Joe Hawkins
Active member
Next time you look at your Daughters remember this; even Yummybud is getting digits from 16 year olds.
-
ICMag with help from Landrace Warden and The Vault is running a NEW contest in November! You can check it here. Prizes are seeds & forum premium access. Come join in!
I am in serious trouble!
- Thread starter minds_I
- Start date
G
Guest
give em a pack of condoms and tell them the truth about sex,love and respect
G
Guest
I went to catholic school my senior year in high school. Man, what a place. Those girls are FREAKY!!!
I'm willing to bet you haven't seen the tip of the iceberg yet. Often times the repression of natural feelings by religion makes them freakier than public school girls. Why you think you hear of so many guys going to church just to pick up chicks?
I think hazyfontazy gave you the best advice. Provide condoms and teach them some truth about sexuality. The religious dogma does a lot of damage. Or, you can stick to the religion, force them to abstain, and they will rebel hating themselves thanks to that same dogma. If they're playing tackle football with boys you can rest assured they have already figured out that physical contact feels a LOT better than the bible said it would.
I'm willing to bet you haven't seen the tip of the iceberg yet. Often times the repression of natural feelings by religion makes them freakier than public school girls. Why you think you hear of so many guys going to church just to pick up chicks?
I think hazyfontazy gave you the best advice. Provide condoms and teach them some truth about sexuality. The religious dogma does a lot of damage. Or, you can stick to the religion, force them to abstain, and they will rebel hating themselves thanks to that same dogma. If they're playing tackle football with boys you can rest assured they have already figured out that physical contact feels a LOT better than the bible said it would.
leaddraft
Active member
For those saying they are not practicing abstainance..
ALL 3 of my daughters, are still.... v's..
I can understand Minds_i...
It's really scary wondering, with the crap that happens in the world today is just short of Chaos.. At times..
YES, My daughters go too church on Sundays, (I abstain, as My religion is somewhat "different"), though, I do attend once a Month..
Once you have "daughters" you get over protective as in knowing what YOU were like in YOUR youth, and avoiding the "pitfalls" of "safe sex", ya the condom "broke"...
Though yes My daughters have healthly relationship with "boys", not someone whom is 20 something, as I and My wife make/made them aware of what 20+ are "looking" for, just a piece of ass.. (I've already had that problem once)
It boils down too something called GOOD PARENTING, something I feel is sorely lacking around the world today...
GOD FORBID, I always said.....
I NEVER WOULD BE LIKE MY PARENTS!
Low and behold, though NOT the same,, yet holding the same values..
I found Myself,, to be just like THEM!
Remember the old song..
Cats in the Cradle and the silver spoon?
I found myself the other day/evening, My oldest daughter and a guy, whom was "visiting" playing video games while setting close together... YA, CLOSE...
I found myseld kinda "looking", as a DAD should, maybe just alittle too much but, I dunno.. Keeping myself at PEACE...
YET.......
Talking too BOTH of them, playing a video game with them, and well, just making a general ass of myself... They thought it was funny...
POINT is,, talking too your KIDS, boy or girl, getting and KEEPING thier TRUST, being someone they can CONFIDE in no matter how bad or whatever the problem is...
I can think of other things though I'll with hold ATM....
Minds-I If'in you ever need a person too talk too, feel free too PM Me..
LD
ALL 3 of my daughters, are still.... v's..
I can understand Minds_i...
It's really scary wondering, with the crap that happens in the world today is just short of Chaos.. At times..
YES, My daughters go too church on Sundays, (I abstain, as My religion is somewhat "different"), though, I do attend once a Month..
Once you have "daughters" you get over protective as in knowing what YOU were like in YOUR youth, and avoiding the "pitfalls" of "safe sex", ya the condom "broke"...
Though yes My daughters have healthly relationship with "boys", not someone whom is 20 something, as I and My wife make/made them aware of what 20+ are "looking" for, just a piece of ass.. (I've already had that problem once)
It boils down too something called GOOD PARENTING, something I feel is sorely lacking around the world today...
GOD FORBID, I always said.....
I NEVER WOULD BE LIKE MY PARENTS!
Low and behold, though NOT the same,, yet holding the same values..
I found Myself,, to be just like THEM!
Remember the old song..
Cats in the Cradle and the silver spoon?
I found myself the other day/evening, My oldest daughter and a guy, whom was "visiting" playing video games while setting close together... YA, CLOSE...
I found myseld kinda "looking", as a DAD should, maybe just alittle too much but, I dunno.. Keeping myself at PEACE...
YET.......
Talking too BOTH of them, playing a video game with them, and well, just making a general ass of myself... They thought it was funny...
POINT is,, talking too your KIDS, boy or girl, getting and KEEPING thier TRUST, being someone they can CONFIDE in no matter how bad or whatever the problem is...
I can think of other things though I'll with hold ATM....
Minds-I If'in you ever need a person too talk too, feel free too PM Me..
LD
George Hayduke
Member
you can do what my dad did with my sisters. one time when a guy came over for the first time he was up in my sisters room with her and the door was shut. my dad broke in with his shot gun and stuck it in the kids face and told if he ever caught him doing anything wrong with my sister he would kill him. lol you probably couldnt do this today or you'd get sued or thrown in jail since we live in such a protective society. but my dad was very old school and no guys ever messed around with his daughters haha. all the while he was telling me how to pick up girls. i guess its different because i was his boy. 
