My son turns 18 in days/Should I get high w/him?

[USMC-Toker]

if my dad smoked pot i'd be all for it, bring him like a half oz of dank as a present also. wonderful

 

[Paco]

yes you should, what better bonding experience could a father and son have. me and mine get high every night, and now we grow together.
paco

 

[Rastatrue]

Hey Now, I always wanted to smoke with my Dad. It would be strange turning your son on, why not let him bring the weed. Try a blunt with the young guy. See what turning these kids on. Them break out your stash, don't burn down the house!

 

[dumbfounded1600]

if you've really never been apart of his life then I wouldnt even try to smoke with him...he might find it awkward and kinda odd since hes 18 its okto smoke with him....if I were him i'd tell you to **** off

But!....if i were i'd be smoking a joint or blunt first talking with him n shit and ask him if he wants a toke...sit there and talk with him

 

[Guest]

Hey Now, I always wanted to smoke with my Dad. It would be strange turning your son on, why not let him bring the weed. Try a blunt with the young guy. See what turning these kids on. Them break out your stash, don't burn down the house!

dude this was a nice thread, we were just talking about getting your kids high, and then you gotta come in and start spittin some garbage about turning your kids on?!?!? you are a sick **** who in their right mind would want to turn their kids on???? sick pedo

 

[LoneStarGrower]

dude this was a nice thread, we were just talking about getting your kids high, and then you gotta come in and start spittin some garbage about turning your kids on?!?!? you are a sick **** who in their right mind would want to turn their kids on???? sick pedo

I think he meant turning them onto weed, as in introducing them to it if they haven't allready?, not a sexual reference if I understand correctly, and I hope I do....

 

[mars_attack_mar]

ofc i wouldnt smoke with my son , i dont think thats a straight behavior , dont do it it you are talking opinions

 

[George Hayduke]

my dad smoked for like 20 yrs. but he hasn't smoked in a very long time. which i would pinch from him i was a lot younger. a few years ago my sister and i got my dad a nug for Christmas along with his other present. he told us to smoke it and he said he was done with that stuff. he doesn't care if i smoke it at all though. in fact i've smoked with several of his friends one night.
my dad is an ol hippy... hell my sister is named after an allman brothers song. ill let you guys guess if its jessica or melissa.

edit: i just did the math and he smoked way longer than 20 years. lol looks like the apple doesnt fall far from the tree. all his kids smoke.

 

[Harry Gypsna]

dude this was a nice thread, we were just talking about getting your kids high, and then you gotta come in and start spittin some garbage about turning your kids on?!?!? you are a sick **** who in their right mind would want to turn their kids on???? sick pedo

Turning someone in ganja speak is to hook some up woth their 1st smoke or to put someone in touch with a supply.... nothing to do with paedophilia.... If your gonna say at least spell it its paedo

 

[dumbfounded1600]

Depends man....if your relationship with your son is good or bad IMO....if you want to be a good father and be a good role model for him...don't ever smoke with your kid...let it be unless he comes to you with a nug or an oz and asks YOU to burn with him...otherwise your just teaching bad parenting...I agree with a lot of these people where let your son ask you if would like to smoke the kind bud!

 

[NiteTiger]

Instead of leaving a nug on the floor, which poses the problem mentioned above (Gee Dad, what's that on the floor?), why not 'accidentally' leave a bowl on the table, or papers or something?

Seems like that would be a non-threatening intro. "Oops! Dont mention that to your mom, ok? *chuckle*"

Just a thought.

But, it comes down to you, your son, and your relationship. We can offer all the opinions in the world, but it doesn't mean squat. If you're not sure of where you and your son stand, put more time into that before you spend time worried about whether you should smoke your boy out.

Smoking with him is not going to build a relationship - it may enhance one, but it won't create one.

 

[LoneStarGrower]

Hard for any of us to truly say since we don't know your relationship with him, but one thing to keep in mind is a vengeful ex wife, I know from personl experience that divorce creates a lot of animosity in a family and even if your ex wife has been "layin low" for a while, if your son mentions that you smoke/grow to her, it may be just what she was looking for to "punish you" for being such an "evil husband/bad dad/ect ect/". It would be nice to be able to toke with your son I'm sure, but it isn't worth going to jail for.

 

[dumbfounded1600]

LoneStarGRowers right....my moms a straight snitch even though she did drugs hardcore before she found out she was pregnate with me....I wouldn't even do it or let him know you smoke....let him come to you if he smokes or not

 

[rexamus616]

He knows you smoke, Leader, so if he wants to smoke with you, he'll ask. And like others in this thread have said; let your kid know they can come to you with questions about pot or drugs....

I'd ask him if he smokes, then tell him what you know about it regardless of what he says, maybe even share some stories/experiences, and let him know what it was like for you when you were his age, or something....

Then again i liked the bud on the floor technique: If its gone, he smokes, if its still there, either he didn't see it or he doesn't smoke.... in which case i'd ask where this bud on the floor came from....


Anyway, good luck.

 

[OffroadFever]

I guess I'll weigh in for what it's worth. My mom and dad both smoked copious amounts of herb in college and before "settling down". They got divorced shortly after i was born and have pretty different ideas on how to raise kids so it's kinda interesting to get both perspectives. My dad thinks that the social climate was just so much more accepting of weed use back in the 70s and that it's not worth the risk in today's society. My mom is more of the mindset that whatever you do in your home on your property is your business. She didn't want me to smoke in high school or anywhere where i might be at risk of getting caught. But after that as long as I kept it low profile, she had no objections.

