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Girlfriend is demanding I open the locked door. What to say?
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Durdy
hahaha SOTF, you've been cracking me up all night, I'd give more rep but sadly i cant! hahahahavv
Captain Ginyu
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You can't live a lie forever with the same person. You can change friends & start over, however.
seems to me like 75% of you dudes like to play wit fire and only date crazies. ive been w my girl for nearly two years and we share everything. i trust her......thats it. we have lived together for 18 months, and there has always been 1200w or more going. but, besides ya'll, her and my mother, no one else knows.
i feel like i must be an amazing judge of character. its not at all hard for me to figure out if someone is a threat to me. good luck
i feel like i must be an amazing judge of character. its not at all hard for me to figure out if someone is a threat to me. good luck
Ah yes, if you're a good judge of character then all the rest is budda. If you can't, then god be with you, because no one else will.
BagseedSamurai
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Just say no. If it isn't time to show her, it isn't time to tell her shit, either.
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SCROG McDuck
yes, "some".. but which ones?
and then there is always the 'reason' you broke up.
If you breakup because she found someone else, she might not tell.
If you broke up because you are just an asshole because you grow, she'll just tell her freinds , "he's an asshole and grows weed", to let them know it wasnt her that got dumped.. her girlfriends will take care of telling others.... not good.
If you're breaking up because she caught you doing the horizontal mambo with her sister... ure fucked!
18 pages..!!
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ak-51
And these are valid points. Predicting how somebody will handle knowing about your grow is extremely critical. Being with a woman isn't the only time you have to make such a decision though. If anybody else knows about you growing then you have made such a decision before and apparently found the risk to be acceptable... at least I hope you made such an evaluation before telling them.
As for the reason you break up with a girl... If she knows about your grow then this is the one girl you don't want to cheat on.
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gdawg
I can't really voice my opinions in this thread cuz I now live in fear. Redduckfoot is about right the majority of growers do seem to attract nuts.
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yardgnome
What's up people ,with all the "cant wait to run tell the police,narc-ing girlfriends"? Do they live in a certain state or something? Cause, I've never encountered any and never had a problem , even when a break up went real nasty. However, I must say ..I've never had a girlfriend that didn't smoke either. Why would you even go there? How do you explain being high? much less your grow room.
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yardgnome
What's up man? You got a crazy one too? About 12 pages of replies and Zacks" ignoring us. Let's hear why you live in fear gdawg. Your ex fixing to turn u in or something?
That's a good point, and that's why if I go so far to get into a relationship with someone it is a conscious decision and I go into it with integrity. I don't cheat and I do my very best to not disrespect them. Maybe that's why all my relationships end gracefully and we are always friends afterwards.
So except that one who I lied to, it's never been a problem. That should reveal a deep truth right there.
But I have had to give up very good female friends without any better reason than the fact that they like to talk, and as well intentioned as they are, I know word would spread like wildfire. It's so funny how many women just can't help themselves they just have to gossip gossip gossip and get all into the deepest details of each others lives. It's a dangerous thing for a grower. As a man you really do have to raise your standards with women and as a grower it is life or death.
EliTheBarrowBoy
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The moral of the story is have a believable story in hand before you ever invite a girl over to stay.
Better yet, don't invite girls over.
Better yet, don't invite girls over.
yea man... you supposed to live like a monk until you stack your loot to the ceiling
I bet Zack had to dump all his bookmarks and because of the internal shit storm he's going though he probably can't POP a Nut and if he can I betcha he's the one that wakes up in the WET SPOT.
My bet is she starts holding out on the sex till she finds out what's in that room.
my guess she has been holding out already, thus creating the momentum to materialize this thread
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