am i in the wrong?

[shithawk420]

I recently confronted this guy who I'm 90% sure robbed my uncles house 10 years ago.I bought a new house recently and I'm helping my next door neighbor with something,and he happens to show up.I tell him I better not ever see him again in front of my house again.he pushes me and I'm ready to fuck him up when my neighbor gets mad so I back down.I pretty much know he did it.they stole about 30,000$ worth of stuff,not to mention the damage they did just be dicks like like laughing in our faces,which he did when I confronted him. They stole my dead friends bubbler pipe he gave me before he died and a gun they stole and then committed a robbery with.should I let it go.I'm so fucking mad.I don't think I can let it go.sorry for no paragraphs.hard on a phone to type with carpletunnel.

 

[Stoner4Life]

no, you did the right thing.

take care of business right up front.


I had a tweaker @ my door last week, I stuck my flex 500 tactical in his face, he won't be back, ever.

 

[mufinman]

so they stole a gun and committed a robbery/chrime with it? was the gun legal? was the robbery reported to the popo? or was it an illegal activity that they/he ripped from your uncle?

 

[shithawk420]

No,they stole an unregistered, illegal gun from us and one of them robbed someone else with it and got caught.they at least a couple pounds of weed from us too.if the cops traced it back to us we would have been fucked.the one I confronted recently was not the one who went to prison.there was about six people who robbed us.I live in a small town so I know who they were.we can't call the cops cuase were weed dealers.I prefer personal justice anyway

 

[Genghis Kush]

what option do you have besides, "letting it go" ??

 

[shithawk420]

Well,I just have a hard time.it feels like being raped.it ruined my relationship with my uncle cuase they were supposedly my "friends".I want to hurt them,but I don't want to go to jail either

 

[shithawk420]

I want to make it clear.we lived on a farm and its natural to have a gun on a farm.maybe not the smartest thing when selling weed but that's just the way we were.didn't really think it was a big deal at the time.we are really nice people most of the time.we're not gangsters.

 

[Genghis Kush]

i was thinking that you live the hood.

its understandable you want to hurt him, anybody would. its natural, animal instinct.

fortunately we have the ability to override our instincts.
all of our actions have consequences, you need to weigh your options and see which will bring the most benefit in the long run.

natural order has been broken and we live in a domesticated world.
society will make you pay for what ever you do to him.

patients... his time will come

 

[resinryder]

I hate a fucking thief.
Sounds like the kinda guy that will eventually get what he has coming to him anyway.

 

[Croptober]

What RR said let karma handle it.

 

[WelderDan]

Know any bikers? Back in the 80's I was peddling dummy dust to suckers and had a couple bikers that did "security" for me in exchange for product. And by that, I mean I acted like an asshole whenever I wanted and they had my back. We would hit the titty bars all the time, flash a lot of cash, drink like fish and they chauffeured me around. (Anybody that tells you that you can't take home titty dancers is fishing with the wrong bait)

Anyway, some jackass decided he was going to blackmail me. So I set him up. He thought he was trading his Ohaus triple beam scale to another dude for a gram. The deal was to go down at a self serve car wash. When he rolled up, my boys yanked him out of the car and beat the living fuck out of him. While they were pounding him I walked over to the car and took the scales. Then we all piled in my van and motored off.

Yeah, I was a fucking asshole then, and yes, Karma did indeed make me its bitch eventually.

But my point is this: If you are gonna retaliate, do it swift, do it hard, and make it clear the consequences will be even worse next time. And it doesn't hurt to have a 6'3", 300 lb biker with a mean streak on the payroll.

 

[waveguide]

karma will fuck everyone in the end.

i never worry about revenge. straight deal with stopping problems - if these people are ****s, make sure other potential victims (everyone?) know. your neighbor's relationship with them? could be a problem. not that saying shit online about something you're not in really helps, but

if you leave vindication for the past to the perpetrator, and focus on stopping new problems from occuring in the future, then you can apply yourself more efficiently and effectively.

 

[944s2]

hey shithawk,,,,
let it go..bide your time and when karma hits these pricks for six then sit down,,roll a fatty and enjoy,,,,
cos this/these tossers have got it coming and karma is a bitch,,,
chances are if you do decide to be more pro-active then these shits will dime you in anyway,,,totally not worth it imo,,,,,
keep safe and well sh,,,,,s2

 

[soserthc1]

10 yrs time to let it go espically if your growing weed do ya really need the hastle ..

Thought what's another g or less to have someone else squash his head ...

I find with age im less likely to make fast hot headed decisions...

 

[VonBudí]

leave them be jim, stay focused on getting the trailer park back from that sexy greasy basterd Julian.

 

[Bob Green]

There is a saying "never argue with an idiot... they will just lower you to their level and beat you by experience".

Violence is one of those things that you can have as much as you want and it comes in bunches. It does not sound like this guy has any morals and for damn sure is not afraid of you or your family guns or no guns.

