I agree with the gentlemen above if there is no pollen sacks anywhereTime for some advice. Here are two pics of healthy plants with no sign of problems...
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And here are a few of what I think is a problem plant. Rather than wildly pushing fresh pistols it seems to be turning its energy inward. It is tightening up and the tips have a lot of small green calyxes some of which are not pushing out hairs. No obvious signs of pollen but it looks like it's trying to produce tiny seeds at this point. I think it may be time to remove it. Thoughts? The other two look fantastic and I have six more babies and cups that are about ready to be transplanted to larger pots.
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Should she stay or should she go now?
and you other female is still running all white pistils, I would just go with it.
Cheers!