Should I feel like an Assshole ... cause I do ... I think

[karma-shmarma]

"she" didnt start this thread
asking if "she" is an asshole
"he" did

ask your best friend Ograg
if he thinks your an asshole

 

[OGRaq]

"she" didnt start this thread
asking if "she" is an asshole
"he" did

ask your best friend Ograg
if he thinks your an asshole

haha. like i said, i'm over it, and i don't think anyone is an asshole, not even you.

aaaaaaaaaaaah hahahaha - LMFAO - my honor as a "soldier" has been lost, that will be the fuckin day.
Fact of the matter is the ONLY reason I MIGHT feel bad about this whole thing is that I MIGHT like her personality, not a trait alot of 10's share too often.

 

[Smoke68]

Anybody who commits adultery should feel like an asshole.
I slept with a girl who lied about her not having a husband and I still felt like an asshole for a while.
"Adultery is voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and one who is not his or her spouse. Some legal jurisdictions have defined it as "crime against marriage"
To be frank, it was voluntary on both parts, either one of you could have said no... neither did, now you both are assholes...

 

[PazVerdeRadical]

imho, the true test is if you can tell her husband what happened if he were to ask you about it; if you can tell him the truth like a gentleman, I think you are really over it, if not, it means you are ashamed and afraid to take responsability for your actions.
also, imho, she should tell her husband what went down if she wanted the relationship to continue. also hoping you wore protection. you never know these days, crazy kids...

 

[OGRaq]

imho, the true test is if you can tell her husband what happened if he were to ask you about it;

would not have a problem whatsoever doing so, would not be nervous anxious hessitnt or anting at all in doing so. if he asked, i would tell him. my only concern would be if he reacted unfavorably to the news and therefore try to put himself in jeopordy.

 

[PhenoMenal]

I can't help but thnk what i did was wrong.

Your heart is telling you what is right. LISTEN to it.

 

[Guest]

Wait, so you are gonna not tell him until he asks you?

Wow, some best friend you are!

 

[OGRaq]

Wait, so you are gonna not tell him until he asks you?

Wow, some best friend you are!

my best friend pretty much knows what happend/was gong to happen.

you might be confusing my best friend with her husband, which i do not know.

 

[PhenoMenal]

mate it's not rocket science - sleeping with a married woman is just wrong, there's no two ways about it. She's just as much in the wrong as you are, but yes - you are in the wrong.

Just remember - there are plenty of fish in the sea. You don't need to find a married one.

 

[Guest]

Yeah, aiding in cheating on someone is pretty lame. It's what I call a 'lack of character' or maybe in street lingo, 'being a douchebag'

 

[PhenoMenal]

Maybe not lack of character... we all make mistakes in the heat of the moment, but at least he recognises that he has fucked up. The question is - will he rectify his mistake?

 

[Guest]

i never met the dude, have seen him but i don't know him or talked to him so cant' say

but as far as he's concernred i can say i served 7 years in special forces and went through 2 marriages because of it so even though he isn't sf he's taking care of himself, so whatever he comes back to, he comes back to. it's a choice we all willingly know we are making going off like that, no matter what job we have.

are you saying that all men who go into the military are doing that with the knowledge and acceptance of the fact that his wife will cheat on him when he goes overseas? i think most guys actually trust their wives. i know that i sure as hell would never let a woman trap me in the prison of marriage if i didn't trust her 100%



p.s. ograg - just out of curiosity, how old are you?

 

[9Lives]

OGRaq you are not married...you can do whatever you please...her problem..not yours..

Send a letter to the husband about what a little slut his wife is! You'll be doing him a favour..

 

[cygnus]

I am glad I didn't grow up in your shoes . Your parents didn't teach you well .I hope he come back from his tour and kicks the shit out of you .

 

[cocktail frank]

it takes 2 to tango, remember that guys.
it's both their fault.
1 of 2 things is happening here,
either her husband isnt hitting it right, or she's a whore.
but eff it man, do what you gotta do.
if you didnt smash it somebody else would have.
women age like fruit, get em while their ripe.
once her looks wither away, she wont be worth the hassle.
get her while the tits are still up where they should be.
make sure you wrap that thing twice tho,
if she's banging an old man like you,
who knows how many others in town are in her swimming hole.
her husband should of known better than to marry a loose woman.
cant turn a ho into a housewife.

 

[panopticist]

Didn't the woman initiate contact in the first place?

You'd figure she wouldn't pull such a move considering she's the one that's married.
It's up to her to uphold her vows, not some random dude in a bar.

And the military dude can't really say shit to you, because it's his wife that pulling these stunts. Hell, I bet that's how she met him...

 

[OGRaq]

I am glad I didn't grow up in your shoes . Your parents didn't teach you well .I hope he come back from his tour and kicks the shit out of you .

that honestly could never happen. not being cocky or anything, but there's no way in hell he'd be to able to kick the shit out of me if things escaladed to that level. i actually wouldn't let it get to that level though.

anyhow i'm realizing now after my 3 hour nap, and pretty much have decided that there's nothing i can do, what's done is done, just keep my distance and don't let anything else happen. she just called me and wanted to meet for lunch because she left her phone in my car. i told her i was busy and i'd drop it off to her parents house and she could pick it up from there.

 

[OGRaq]

if she's banging an old man like you,

hahaha. not THAT old, though sometimes 30 does seem old, I do roughly 2-4 hours of muay thai and jiujitsu training and another hour weight training a day, so on those long rough days, I REALLY feel old from all the aches and pains.

 

[mangled]

Its just as much her fault as it was your fault......shit happens don't dwell on the past

 

[OG Redwood]

its the animal kingdom. you swooped on his chick because he left her...he had to realize that leaving to do a tour of duty would leave his relationship in peril, and now hes paying the price. it was going to happen anyways, you were just lucky that she chose you