Ask yourself are you willing to kill or die over the situation? Willing to do serious time in prison? If the answer is no then walk away. I am willing to bet the other guy is and will make this an ongoing thing that he will take as far as it can go. Shitbags with nothing to lose are a touchy thing in this world. Especially drug addicts.

You already backed down from him for ten years not just this one incident. Small town all of you knew where to find him the entire time guaranteed. Now backing down at your own house in front of your friends will bother you for another ten years. I think you just multiplied your suffering. "Pain is inevitable... suffering is optional". Will your uncle respect you more for fighting him? Why not just pop him in the jaw or smack him upside his head with a rock? That would of made a clear statement. Shoving/yelling contest are school yard bullshit. Mostly done by people who are not confident in letting their hands fly. All you told this man was that you are still pissed but scared to do anything about it. But he already knew that.

Are you good at fighting/have a lot of experience? If you lose the fight with this guy and end up in the hospital can your ego handle it? Can you handle yourself if you get caught alone by him and his buddies? If you jump a guy like that he will be looking for payback. He has a much higher capacity for violence by the sound of things. Is he known for carrying weapons? If he pulls a knife can you defend yourself? Would this dude shank you from behind when you don't even know he is there? Was your neighbor protecting him or protecting you? He sounds like a methmouthed tweeker not a pothead to me.

Do you want more excess heat in a house you sell drugs out of? Why are you talking about selling dope and revenge online in a public forum?

Getting ripped sucks but I don't see fighting him as the answer to your problem. You will not run this dude out of town from a simple beatdown. He has no shame and got away with in all his life. I bet there are real life scary monsters that want this dudes head on a platter. Dickheads make powerful enemies on their own.

But you already know all of this. Sometimes it's just good to vent.

Be careful, and be safe brother. Try to really let it go inside your head, and heart. One of the hardest things we can learn to do.

 

[floralheart]

This co-worker told me all about a guy who ripped him off, and told me what he'd do to him. Fate would have it, I knew him from 10+ years earlier. I know he's a theif and the story is legit.

So I find him for him one day, months later. They both end up renting a business space together.

Not sure what the moral is, just don't do dumb shit like that.

 

[floralheart]

There is a saying "never argue with an idiot... they will just lower you to their level and beat you by experience".

Violence is one of those things that you can have as much as you want and it comes in bunches. It does not sound like this guy has any morals and for damn sure is not afraid of you or your family guns or no guns.

Ask yourself are you willing to kill or die over the situation? Willing to do serious time in prison? If the answer is no then walk away. I am willing to bet the other guy is and will make this an ongoing thing that he will take as far as it can go. Shitbags with nothing to lose are a touchy thing in this world. Especially drug addicts.

You already backed down from him for ten years not just this one incident. Small town all of you knew where to find him the entire time guaranteed. Now backing down at your own house in front of your friends will bother you for another ten years. I think you just multiplied your suffering. "Pain is inevitable... suffering is optional". Will your uncle respect you more for fighting him? Why not just pop him in the jaw or smack him upside his head with a rock? That would of made a clear statement. Shoving/yelling contest are school yard bullshit. Mostly done by people who are not confident in letting their hands fly. All you told this man was that you are still pissed but scared to do anything about it. But he already knew that.

Are you good at fighting/have a lot of experience? If you lose the fight with this guy and end up in the hospital can your ego handle it? Can you handle yourself if you get caught alone by him and his buddies? If you jump a guy like that he will be looking for payback. He has a much higher capacity for violence by the sound of things. Is he known for carrying weapons? If he pulls a knife can you defend yourself? Would this dude shank you from behind when you don't even know he is there? Was your neighbor protecting him or protecting you? He sounds like a methmouthed tweeker not a pothead to me.

Do you want more excess heat in a house you sell drugs out of? Why are you talking about selling dope and revenge online in a public forum?

Getting ripped sucks but I don't see fighting him as the answer to your problem. You will not run this dude out of town from a simple beatdown. He has no shame and got away with in all his life. I bet there are real life scary monsters that want this dudes head on a platter. Dickheads make powerful enemies on their own.

But you already know all of this. Sometimes it's just good to vent.

Be careful, and be safe brother. Try to really let it go inside your head, and heart. One of the hardest things we can learn to do.

quoted for all kinds of wisdom and experience

 

[Protea]

It's a bitter thing, but as I see it there is no good option but to let that fucker be on his way.
But never forget or forgive, maybe you find him down on his luck one time. And then it's just to unzip and piss in his mouth til he drowns.

 

[shithawk420]

Thanks for the great advice guys.I don't advocate violence.I just came back to my home state from ten years ago,I happened to have had a couple of drinks and saw this punk.sorry if I offended anyone.I don't have any guns and don't deal anymore.I guess I let my emotions get to me.sorry