My Son Blackmailed Me... then Snitched!!!

[doob-e-pufr]

Hey folks. Couple years ago, I got custody of him. He was being abused by his stepdad. He was a junior in high school. My son at that point had never seen me even drink alcohol. Although his scumbag mother tried keep us apart his whole life, I never missed a weekend, vacation, holiday. We've always been tight. The day his mother called me to come get him out of her house, I was working 300 miles from home, and had my best grow to this point (thanks to y'all) 2 to 3 weeks from the chop. While I knew that I was gonna have to quit growing until he left for college, my plan was to keep him on road with me until I could finish grow and tear down. The second week I had him, he wanted to stay home and hang with his buddies. Because I never "partied" in front of him, and my grow closet is stealthy and lockable I agreed to let him stay home. What I did not know was he was smokin weed and drinkin too!! Fast foward six months, he totaled my wife's car while partying after he had got off work. My family is fairly prominent in hometown, no one was hurt, so he was not charged with anything. My folks were a week away from buying him a car. When I told him that unless he could buy own car/insurance, that deal was off. This is when he informed me that he and a friend of his had found my grow that week he was home, that he had pictures saved of it and if I did not let him drive, he would go to cops. I lost it. Although I never struck him I did put him in floor and assured him that if better not do that, if not out of love, then out of fear. He ran away that night. He was also arrested. When I went to pick him up, he told cops he was afraid of me and about my grow. They wanted to come to house and search. I would not consent without warrant. By the time they got one my house was clean. Been a forum member since 04. This is where I learned how to grow. I did not even look at site for over a year. I think it's been long enough now, what do you think? I miss the grow and y'all bad, please give opinion!!!

http://www.icmag.com/ic/gallery/sho...gallery/showphoto.php?photo=71615&ppuser=3691

 

[Homegrow3r]

I think your son has major issues and needs to grow up, he has no honour for snitching on a fellow dopehead, his father and his friend all at once, he sounds like a bit of a shit bag child to be honest.

It's a pity, but if he's still in the picture then I'd not do it.

 

[elbows19]

your sons a dumbass, he will learn later in life that he cannot handle situations that way, just wait and he will snitch on the wrong people.

 

[Pirate]

Agree with HG3r. If he's still around...........don't do it.

You don't want to hear what I would say about the ratting you out. That is some heavy shit.

What are ya gonna get him for his 18th B-day...........an man sized ass whoopin?

 

[HindukushMaster]

like my father always told me, I made u... I can destroy you. I live by that

 

[bigmoneygrip]

fuck no dont grow if he is still around and he probably didnt know better since he was abused by his step father. he probably regrets it too! Kids do smoe messed up shit

 

[BurmeseDragon]

Nice gallery, sorry about the news. Just goes to show that you can never ever trust anyone, ever.

The truth is you probably could of started back up after they came up empty in their search, that doesn't look that great when they go back for another warrant. Did they find anything at all? Nutrients, pots, lights, anything even associated?

Your probably safe in terms of being watched, but they usually have a list of "users". You would be amazed at the information that they keep on file forever. I know it sucks, we supposedly live in a world that preaches forgiveness but they don't integrate that into policy.

Maybe outdoors would be you best bet, just have a micro grow inside for seeds, cuttings and vegging.

Do you talk to your son anymore? That is a really dirty dead that he did, I mean the blackmail is one thing but then to fallow through; there really wasn't anything to gain from that other than his own ego inflation in a very unhealthy way.

 

[bigmoneygrip]

like my father always told me, I made u... I can destroy you. I live by that

right the fuck on !!!! thats what i tell my kids and they better believe it too!

 

[I N Hail]

Sorry to hear that doob,

I would not take the chance, When you told leo not without a warrent,im sure in their minds you have something to hide.and u might still be on their radar

Beating his ass,prob not good ideal (if ur growing again) hell he already told on you ONCE,

A DEADBOLT lock on ur grow door would have been good to have (too late now)

Hopefully as he gets older he will learn ratting someone out just b-cuz he pissedoff.

There is always the chance leo might be asking him still today are u growing (their always looking for RATS) and a kid that will tell on his own dad ,WILL RAT ON ANYONE

 

[Mickymouse]

Cops came and took all my shit one time and said they would be back.That was 15 years ago.They never came back.Short story.I ordered seeds they found them.they called state police.2 detectives knock on my door.They want to look in closets.I say not without a warrent.They say we can get one tell ya what if we come in and find a small closet we will take your shit and leave no questions. I think ok let them in they take my shit and leave and say they will be back.

