Girlfriend is demanding I open the locked door. What to say?

[Khaleel]

the money and lifestyle are too good to quit growing

yes, you have it correct there...

the friendship and sex are too good quit the relationship.

NO!!!! that is INCORRECT!! lol sorry for the shouting. you are a high-value, sociable guy who has enough self-control to grow weed without actually smoking it (i would call you fucking insane but hey that's me ). you tell her what she gets out of the relationship. she complies with your wishes. you do not comply with hers.

this is where you get jedi mind trick and shit on her. ask her why she can't just trust you, and if she had someone betray her trust in the past. it isn't about her, but she is making it about her. so go ahead and make it about her (that's what women want in every fucking conversation anyway, my friends lol). ask her what her problem is. pretend you are really upset about the fact that she can't just take your word for it, and you wonder why she can't drop it.

i would turn it around on her. besides, if you cave on this she will walk all over you until that friendship and the sex turn into so-so and you are pissed off that you tore your shit down for a bitch. i know this part from experience.

NEVER TEAR YOUR GROW DOWN FOR A FEMALE.

females come and go, man. they always feel like they won't, but they always do. and when they don't, you wish they did (and they you). we have set ourselves up for misery-eternal by pretending we can be satisfied with the same thing/girl over and over again. the only gal that fits that bill is mary jane...

good luck brotha. may the force be with you.

 

[can.i.buz]

It's funny how this guy isn't even a part of this conversation anymore but it's still going. It's an interesting topic. I'm wondering if having a picture of someone helping you in your grow would be enough to keep them from saying anything. I just had all of my marijuana charges dropped so the local task force knows about me and has to leave me alone. I got into the system because someone very close to me called the cops.

 

[AmeriSkunk]

soooo many hilarious ass posts I cant even quote them all. I was just thinking to myself, what kind of an immature twat even thinks about letting someone know full swing into growing. what a tard, cant even think for himself. He should give up growing because he doesnt have the brain capasity to keep his self out of jail

 

[GeorgeWBush]

NO!!!! that is INCORRECT!! lol sorry for the shouting. you are a high-value, sociable guy who has enough self-control to grow weed without actually smoking it (i would call you fucking insane but hey that's me ).

lol I was assuming he gave it up for her.

You tell her what she gets out of the relationship. she complies with your wishes. you do not comply with hers.

This is where you get jedi mind trick and shit on her. ask her why she can't just trust you, and if she had someone betray her trust in the past. it isn't about her, but she is making it about her. so go ahead and make it about her (that's what women want in every fucking conversation anyway, my friends lol). ask her what her problem is. pretend you are really upset about the fact that she can't just take your word for it, and you wonder why she can't drop it.

Totally unnecessary. Stop watching 'Mystery the pickup artist' and remember women are actually people. If you really need to be 'the man' and dominate her and pretend you're upset to get a result that's cool man lots of guys do that, but eventually you gotta grow up. There's no need to lie or pretend or fake anything. That kind of stuff is gonna eat you up inside eventually.

Have your grow, have an actual job as cover so you don't have to lie about what you do, and have a grow that is so well hidden that only the people you want to know will ever have a clue.

females come and go, man. they always feel like they won't, but they always do. and when they don't, you wish they did (and they you). we have set ourselves up for misery-eternal by pretending we can be satisfied with the same thing/girl over and over again. the only gal that fits that bill is mary jane... .

Words of wisdom right there. that's more what I'm talkin' about!

My only addition is that even with mary jane you need some variety