Last edited:
i'd like to think of it from my point of view... i have a mother who's overbearing, annoying, way over protective while my father on the other hand just wants to make sure i have enough money LOL. my mother was the type to say DONT DO THIS, DONT DO THAT, NO NO NO! this mostly came about from her having to be disappointed constantly by my brother who'd find a way to **** up even when there was no way! so his activities made her worry about me no matter how well i did or how well i am doing.. always NO NO NO! LOL.
but, from that example, i learned about getting myself into and most importantly OUT of stupid shit. i think 10 steps ahead, i look at the layout of things beforehand, and when i actually do something, i try to make sure i have a way out! and i learn to accept the POTENTIAL consequences of my actions.
don't be overbearing because that will make them rebel harder and faster. dont use scare tactics. people see thru that shit regardless of how the US has voted lol. teach them how to be ahead of the game by telling them the possibilities. teach them how to think as opposed to what to think. this way, they'll be prepared to deal with things you've told them as well as deal with things you haven't told them.
also it's time to stop sheltering them... let them express themselves especially to you because no one's going to be as honest and helpful wit them as you! that means you're going to have to open up yourself as well. remember how it was when you were little. remember how you thought about women yesterday. that's what these boys are thinking and they're more eager than you!
keep in mind, it's better to hear the craziness now than to see it on Girls Gone Wild or Luke's Freakshow (do they even make those anymore?) over some college break!
but, from that example, i learned about getting myself into and most importantly OUT of stupid shit. i think 10 steps ahead, i look at the layout of things beforehand, and when i actually do something, i try to make sure i have a way out! and i learn to accept the POTENTIAL consequences of my actions.
don't be overbearing because that will make them rebel harder and faster. dont use scare tactics. people see thru that shit regardless of how the US has voted lol. teach them how to be ahead of the game by telling them the possibilities. teach them how to think as opposed to what to think. this way, they'll be prepared to deal with things you've told them as well as deal with things you haven't told them.
also it's time to stop sheltering them... let them express themselves especially to you because no one's going to be as honest and helpful wit them as you! that means you're going to have to open up yourself as well. remember how it was when you were little. remember how you thought about women yesterday. that's what these boys are thinking and they're more eager than you!
keep in mind, it's better to hear the craziness now than to see it on Girls Gone Wild or Luke's Freakshow (do they even make those anymore?) over some college break!
phew... i thought for a second leo had something to do with this...
thank goodness it has not.
Minds_I, my advice is that you should tell your girls to be real picky, the world is full of idiots and many of them carry stds, so for the sake of their own health, physical as well as emotional, that they should really wait for someone they really know, trust and more importantly love in order to start to be sexually active. remember lust is the problem, not love making.
peace
thank goodness it has not.
Minds_I, my advice is that you should tell your girls to be real picky, the world is full of idiots and many of them carry stds, so for the sake of their own health, physical as well as emotional, that they should really wait for someone they really know, trust and more importantly love in order to start to be sexually active. remember lust is the problem, not love making.
peace
If they playing.....Are they hiking the ball ?
Hello all,
Thanks for your understanding and suggestions.
Ihave had the night to think about the situation and nothing in the world I can do to keep them from growing up.
With that said, I still have a few more years to guide them through. These may well be the hardest yet. But there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Yet what still nags my thoughts are the times of when I was a boy and the daughters of other older men that I was playing football with.
Karma in action.
minds_I
Thanks for your understanding and suggestions.
Ihave had the night to think about the situation and nothing in the world I can do to keep them from growing up.
With that said, I still have a few more years to guide them through. These may well be the hardest yet. But there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Yet what still nags my thoughts are the times of when I was a boy and the daughters of other older men that I was playing football with.
Karma in action.
minds_I
G
Guest
My friend, i am a young fella myself and actually work at a private all girls school ... I no ur intentions were good wen u enrolled them bt all girls schools seem to make girls a lot more curious bout boys ... Bt they're 15 and u can't stop them from being interested in boys (kids in my area are dating at like 11 years old now - its ridiculous) ... Personally (and im not a parent bt hav had bout 7 scares wif getting girls pregnant now - luckily still dnt hav a kid tho, im not ready for that) and my advice is dnt worry bout if they do decide to hav sex or start dating, jst make sure they're safe (better to give the protection from getting pregnant or/and diseases then scare them away from it) ... also, i was reading an article the other day bout all these serial killers and cannibals (it was in a RALPH magazine - it was not in serial killer weekly lol) and the background stats i read on them concluded that bout 7/10 of the serial killers had overbearing/protective parents (some of their mothers would accompany them on dates!!! - so if u want ur daughters (who seem like lovely, normal girls) to become serial killers, then by all means be over protective ... bt if u dnt want them to b serial killers, then try jst being protective!
My lil bit of advice from the mind of a young man
My lil bit of advice from the mind of a young man
AlaskaGrows
Member
lol at dr greenfinger, all i got to say is i had an extremely over bearing father whom i ran away from a few years before i turned 18, he had me in private school all my life but that wasnt so bad. he eventually let me go to highschool when the time came around, same as i will do with my kids. but he was too over protective, we would strip search me when coming home from school and all kinds of crazy shit.... needless to say i havent spoken to him since that night i jumped 2 stories from my window with my brother ! no lie! about 3 years now and i dont ever miss that ****er!
