Some people do not care about real life experiences. Just apply as the bottle says to cure mildew on roses and you'll be good smoking it.
The problem, and I'm not directing this at your experiences, is that many 'real life experiences' are barely a step above imagined fantasy through their lack of proper documentation and observations or variable isolation.
Mostly a vague remembrance of how shit went down and a dose of irrelevant emotional content to convince the reader.
Also for every vague experience that says neem oil ruined my buds, there's someone who says they use it and never had a problem. Which one do you believe? The one with facts to show, dosages, timing, PHI, etc..
Is is reasons like this one shouldn't get butt hurt when someone doesn't believe them.