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I am heart broken
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Cuddles
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Sorry for your loss/learning experience Hubbleman. I had a friend in your situation and I gave him one of my little love bug pups for something to love that would love him back, unconditionally
He worked that situation and used that dog as bait to successfully attract women, lots of women in fact.
who can resist a cute puppy ?
My love used to call my pup ole lickery cause he would get happy and lick everything.hes not a puppy anymore but yeah.adopt a puppy and girls will talk to you.
Cuddles
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yes but only if the guy treats the dog well enough
You know, I´ve seen men with those tiny `handbag´ dogs around...it´s pretty funny .
yes but only if the guy treats the dog well enough
You know, I´ve seen men with those tiny `handbag´ dogs around...it´s pretty funny .
Oh my gosh, cuddles.i wish I could show you a vid but I don't know how.my dog is part pit and so is his new girlfriend.he is 9 and she is 3.they play tug of war and it is so cool.they are so strong they almost pulled my arms out of my sockets.he is 8 or 9 but he's in better shape than me and he's got a young girl friend! Lol
That's the whole point!
My friend is a tall cowboy, wears the hat and boots, and little doggie follows him everywhere, right on his heels with no leash in sight!
He causes quite a stir wherever he goes, in fact, I'm thinking of asking for a kickback as he's been working this situation for 7 yrs. now.
It's just not fair to the womenfolk!
The douche bag friend of hers, ive known him for as long as ive knwon my ex girlfriend.
hes a enemy of mine and he hates me.
I had NO FUCKING IDEA my girlfridn be friended him behind my back and NEVER even mentioned it.
Some times in the past i pissed him off which wasnt evena fault of mine, so he voved revenge, he said some day hes gonnna catch me and hurt me plenty.
This man is very influential and has a lot of friends a lot of people listen to him.
Yesterday i confronted my girlfriend: you friends wants to phsyically absue me, some one who u loved ... is that really OK with you......
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She said .......... yes
Just because faggot friend wanst to hurt me now my ex wants to hurt me too.
My day cant get any worse than this.
This morning i woke up with first light and realised i still love her.......
I just cant believe it. In 1 week, from being a happy couple, we turned into enemies and now she even wants to physically hurt me.
Some one who i devoted so much love, time and affection now want to fuck me over
So much for our 14 year old love eh
hes a enemy of mine and he hates me.
I had NO FUCKING IDEA my girlfridn be friended him behind my back and NEVER even mentioned it.
Some times in the past i pissed him off which wasnt evena fault of mine, so he voved revenge, he said some day hes gonnna catch me and hurt me plenty.
This man is very influential and has a lot of friends a lot of people listen to him.
Yesterday i confronted my girlfriend: you friends wants to phsyically absue me, some one who u loved ... is that really OK with you......
.....
She said .......... yes
Just because faggot friend wanst to hurt me now my ex wants to hurt me too.
My day cant get any worse than this.
This morning i woke up with first light and realised i still love her.......
I just cant believe it. In 1 week, from being a happy couple, we turned into enemies and now she even wants to physically hurt me.
Some one who i devoted so much love, time and affection now want to fuck me over
So much for our 14 year old love eh
Cuddles
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It´s not possible to switch feelings on and off. I´ve tried, it´s impossible. The only thing you can do is to wait for the feelings to fade off.
That guy sounds like such a wanker, it´s hard to believe he has any friends at all ! And your ex sounds like a bit of a bimbo to be honest, and kinda spineless on top.
That guy sounds like such a wanker, it´s hard to believe he has any friends at all ! And your ex sounds like a bit of a bimbo to be honest, and kinda spineless on top.
Is your grow illegal, and can they get you busted?
I remain single as the biggest reason to get busted is an ex that's unhappy with you. It doesn't matter who leaves who. There is a trail of busts following breakups that reaches the dawn of time. She is now poisoned and you need removing from their lives. She thinks you are too angry, but it's fine if he hurts you. That's not a real position. She's avoiding the truth. She can't be trusted.
If he didn't know you grew before, he does now. That would explain her position, and she's telling you, she has decided, he can hurt you. So what sort of conversations are they having.
