What not to say to a pregnant women with the flu

[LEF]

I think your best bet is to simply not talk to preggo women.

as for having an affair

I think that if someone kill his husband/spouse or his or her lover out of rage because he/she was having an affair, it shouldn't be treated too badly by the courts

I feel you sort of deserve it at that point

you get caught, you pay the price

no need to go cheating, get yourself a swinging wife/husband if that's what you want, we are living in the 21st century after all

must have been embarrassing for the guy to find the kid wasn't his
thank god the color could warn him because...

in the us... if he wouldn't have found out the kid was his at that time, and his wife would have divorced him, he still would have paid alimony even if he did find out later

and sometimes you pay past the 18 yr old age


there's this guy in my town, he came for lunch home (his wife was home, never worked), he usually never came home
he came to find her bent on the kitchen table getting served by some guy

she told him, I am gonna get you for every last dollar you got
guy put everything on a family member's name and hanged himself

there is a tendency for women to treat men like mules, some girls get taught that by their mothers
sure there are assholes out there but damn

guys are scared of women now

 

[Former Guest]

you better be scared with comments like I'm reading.

there was a guy who just got vindicated of sexually molesting a girl who recanted her story she told as an 11 year old after the guy spent 10 years locked up. that's pretty F'd up.

 

[LEF]

I think all the violence agains't women, is just men expressing the pressures they are dealing with

men have been sort of neglected all their lives, can't blame them for being mad at women who are protected by written and unwritten laws

you are not supposed to hit a woman, ever

yet, hitting a man is okay

talk about equality
this affects the quality of life of males and females

males not being able to focus in school, because they are stuck in a physical world, imprisoned like beasts
can't blame them for expressing physically what they cannot express verbally

after all they are not entitled to their feelings
I'm sorry if this bothers some people but, I find that as a white male, or just a male, I find the world is a very hostile place for me and I am sort of a second class citizen

guys that are older might not know too much about this, it is affecting the younger generation much more

they say men had male privileges, but to me, it was simply compensation

learning disabilities is a guy thing, it is much more boys then girls who are having problems in school
yet there is no money to take care of them, we can only take care of the worst, and if that doesn't work they got juvenile detention and prison to fix the problems..

 

[Former Guest]

oh you poor neglected little boy not given any opportunity. boo fucking hoo.

you complain about paying to take care of your kids.

you make comments that you will have to hear about later.

how about taking some personal responsibility for your actions?

wear a condom or make sure you and your wife are going to make it work out first before bringing kids into the picture? my parents were married for 5 years before having kids. worked well for them, plus they fought and worked it out. it was never by not taking responsibility for what they said and the damage it caused.

 

[Former Guest]

and in regards to hitting men as "okay"

we are brought up to not hit people because it is not "ladylike" if you want to get into stereotypes and BS like that.

so if she is hitting you, you have to ask, "what have I done to her lately?" as you have obviously pushed her over the edge

OR

you have someone who is by nature that way and that involves both sexs so why are you with someone that is abusive to you like that? why would you let someone treat you that way? funny how I am always saying that to WOMEN; not men. statistically, men abuse physically.

BASICALLY WHY ARE YOU BEING HIT AND WHY ARE YOU WITH SOMEONE WHO IS ABUSING YOU? GET SOME SELF ESTEEM AND LEAVE THEM. PHYSICAL ABUSE ISN'T SOMETHING THAT SHOULD BE TOLERATED FROM ANYONE.

 

[blastfrompast]

where a condom or make sure you and your wife are going to make it work out first before bringing kids into the picture? my parents were married for 5 years before having kids. worked well for them, plus they fought and worked it out. it was never by not taking responsibility for what they said and the damage it caused.

This is HUGE...me and the wifey waited also...married for 10yrs..and have a 5yr old son...

Essentially you have to be ready to give everything up for you kids, or at least prepared to make any sacrifice.

Plus lump on a whole lotta extra stress, financial burden etc. when that baby comes out.

If you aren't ready for that sort of commitment...then you aren't ready to have a kid.

And if your in your early 20's and wanna party...don't have a kid...If you free time is really valuable...don't have a kid...If you want to walk around nekkid and chase your wife around the bedroom...don't have a kid.

I don't understand why birth control is such a hard thing for people to wrap their heads around...

That being said... I was ready, I am happy to spend my free time with my kid, and I am happy to go without should my kid need something.

 

[fallenangel1]

I regret starting this thread and if I could take it down I would. This all started as a joke on something that accidentally slipped out of my mouth , which she knew I didn't mean , and we laughed about me sleeping on the couch. I love my wife and my soon to be child. We love each other so much. We can let something stupid like that go be it either one of us. I started this with love and laughter in my heart and what I'm reading now is aggression and anger. I'm extremely disappointed in what I have read. Some of these things are what's wrong with people and the world. If there is a way to remove this entire thread let me know because I don't want this negative and in some cases hateful energy out there.

 

[Former Guest]

you can contact gaiusmarius. I know he does clean up on aisle 3

 

[Former Guest]

https://www.icmag.com/ic/member.php?u=4186

 

[stoned-trout]

I would like twins next time lol... in before the bin.....a good woman is worth her weight in gold and weed...yeehaw

 

[resinryder]

I really do love kids. Having said that, I'm soooo glad I don't have to go though it again.

 

[MJBadger]

Double post .