Not to sound pushy but think about your end of life decisions. Better to do it when your not under distress or to leave it to another person to decide those questions for you. For your own medical requirements, don't make it so someone else has to make those end of life decisions. I mean would you want to be hooked up to machines that breathe for you, would you want someone hand feeding you. A terrible stroke can leave you dependent on others to do everything for you.Yeah - makes sense - I'd be very surprised if my wife snuffed it before me - since she is 23 years younger than I - and wouldn't want her to have any problems over whatever assets I might have left - when I shuffle off this mortal coil -
It's not something you want to leave or burden others with and people will not agree on matters and create animosity among family members.
I was at the hospital with my X-wife her father had a heart attack and laid on the lawn for an hour before found. He was brain dead and kept alive by medical equipment. He had no end of life papers and the wife decided to pull the plug and let him pass. The dying mans sister came into the hospital room and started calling the wife a murderer. Can you imagine in this time of such stress how this outburst caused so much anxiety and anger. It was wrong and could have been avoided by having made end of life decisions ahead of time.