I used to help ppl out all the damn time. Took me years to realize that when I need them, which is close to never, they aren't there. When I first got married, my wife kept telling me to stop trying to solve other ppls problems. Once I finally did, I am so much happier. Although once I put my foot down, it took a while before they stopped asking.
There's a fine line between needing help, and just flat out using somebody. In my experience, ppl that are using somebody are the only ones who get mad when you say no, you can't help.
There's a fine line between needing help, and just flat out using somebody. In my experience, ppl that are using somebody are the only ones who get mad when you say no, you can't help.