am i in the wrong?

[Lester Beans]

Well if its a small town and he is still under the impression he can walk all over you, then pound the piss out of the bastard.

But the smart thing to do is sit back and let karma get him.

If he gives you shit again though, best to put and end to it.

 

[shithawk420]

He's a little punk.he won't walk all over me

 

[panick503]

Sounds like u were fairly restrained. Fuck that guy, I can't stand people that can't take care of themselves and prefer to steal the hardwork of others.

 

[shithawk420]

I fucking cooked for them,bought beer,smoked my weed,etc.they took my kindness for weakness.i didnt do anything cuase there were ten little kids around.i should have not even said anything i guess.this is what being raped kinda kinda must feel like mentalyke.no offense to real rape victims.

 

[stoned-trout]

you should of handled it 10 years ago...but letting the guy know you know and not come around your pad is acceptable....I would of fucked him up 10 years ago and he wouldn't ever be coming to my pad unless stupid and wanting another beatin....yeehaw..letting someone rip you in the game is bad ,,payback mandatory if ya stay in game ..or next everyone will be trying to fuck ya...

 

[shithawk420]

I just moved to Georgia 10 years ago when they did it.that's how they knew they could get away with it.I think its time I make them my Shitpuppets like Mr layhey in my avatar and get them in a nonviolent manner.I'm on probation

 

[shithawk420]

No I know it was him and his girlfriend plus a few other people.its common knowledge around here it was them.its not like he's gonna admit it to me.they were bragging all over town.its a 500 person town and they were the only people that knew were I lived.its not rocket science.even his girlfriend told me they did it.

 

[_tessarecting]

You like climbin' trees?

 

[shithawk420]

Hehe,I think I know where your going with this tess.I like your thinking!I forgot to mention my brothers friend used his truck to load everything up.the only reason I didn't fuck him up is because he felt bad and gave me back my favorite sword

 

[Genghis Kush]

500 people

that's really small.

everybody must know everything about everybody

some one burned me a few years ago real bad, I was consumed by the idea of vengeance for a few years. I fantasized about how I would kill him(trust me he deserved it)
But in the end it just made me sick inside. Carrying around hate will eat you up.
Eventually I let it go, but it was extremely difficult.

Vengeance is not worth thinking about.
It disrupts our minds and pulls us away from the positive mind frame we need to be in order to reach our highest potential.
You will never be happy as long as you are thinking about vengeance and he will still be beating you.
Don't let this negative person pull you into their world of negativity.
Rising above it is the only option unless you want to become it.

 

[shithawk420]

Good post Genghis.that's how I'm feeling but if I don't do something about it who's to say it won't happen again?they need to be dealt with proper so they know not to do it again

 

[buzzmobile]

You're talking yourself into stupidity, shithawk.

 

[Weird]

I think karma worked itself out already.

While it is real nice to see so many people say let it go and let karma work it out, I think your reaction in front of your neighbor will do the following.

As he comes to understand your true nature, it will be hard for him to think you are "making it up" and the dude who you are sure was a fuck (and may still be) has been put on alert as being a thief in front of someone else.

It will be hard to deny that it could have been a reality, and certainly will put said dude in the spotlight if anything fucked up happens again.

Might be enough to give you your space.

If he really didn't do it and is part of that community he would want to placate you and in a sincere manner, since it did not seem that he did that, my guess is he is a scumbag.

Not that he deserves retribution good for your neighbor for helping draw the line, but you do deserve your peace from shit like that.

Good luck.

 

[HempKat]

I recently confronted this guy who I'm 90% sure robbed my uncles house 10 years ago.I bought a new house recently and I'm helping my next door neighbor with something,and he happens to show up.I tell him I better not ever see him again in front of my house again.he pushes me and I'm ready to fuck him up when my neighbor gets mad so I back down.I pretty much know he did it.they stole about 30,000$ worth of stuff,not to mention the damage they did just be dicks like like laughing in our faces,which he did when I confronted him. They stole my dead friends bubbler pipe he gave me before he died and a gun they stole and then committed a robbery with.should I let it go.I'm so fucking mad.I don't think I can let it go.sorry for no paragraphs.hard on a phone to type with carpletunnel.

Yes but not for the reason you might be thinking. If you are "Weed dealers" and/or have an illegal grow on your property, then you should always be trying to avoid anything that might bring LEO out to your place. Public fights can lead anyone in the vicinity to call 911 and report it. Also loud/wild parties. Also not maintaining your property well. All are things that could bring the cops where you don't want them...your place. Your outward appearance in your neighborhood should be that of a polite, friendly but keeps to himself/herself neighbor.

Sure it might be satisfying getting revenge but would it be as good if as a result you also got busted for dealing and ended up in jail or prison? For your best security there are lots of things you need to think thru carefully. For example, I know a grower who had a small closet grow in an apartment (not really a good idea to start with) he was bothered by an upstairs neighbor who was having a wild party one night. So he called the police to complain. He thought the cops would just go to where the party was and tell them to turn it down. Well they did but after coming to his place first and asking to come in so they could see just how disrupting the noise level was. My friend had a grow going and it had that typical musky veg stage smell stinking up more then just the closet. He became convinced the cops realized he was growing and would probably keep an eye on him and so for safety's sake he tore the grow down the next day.

Now if this guy is out roaming around somewhere late one night and happens to run into a baseball bat from out of nowhere...

 

[stoned-trout]

beat his ass ..stop being a pussy....yeehaw ..your officially kicked out of the trailer park...

 

[floralheart]

I threw a garbage can at a guy once. Now he's a DEA agent. Universe has it's own sense of humor.

 

[stoned-trout]

WWRD= what would ricky do???????? yeehaw

 

[sprinkl]

I'm really quite mathematic in such matters. I believe people are the product of their environment. Freedom of choice is an illusion we all love. But it's not real. We choose things based on our education, experiences, etc. A computer could and will do the same in the not so distant future. We're part of a big chemical reaction, nothing more.
I feel sorry for lowlifes. They are only the product of their environment. Lower yourself to their level and you will make things worse in the bigger picture.

Still doesn't mean I wouldn't love to crush some scumbags faces with bricks someday though.

 

[EclipseFour20]

IMHO, timing is/was everything. To punish someone for something they did 10 years ago is wrong....and could be interpreted as "being more wrong" than the the "original crime". By doing nothing--you tacitly "turned the other cheek" a decade or so ago (period).

But today is today--and if it were me, should the little shits step in my way--I would squash em and insure all the "self defense" arguments were "for me". Not saying walk around with a "chip on your shoulder", just suggesting don't back down anymore and start building/developing your reputation to be "no nonsense"...and should you cross paths, be prepared to "stand your ground" (know what you are going to do....before it happens).

I can tell you from personal experience--one's reputation has a way of preceding you; if your known as being a wimp, asshole, nice guy, bend over and take it guy, or...not afraid of a bloody nose guy--then that is what people expect/anticipate when you walk in the room: the preconceived you.

During the past 60+ years, my reputation has allowed me to win more "confrontations" than I can count. A nice bonus is--it also makes winning a bit easier--cuz you don't even have to flex a muscle. I operate with the understanding--that my reputation will always precede me...do what you say--and walk your talk.

 

[mufinman]

If and when you 'get into it' with this guy, at least one good center punch, with glove on, when NO ONE ELSE is around, where there are no cameras and you can not take credit for it...

but keep in mind, scumbags/digis can be stupid revengeful.. wait! the time will come for you, maybe 10 years from now and you may not have to use physical force, if you're lucky...