Dude, there are many ways to skin a cat. You kind of need to get the hang of asking the right questions to get the right answers, and of supplying enough information for people to address your problems. I'm not trying to get on your case. Just giving you a pointer for next time you have a question.
Back to your problem... How far is your grow from your dryer plug? Do you need to be able to keep the dryer plug operable for the dryer - like meanbean said? Do you have an attic or crawl space above your rooms? Do you own or rent?
You don't have to buy a prefab ext. cord, the male plug end can be purchased separately and it's easy to connect. Same thing with the timer. I didn't understand that you wanted to DIY this whole thing. It really is a piece of cake to do, it just seemed from your questions that were looking for something more plug and play.
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Would definitely prefer a plug and play solution but you guys make it sound like the diy isnt too difficult so i might as well look into that. One thing i dont want to do is fool with the house outlets or breaker box though.
To your questions... I do not need to keep my dryer operable. I do have an attic and my grow room can be reached from the dryer outlet with a 25ft. cord. I rent the house.