I went on a trip with my dad to Costa Rica last year (beautiful place) and we were offered herb several times. I don't make it known to him that I smoke, but since it wasn't as harsh a penalty over there I figured he might wanna smoke together. But no, he said he'd have a cigar with me but that weed was just out of the question. I think he might have been worried about a drug test or something, but that doesn't really make sense for a guy in his position.

Anyway, I think that it's fine to make it known that you have smoked and that you aren't opposed to it. Then if the situation presents itself and ya don't think the ex-wife can use it later to discredit ya, then by all means smoke out with him. I love smokin out with my mom, we have some nice conversations while passin the bowl.

 

[Guest]

I think he meant turning them onto weed, as in introducing them to it if they haven't allready?, not a sexual reference if I understand correctly, and I hope I do....

lol i know he didn't really mean it like that i was just kidding. but i really have never heard someone say that they turned someone on meaning something other than sexually

 

[kmk420kali]

Depends man....if your relationship with your son is good or bad IMO....if you want to be a good father and be a good role model for him...don't ever smoke with your kid...let it be unless he comes to you with a nug or an oz and asks YOU to burn with him...otherwise your just teaching bad parenting...I agree with a lot of these people where let your son ask you if would like to smoke the kind bud!

So you are saying you think smoking weed is bad??
I refuse to hide my smoking from my kids...as it would imply that I think it is wrong-- Like I said before...Education is the key...You are the Teacher--

 

[The_Leader]

heres what i did. i talk w/him and told him i would never look down on him for his life. i just want him happy. i told him if he wanted to try Any drug to ask me 1st and told him why.( street elements) he is a mommas boy, but it seems his inner person is screaming "freedom".

he knows i smoke in word only. i introduced nothing to my child and the nug i was talking on letting him find wouldnt have pointed at me as the owner. i would have played it like it wasnt mine.

thanks everyone.

 

[happyherb]

dont know you or your son and the whole story to go with it(and the ex mrs)....some good points already brought up...food for thought !

dont know how i'd be in that position yet?....my boys only 6 and 7 ....(thou the 7 yr old just caused me shit by saying i was teaching him how to grow...no.. what i told him he was only 7 and 7 yr olds dont grow weed...i guess that answer wasnt enough and he told mum dad was gona teach him...little bugger hahaha)

im early 30's ...my dads early 60's....cant say ive talked to him in years and longer not seen him ....he smoked and grew when i was a boy ( i rember the family looking at these plants and attention bought to them but had no idea being under 5 i guess at the time) was at his house at age 13 seen some weed in foil mmmm dad still smokes....was told by him in my mid 20's he was a bit busy for awhile as he was parinoied as hell looking after a mates grow house while he was on holiday earning him self some cash for his own holiday hahaha did that trip me out but in a funny way ...tripper.......... i guess with not knowing the guy the best(not around much in my life) but still knowing about him and weed....if he asked me for a choof....i'd say yea... but ya cant use my bong!!!

thou on the outher hand if i had no idead he smoked and he asked me..... well being me i'd probly wouldnt want the guy to get the wrong idea about me/ get of on the wrong foot and think he may think bad of me????(personaly i think i think too much) so i'd be inclined to say no............

say no to drugs.......yup was stupid enough to once...at 16 i knew my bloody genius of a gardener gradfather was growing outdoor cash crops in his mid 70's....we were walking down a path oneday at the time just being acknowledged by him not be a kid anymore and worth talking to hahaha....duno if he knew i knew he grew ...but i did and knew they were on the outher side of a talll fence we were just walking by...he taped a grape vine and said "hey......you want some of this green stuff ?".....ahhh crap i knew exactly what he was saying....but said NO .....didnt want him to think bad of me ....was it a test?....probly not he just wanted to share......not long after he died....my mum ended up with a cuboard from his room.....she found somthing in it thou she thew it away b4 she told me but she found a frikn big leaf much bigger than a dinner plate..........man i wish i had of tryed my grandfathers weed .... i missed out grrrr.

so yea...can come down to many things.....would it all feel right? is there a rush to get this deed done?.....havn a bowl with some weed in it mulled in veiws not a bad idea(unless mum is gona use it on you?)......he may surprise you and say "hey can i grap a cone?" without you askn him ....ya might scare him off with askn him?....maybe little by little (again is mum gona make trouble?) let him know your veiws and you smoke and it may just flow if its right i guess........

just my thoughts man...good luck...enjoy your son...HH. =]-~

 

[happyherb]

heres what i did. i talk w/him and told him i would never look down on him for his life. i just want him happy. i told him if he wanted to try Any drug to ask me 1st and told him why.( street elements) he is a mommas boy, but it seems his inner person is screaming "freedom".

he knows i smoke in word only. i introduced nothing to my child and the nug i was talking on letting him find wouldnt have pointed at me as the owner. i would have played it like it wasnt mine.

thanks everyone.

ahhhh you got in while i was writting ...IMO i recon thats a good slow start...cool....if it will happen it happens at some point...all the best.HH =]-~