My dad didn't chill until he stopped drinking at 60. He still had a temper, but he was all bark by then and I could distract him with a chocolate bar and a pepsi. lol
16 brothers and 6 have adjacent farms. Typical big french Canadian Catholic families. They drive their tractors with a bottle of vodka or CC between their legs with Johnny Cash, George Jones and Tammy Wynette blasting in the cab. They're the most violent people I know with great lines like "I'll feed him a fucking brick" or "I'll grab my hammer and knockout all your teeth." lol.
Have always compared commercial fishing to farming. Exchange tractors for boat and plants for fish. Same community same temper!