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Why do men expect us to...............
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"MOST" = means not all. Just not as easy to find. If you are only looking at the money first, it won't last. And there are plenty of women out there that can support themselves and buy their own purses, etc. and are attractive as well. They may just be more particular. Why would they want a guy that only likes them for their appearance? (not that that doesn't help, but you know...)
Maybe it is because he hasn't had a good Plumkin in a long time.......
and it is real easy to "appear" to have money. If it is all spent on appearance, clothing, fancy cars, etc. chances are likely that they live in a tiny, crappy apartment with 3 other people and spend everything they have so they look like they have money. These are the same people that are on Medicaid, food stamps, WIC, etc. I see them every day I go to work and they are usually towing around 3-4 kids and stink like cigarettes (no offense to cigarette smokers, I am an ex-smoker myself and would kill to have one - lol). And I am sure that they are fantastic role models for said children.
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greenmatter
^^^^ it's all about the image!!!! LOL........ but if you look at it right it is pretty easy to see the forest (read: hollow idiots) through the trees (read:bling)
Max Yields
Active member
I know my soulmate is out there somewhere, but until I find her I damn sure won't be spending all this money on a chick that doesn't deserve it. I have been the nice guy in the past & was a lil' too generous with the wrong chick just because they looked good & I thought that they may have had a good "head" on their shoulders... Nowadays it's Mickey D's for a date. Don't like McDonalds okay then, Subway it is, aww hell if she's hot enough maybe even a movie...but thats it....lol
I am not wealthy by any stretch of the imagination, but I'm definitely not broke. I got a lil' something going for me. But I made the mistake once, & I'll be damned if I let it happen twice. Take advantage of me once shame on you, let it happen twice, then shame on me. I'm not the one to just call women "bitches" or "goldiggers" etc., but many present themselves (sometimes unknowingly or due to it being such natural behavior for them due to other men in their life before me 'n such) as just that. Then I treat them accordingly & it's a problem..?? Geez..., don't blame me for being tight with my cash & keeping my game tight, blame them other suckas who ain't!!! Now they got these chicks programmed & thinking thats how guys should treat them. No honey, thats not all guys, just the suckers they have been dealing with so far. They can have everything in the world, & the finer things 'n all...
but it's not going to cost me anything.
On another note many chicks know it's not all about the money with me. That's why I prefer a lady who got it going on (personality, looks, money, etc.) on her own without my help. Its 50/50 in my relationships nowadays. If my woman scratches my back then I'll scratch hers, anything less & your playin' yourself fellas...
I am not wealthy by any stretch of the imagination, but I'm definitely not broke. I got a lil' something going for me. But I made the mistake once, & I'll be damned if I let it happen twice. Take advantage of me once shame on you, let it happen twice, then shame on me. I'm not the one to just call women "bitches" or "goldiggers" etc., but many present themselves (sometimes unknowingly or due to it being such natural behavior for them due to other men in their life before me 'n such) as just that. Then I treat them accordingly & it's a problem..?? Geez..., don't blame me for being tight with my cash & keeping my game tight, blame them other suckas who ain't!!! Now they got these chicks programmed & thinking thats how guys should treat them. No honey, thats not all guys, just the suckers they have been dealing with so far. They can have everything in the world, & the finer things 'n all...
but it's not going to cost me anything.
On another note many chicks know it's not all about the money with me. That's why I prefer a lady who got it going on (personality, looks, money, etc.) on her own without my help. Its 50/50 in my relationships nowadays. If my woman scratches my back then I'll scratch hers, anything less & your playin' yourself fellas...
Since you're the one holding the purse, it all makes sense now.
Yes, I have a thread about holding her purse in the tokers den lol.
She bought this Coach Purse. It was list priced at $795 but we got it for something over $200. So she takes that list price and shows that to her friends. I have to step away when she does this and they all make oohs and awws sounds. One day while her sister in law was going through some emotional thing my girl gives her this purse. The sister in law thinks she spent $795 for it. So it is a kind of favor fraud thing.
And another coach purse story. She buys another purse for about as much as the one above. I thought it looked goofy, bright purple. So we leave where she bought it and go to visit my daughter. She shows the purse to my daughter who screams she loves it. My girl just hands it to her and tells her she bought it for her.
