How to handle haters in your life?

[ItsGrowTime]

We all have them but like B.I.G. said, "Mo Money Mo Problems" and the biggest problem Ive encountered is haters. Those few people that know what you're doing and know that you're successful and therefore they hate on you but in typical hater passive-aggressive way. I don't mean shit like snitchin on you, just shit like cock-blocking, trying to one-up your fine product (when they know theirs isn't shit) in polite company, and other passive-aggressive hater moves. Yall know what I mean right?

I love what I do and Im very good at it but haters are a drag when you're just trying to be cool with people.

 

[Bag]

pretend to get out of the game and go legit, then move, then start over and act legit. then just be humble and live a modest moral life and have no haters ! winning !

 

[CarefulGrower]

pretend to get out of the game and go legit, then move, then start over and act legit. then just be humble and live a modest moral life and have no haters ! winning !

x2 You used your success to found a venture, going legit to protect your income. Borrowing from another thread here, become a 'Art dealer', easy to look like it, and it could have it's bonus'.

I don't trust people like that, when they harbor resentment you don't know what can happen/what it can bring out in them. Not saying it's guarantee, but always safe than sorry.

 

[ghostmade]

sumbodys fishing for beans or is just another out of turn hater.what i would do is jus focus on ur product,fuck the rest good business pratice tells me not to hate on the compoticians product jus focus on your product and be ready to answer Q's on y ur is better and u will do good peace

 

[BudToker]

Hey ITG,

Don't dwell on the negative aspects of your peers and their petty jealousy. We all have them. Try your best and ignore them!

Good Luck,

-BT

 

[willyweed]

just evolve beyond them ! easy to do ,and costs nothing .but you may have to concentrate very hard for a short time,.after that it's plain sailing ! and keep crossing ya seeds like everybody else.try putting an og,bb,or my fav sss in front of their name helps with sale's ! from what i can make out.peace.

 

[thaicat]

You don't have ''haters,'' people just think you're an asshat...

Now pull your pants up, turn off the Tupac album and conduct yourself as a man.

 

[GET MO]

Im haterphobic. Just keep a can of sucka repellant, should do the trick. You got small haters tho, Where Im from haters try to hop in your window when you aint home, tell lies that could get you shot, and put any bidness they can get on you out to police and the schemers. That's why I don't put my bidness out there like that.

 

[GET MO]

PoPo=Biggest haters. Cant stand to see someone else doin good.

 

[DreamsofTesla]

 

[mrcreosote]

Easy cure.

Fill your mouth with peanut butter and stick your tongue in their ear.

 

[ItsGrowTime]

I was having a rough night but Im over it now. I guess it has to be accepted that people around that are strugglin just to pay their $500/month rent are going to be hatin. Indeed my haters are pretty minor overall. Thanks for the thoughts from everyone with something productive to say......except this douchebag below.

You don't have ''haters,'' people just think you're an asshat...

Now pull your pants up, turn off the Tupac album and conduct yourself as a man.

Wtf? Screw off dumbass. You don't know me. Sounds like yet another hater.

 

[lost in a sea]

and a word of warning,

as things get worse, expect people to as well..

 

[OrganicBuds]

God I hate haters (just playing, not directed at the op)

 

[ezak420]

"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that"

MLK JR.

 

[barnyard]

the opposite of love is not hate, but apathy...

 

[k-s-p]

the opposite of love is not hate, but apathy...

How do you figure?

 

[ItsGrowTime]

Pretty ironic that my thread has brought out some haters right here on IC. You neg reppers know who you are.

I was honestly curious how others handle the fact that there will be people around that can't stand seeing others succeed. I don't flaunt, am generous and nice to all, yet still some people around that just hate because their lives suck and mine doesn't. Oh well, guess I should have known better than ask for thoughts on this forum these days. Seems to have been taken over by a bunch of kids or something in the last few years. Thx to those with productive things to say. The LED kiddies and neg reppers can jump off a cliff though.

How do you figure?

I think it means that at least love and hate are equally passionate emotions. The opposite of love would be apathy.

 

[thaicat]

1)Pretty ironic that my thread has brought out some haters right here on IC. You neg reppers know who you are.

So...In your mind, anybody that disagrees with you, has an alternative opinion or simply doesn't find your statements ''helpful.'' is a ''hater?'' I think you take life far too personal and are slightly delusional...

2) I was honestly curious how others handle the fact that there will be people around that can't stand seeing others succeed. I don't flaunt, am generous and nice to all, yet still some people around that just hate because their lives suck and mine doesn't.

The vast number of successful people don't allow themselves to associate with people that are resentful and drag others down. Perhaps it's the way you belittle others, particularly those struggling to make ends meet. I've known many people that constantly struggle. For the most part, those folks are hard-working, honest and could really give a f@ck less what you do, so long as you leave them alone.

3) Oh well, guess I should have known better than ask for thoughts on this forum these days. Seems to have been taken over by a bunch of kids or something in the last few years.

You came on here representing yourself as an arrogant thug wanting your ego stroked. That's not only repulsive but it completely undermines any medical or legalization movement and is insulting to the majority here that are an asset to this community and an asset to the movement. Go back and reread your statements and then comment about who is or is not childish.

In my experience, those screaming about ''haters'' and all the people against them are small people,in a small world, doing small things.

 

[Z-ro]

birds of a feather flock together