 

[JohnnyToke]

your relationship with your son is far more important than a personal grow. If he is still welcome in your home, he will always be snooping to see what you have hidden from him this time. if he isnt welcome, whats to stop him from going to the cops again down the road even if he doesnt know if there is a grow there or not. Leo will always want to check it out. its better to just not grow. even if he is off to college or down the road married with kids, he will always be looking around when he comes to visit.

it sucks but once the stealth has been compromised by a family member, there is no more stealth. im sure he has told other family members (ex & ex inlaws etc) of your previous grow as well not to mention his friends so with that assumption or possibility, if it were me, my growing days at home would be over.

JT

 

[GrooveanGrow]

WOW!!!....

As for starting back up, If its been a couple of years since that incident and you haven't had further issues, And your Son no longer lives with you. then I think you should be OK to setup shop again.

Your Son, No offense bro, but that kid is cold hearted to the max. I simply can not believe that he would blackmail you and then actually follow through with it. I don't even want to imagine what might have happened to me if I pulled something like that on my folks.

I hope things are better now with you and the kiddo, So whatever happened to him anyway?

 

[herb weedmen]

kids ,gods pay back for one drunk night ..aye ....yeah i have to agree ,if your kids still hanging around your crazy to try ..but if he is getting hi and is an adult then maybe you can bring him back into the fold ..we love our kids no matter what kind of shit heads they turn out to be ..after all, they are our shit heads and we made them ..so they carry apart of us in them no matter what ..if you bring him in to the show and make him a responable partner then maybe he will earn your trust back ..remember its always better to keep these folks closer to us ..much easyer to keep an eye on ..my kid was always stealing weed from me ,which i no is nothing like narcing someone out but i told her i can give her more weed then she can ever steal from me ..i have not been ripped off since ...and it only cost me a 1/4 each harvest..shit thats just one bud..

oh if you do bring him back into the familly then you need to teach him the right way and how this really works ..because if you dont ,someones going to stick a bullet in his head and we no you dont want that ..ratting folks out is what gets people killed ..just tell him he gets one pass and he's used it all up ..



your best bet is not to tho..


good luck..sounds like your going to need it..


herb weedmen

 

[doob-e-pufr]

I have not seen him but a couple times in the last year or so. I check on him via phone. I do contribute to college expenses. He is not allowed at the house. I'm "old skool" about ratting on people though. I'm not sure if I will ever FORGET what he done. But as a parent, I made mistakes too, and put myself in harm's way.I do FORGIVE him and want him to be happy and successful. I do think that he regrets what he done.

No Burmese, they did not find so much as a rolling paper. My lawyer(friend) said that any pics of him and a grow op only incriminated him. The biggest thing that I have trouble getting over is my wife has always been more of a mother to him than his real one. If it would have went bad for her, it would have been bad for him. He might could jusitify a little anger at me, but she did not deserve it. The other big thing is my parents. It has tarnished our relationship because they did not know I even smoked since high school.

He is doing good in school and has not been in any trouble. His buddy who in on the plot with him, is terrified of me for some reason

I've never lost the urge of wanting to grow again. Mainly because I have not really smoked anything close to my own since. And I stumbled upon some BOG blue moon rocks and Ak47 beans I forgotten about.

Thanks y'all for letting me get a little bit off my chest. Y'all are the only ones I can share this with. Another reason I back in the loop.

 

[Pirate]

Well ya didn't mention the AK47 beans !!

GROW EM !!

 

[Megas]

send e'm back to the step dad

 

[Mr. Freeman]

pretty fucked up shit. Sorry to hear that. I'm gonna start teaching some golden rules to my kids. I dedicate this bowl to ya.

What he did is just wrong, even I knew this rule back when I was 6 years old.

You can always grow, just move out where he ratted on you and don't tell him where your new home is, just visit him instead.

Peace

 

[moses224]

Wow as screwed up as it is hes your son so you got to stick with him.....i think you know what you need to do both with your garden and him.....best of luck and thanks for sharing the story,,,also beautiful pics my man

 

[KUSHEATER1]

HE WANTS LOVE SHOWER HIM WITH IT AND PLEASE STAY SAFE(oops caps)

 

[One Love]

kids these days...

They want this

For doing little more than this and this


Sounds like you escaped a potentially serious situation here. Like others have said, I couldn't imagine what my family would do if i ratted on someone. I like what weedmen herb said though: "oh if you do bring him back into the familly then you need to teach him the right way and how this really works ..because if you dont ,someones going to stick a bullet in his head and we no you dont want that ..ratting folks out is what gets people killed ..just tell him he gets one pass and he's used it all up .."


if its been a few years you could be good to go.