I really hate getting caught in the designer label part, but worse the lies I watch her go through about the stuff as well. She is lying to family about stuff that is not that important.
If that's what I think it means, then yup. But define "good".
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greenmatter
" She is lying to family about stuff that is not important"
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RED FLAG right there brother!!!!!!!!!!! ........ and the color of the purse or who has to hold it is not the issue
watch your 6 !!!!!
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RED FLAG right there brother!!!!!!!!!!! ........ and the color of the purse or who has to hold it is not the issue
watch your 6 !!!!!
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TOH and I are not rich, and money and material things don't mean shit. As long as we can pay our bills, pay for college for the kids, and go on vacation sometimes, life is good!!!! If a woman/man expects material things as a show of love, then they don't know what love is, and they are a waste of time.
I have to admit Castout, this is me to a T. I always call my wife over while doing projects. Then I get pissed when she needs my help all the sudden. I guess I am the typical guy, and now that you have brought this to my attention I will try to be better.
As far as money goes, I don't have it all, but I ain't broke. I am a home owner and own a couple cars. I hope to make as much money as a can in this life as legit as possible. Call me a capitalist, and I know it isn't popular to be rich these days, but somebody has to strive for it. I will try to gain wealth in almost any way possible, but stealing and fraud are not part of it. I also would not accept gifts such as purses and things of this nature from anybody. I like to provide for myself and my family, and give to charity as much as I can.
As far as money goes, I don't have it all, but I ain't broke. I am a home owner and own a couple cars. I hope to make as much money as a can in this life as legit as possible. Call me a capitalist, and I know it isn't popular to be rich these days, but somebody has to strive for it. I will try to gain wealth in almost any way possible, but stealing and fraud are not part of it. I also would not accept gifts such as purses and things of this nature from anybody. I like to provide for myself and my family, and give to charity as much as I can.
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sounds like kind of a jerk to me, sorry, calling it like i see it by your description!
i try to always be available to my wife if she ever needs help, that's part of what we are supposed to be doing as one that says he loves the other
i try to always be available to my wife if she ever needs help, that's part of what we are supposed to be doing as one that says he loves the other
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Classy@Home
PSYCHO ALERT!!!
Run like hell - do not look back.
Change your name, living place, looks, job, etc.
She's prob great in the sack, too - that makes it tougher to bail, but...
These "cute" little erratum will develop into full blown kill you as you sleep - get out now...
WonderWoman86
Member
Kony is really good about helping me with stuff 
I get so flustered when I can't do something, and he comes in like a superhero to help haha 
I get so flustered when I can't do something, and he comes in like a superhero to help haha 
I made Wifey a sandwich once...
I'm a pretty good guy.
I'm a pretty good guy.
you better not have spoilt the woman and washed up after !!
just leave shit all over the kitchen and walk off
just leave shit all over the kitchen and walk off
OK, yesterday I was training plants....a lil HIGH from edibles, and was asked to mix some nutes....of course I obliged, and after I was done with the nutes, I forgot all about training.......so about an hour later, after he was done with his work, he comes into the living room, where I am now stuck to thew couch. I hear him, cause I can't get my eyes to focus, to see him....and he says "Oh, hope you are comfortable....some of us had stuff to do, lucky you, that you can just chill". I incoherently replied "No worries". I tried telling him, that he sidetracked me, and this is what happens, lol. He said he didn't want to ruin my HIGH, so he wouldn't bug me about not finishing training. He also said he realized he can't have me take a break from doing what I am doing, to help him. I was so HIGH, but I thought" he has just had a breakthrough"!!! But then right after that, he said I better finish the training when I am not as HIGH!!!!! I love my CAVEMAN, for not ruining my HIGH, but I am awake and training while it is still dark outside, and he is snoozing.!!!!!!!!
One could always look at it as the caveman effecting a leadership role when faced with a wildcat strike.
Check the corporate charter as to the proper division of labor inputs to production flow.
There may be a managerial bottleneck in the chain.
Check the corporate charter as to the proper division of labor inputs to production flow.
There may be a managerial bottleneck in the chain.
My friend, you better run like hell form this one. You won't be able to believe a damn thing she ever says. Like yeah baby I bought this sexy outfit, fishnets, and stripper heels for you. Right after you find it smelling like perfume you can't stand and sticking outta one of the new "700.00" purses you bought that she hadn't had a chance to give away yet.
