for my own knowledge, is this still too early to tell, and am i looking in the right direction when it comes to sexing?
It is still to early to tell and you are looking in the right place. Pre-flowers will show on the upper nodes; they don't just all of a sudden pop up on the first few nodes. The leafy things in your pictures are new branches forming. The pre-flowers form at the base of these branches in the area circled in my edits of your pictures. Sometimes to get a better look at them you might have to remove the two spear looking that also appear at each node.
BTW - how do you get your pictures to show up large?
Pine