Text telling her "If you message again, say who you are, as you are deleting the number so as not to keep bothering them"
That is the best closure. It's her gain, and you being out the picture. Which is what they want.
Don't say anything else. That threatens their relationship. You don't have any relationship with either of them.
Ultimately, she won't have change her number and blow up your life, if you leave the unworthy bitch alone. Though this guy has the OK to do as he pleases.
I remain single as the biggest reason to get busted is an ex that's unhappy with you. It doesn't matter who leaves who. There is a trail of busts following breakups that reaches the dawn of time. She is now poisoned and you need removing from their lives. She thinks you are too angry, but it's fine if he hurts you. That's not a real position. She's avoiding the truth. She can't be trusted.
If he didn't know you grew before, he does now. That would explain her position, and she's telling you, she has decided, he can hurt you. So what sort of conversations are they having.
Text telling her "If you message again, say who you are, as you are deleting the number so as not to keep bothering them"
That is the best closure. It's her gain, and you being out the picture. Which is what they want.
Don't say anything else. That threatens their relationship. You don't have any relationship with either of them.
Ultimately, she won't have change her number and blow up your life, if you leave the unworthy bitch alone. Though this guy has the OK to do as he pleases.
Cuddles
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At least you didn´t marry her because then you´d also be screwed financially. If you´ve been giving her any financial assistance, make sure you stop. If she wants any she can get it from that wanker.
You don't still love her, you love someone who looks just like her but never existed in the 1st place, it was all an illusion and she's shown you who she really is!
.......... so listen up, hear the unspoken(?) collusion going on. You are the victim of tag-team trolling at it's finest, one of the many 'Games People Play', but these games going on
can have serious consequences.
Do yourself a BIG FAVOR and just cut bait and walk away. DON'T LOOK BACK. See the flashing red light off in the distance, it means STOP!
St. Phatty
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Is it a good time to vacation in Thailand ?
This guy is on permanent vacation in Thailand ...
http://streetmeatasia.com/
This guy is on permanent vacation in Thailand ...
http://streetmeatasia.com/
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homie, i gotta say two cents worth.
i just got out of a 10 year one, and for me it was a case of love addiction and codependence.
there is an author named pia mellody who wrote a book on each topic. all about where these things come from and how to deal. basically there are 2 wounded people, wounded from young, attaching in unhealthy ways because they never learned anything better. any parent issues, societal issues etc can play into it, overcontrol, or no care at all. usually one of the two. we went to a nonviolent communications therapist who was awesome and helped us figure we were in a toxic relationship and it was a loop....
avoidant and addict.... one is the main addict, with tendencies of love avoidant, hidden. the other is the avoidant, but with hidden love addiction. it will loop, you need clarity of vision and direction and energy to get away from the loop its an addiction. maybe get a book if you need help its a good read for this stuff.
and get a dog. be happy she doesnt have your dog i got mine.
edit: Moose eater is in the house!!! much aloha friend
i just got out of a 10 year one, and for me it was a case of love addiction and codependence.
there is an author named pia mellody who wrote a book on each topic. all about where these things come from and how to deal. basically there are 2 wounded people, wounded from young, attaching in unhealthy ways because they never learned anything better. any parent issues, societal issues etc can play into it, overcontrol, or no care at all. usually one of the two. we went to a nonviolent communications therapist who was awesome and helped us figure we were in a toxic relationship and it was a loop....
avoidant and addict.... one is the main addict, with tendencies of love avoidant, hidden. the other is the avoidant, but with hidden love addiction. it will loop, you need clarity of vision and direction and energy to get away from the loop its an addiction. maybe get a book if you need help its a good read for this stuff.
and get a dog. be happy she doesnt have your dog i got mine.edit: Moose eater is in the house!!! much aloha friend
You don't still love her, you love someone who looks just like her but never existed in the 1st place, it was all an illusion and she's shown you who she really is!
.......... so listen up, hear the unspoken(?) collusion going on. You are the victim of tag-team trolling at it's finest, one of the many 'Games People Play', but these games going on
can have serious consequences.
Do yourself a BIG FAVOR and just cut bait and walk away. DON'T LOOK BACK. See the flashing red light off in the distance, it means STOP!
BAMM! and then... CG drops the mic
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