GIRL's GOT SKILLS

[dansbuds]

Head up & chin up Aspen , you got this !!!! you should be proud of yourself for handling this the way you did !!! even the courts knew you did the right thing & didn't charge you ! you'll make your cousin happy & proud & zoey will be in great hands !!! you have a great big kind heart & she knew it !

 

[dansbuds]

Dont take to long to post some of these guys are real old if you know what I mean. And I dont need to know about it. Just about your girls is what I want to know.

well her garden is probably going to be on hold for a bit untill she gets her life changes in order , so lets all cut her some slack on garden updates huh guys

she'll be back in full bloom sooner than later .

 

[dansbuds]

if anyone really cares enough to know whats going on ... PM me & i'll give you the details . but lets leave it to PM's so her laundry isn't public knowledge .

 

[~star~crash~]

I can already guess from Dans post...it must be some kind of custodial issue with a child

 

[MrBungle]

This has to be some kind of record..... longest running non-grow grow journal?

just bustin chops, hope all goes well....

 

[Aspenou812]

Yes Star.... You're on the right track...PM Dan your a friend that should know what's going on...

 

[Aspenou812]

I would imagine a fair number of us here have spent some time in the lock up for one reason or another. If you want to keep details private, i can sure understand that. Rather know you're doing ok than know a bunch of details. Sounds like you're already finding silver linings to things. That's great to hear.

I have a lot to figure out... things i never thought i would have to figure out... and I am no longer my only concern... It has been a very hard summer for me but i feel good. had a very hard taken loss and gained more responsibility than i have ever imagined i would have to accept... PM Dan Ona he will copy and paste my pm for you... your a friend and should know....

 

[Ichabod Crane]

Child issues suck. Seen them destroy many people when the courts get involved. The courts suck when kids are involved.

Best of luck Aspen. Hope it works out for the best with every one involved.

 

[dansbuds]

I feel like I have to say for Aspens sake , that its not a custody matter . Aspen is a new mom because her cousin passed on due to a heart attach & willed it that aspen was to become her adopted mom if anything should ever happen to her . all paperwork done & paid for before hand . so all she had to do was go pick up the girl & start a life with the girl as a new mom .... as if all that wasn't enough to overwhelm a person !!!!! but thats where the shit hit the fan . the cousins husband was being an asshole to the kid & had to be beaten down , which he was . theres alot more to it !!!! but thats the skinny of it without going into much detail .
So aspen has an awful lot on her plate at the moment & could use all your support !!!

I hope i didn't overstep my bounds Aspen !!1 you know i have nothing but the best intentions for you !

 

[unregistered190]

It's all good, rock on and do your thing Aspen. Good vibes out to you

 

[Aspenou812]

I feel like I have to say for Aspens sake , that its not a custody matter . Aspen is a new mom because her cousin died & willed it that aspen was to become her adopted mom if anything should ever happen to her . all paperwork done & paid for before hand . so all she had to do was go pick up the girl & start a life with the girl as a new mom .... as if all that wasn't enough to overwhelm a person !!!!! but thats where the shit hit the fan . the cousins husband was being an asshole to the kid & had to be beaten down , which he was . theres alot more to it !!!! but thats the skinny of it without going into much detail .
So aspen has an awful lot on her plate at the moment & could use all your support !!!

I hope i didn't overstep my bounds Aspen !!1 you know i have nothing but the best intentions for you !

No Dan i dont think you could overstep... It's all good

 

[bugman52]

im beganing to sound like dan.im out of reps lol
Best Wishes to u aspen U Got this.

 

[unclefishstick]

thats a biggie alright...talk about stepping off into the deep end!
just do what you always do...rock it!!

 

[packerfan79]

Hey Aspenous, garden or no garden, is not important. We wish you the best. I have no doubt that you will do what's best in the situation. As a parent the safety and well being, should be of the utmost importance. Unfortunately their are sick people who, don't do what's right. I am sure your roll in the child's life, gives the child the best possible life considering the tragic circumstances. All my best to you Aspen.

 

[Dawn Patrol]

Wishing you all the best Aspen, you'll get it figured out!

 

[Grizz]

there is nothing like being a parent, its one hell of a job but rewarding , love her cause she deserves it, a pain in the arse they are but its a good pain, if you need anything you know where to find us

 

[Aspenou812]

All of you guys are fucking awesome... Thank you all.

 

[onavelzy]

All of you guys are fucking awesome... Thank you all.

Family over all.

Going from just me and my wife to having a child was a huge change to my prior concepts of what was important.

I'm glad she has someone as focused on doing the best that they can as you are to look out for her Aspen.

 

[Aspenou812]

I had a good day today... Just wanted to say that much... I learned more about what has been driving this to happen.. quiet possibly the very best day of my life... It wasn't a sudded decision that brought me my daughter.. come to find out it was years in the making...Little Dove has known all about this for half of her life and she has waited... Keeping her promise and and keeping this supprise a secret. It's funny how you can have your prospective shifted by such life events... When a life long dream long sense forgotten becomes your relaity.... Things that were valualved last week in my life just aren't as important as my Little Dove... my Dobermans a close second , but I'm so proud and honored... Like I said it was a good day... Sitting back I. The sun with her by my side sipping on a juice box is just about as good as it gets... We're going g to be fine... This was all ment to be even though it turned I to a shit show landing me in jail for a while... Funny thing is I would do it all over again... Every bit...
I'm sure I'll have some questions down the road for you experienced parents.. and I'm sure I'll fumble things from time to time but that's ok.... Every step I have taken in my life was for myself.. and largely by my self... I finally have someone else to fight for, someone that will be watching my every move because she wants to be in like me.. someone to keep me on my toes. I feel like I could fly to the moon just to show her that it's possible... She's amazing my Little Dove... And I have realised a long forgotten dream.... She has given me a reason to be so driven...

So now that I have a college bill to pay for in the future...How can I make that happen...
Damn right... After all this is a grow thread...
So in one month grow show will start again without fail...twice the size as last time.. and that's just how it's going to be.. I'm going to detacate this grow to my Little Dove.. So I know y'all will give me the time to workout a few things and get a rotuine going... Let's see if this girl's got skills...but I'll warn you all now.. I have never felt as driven to succeed in my life... I have never had this much purpose in my life and when I start it's on... I have no Intention of slowing down or taking a breather between harvest...Give me a month.. and it's game on.... Thank each and every one of you for your showing of support espially you My Dear FRIEND DAN...

 

[dansbuds]

Glad to help in any way i can ! your an amazing woman & you'll be a great Mom !