I hear what u are saying yea it can get expensive quick. However I will do most of the work myself. I was going to double frame the walls so they are 12 in thick. Use blown in fiberglass to get my R rating up there same with the roof Tell me more about the trusses u mentioned. I like the solitude idea maybe a 4 x 6 frame. It just pour a stem wall for a raised foundation. Should be cheaper than a slab. The ac, power and plumbing I'm not worried about because I can do that. My buddy is a ac tech and will help me with that
12 " walls? thats going to get nutty high r values, i commend you on that decision.
id suggest cellulose though? blown fiberglass is more expensive. a good well done dense pack should be marginally higher, and yet less expensive.
the only thing blown fiberglass has going is fire rating, far as i know at least.
regarding the trusses. Im talking about light gauge steel framing members.... the sorta stuff you see in office buildings?
basically you would build something very simple like a parallel chord truss.
you will probably just need just half or dozen or so truss sections, but never the less consider building a jig on plywood.
parallel chord trusses are generally not super efficient material wise, but are VERY easy to build. basically cut two sizes over and over and over and over.
dont forget the soffits over the gable. houses dont look right without proper soffits!
you could also just do a flat roof with basically a series of box truss's. but idk... i hate flat roofs for some reason.
would be even easier though. just make one side of the wall like 12 feet, and the other side 10.