am sure he will blackmail and snitch again to get his way/get himself out of trouble. Sad but true...
I also Have a son that does not know I grow. He will be here for Spring break. I have nothing to worry about even if he did say something to the police(witch he would never do) and why is that you ask. Im Legal Here we can grow 6 plants in flower and 18 starters in veg. I can have 28oz of dried bud ready to smoke. I recommend to everyone to get your cards. That's why we have these laws
KUSHEATER1
Active member
It's live and learn people he has no idea of all the problems he could have caused, later on in life he will say that was f***ed up what I did.Like I said befor give him love and show him you care.We all have fucked up in some way shape or form so let just bend the learning curve and learn together raising children is no walk in the park a constant battle to get them in the right direction...peace 1 luv...
