It may be hard ,but choose between the 2 ...Your woman or your plants.....You could always stay with her, and still do an outdoor grow somewhere...
Should change your handle to redneck doosh. 'Twould be more fitting.Before you make any rash decisions: don't forget to slap the bitch around once or twice first.
So in short, fuck all of you nasty ass poeple who pass judgement based on, yeah...a big mistake. Fuck off....you've done fucking worse things in your life...garaunteed. You're not helping my boy either, so unless you got some real shit to say....save it. He's not kicking his woman to the curb, so knock it the fuck off. This is his family.
Everyones coming down hard on the girl here, so with that in mind, may I invite you to consider things from her perspective.
AB is working a fulltime job that If I remember what he's said correctly, is somewhat sucky.
What that means is that his grow is not paying the bills, and if your grow is not paying all, or most of you and your girls bills, then it's just a personal use hobby grow.
This girl, like any other woman, would like to have a normal life, friends over, answering the door without fear, etc....
AB and many others here are saying she should be denied this for the sake of AB's little hobby grow, and that's not really fair is it?
If he was pulling down 15K plus per month off the thing, banking money and paying all bills, it would be normal to expect that you will sacrifice some aspects of a normal life, with the understanding that the end justifies the means.
But this is not the case here, and as such, I think it's a bit unfair to ask this woman to give up all these little everyday things that she likes, simply so you can grow your own personal use weed.
Relationships are about give and take, communication and compromise.
Move to a new place, set up the new grow ultra stealthy so the woman can have friends over and not worry about it getting discovered.
Something so you can still grow your weed, but she can still have a normal life.
Now if I'm wrong and this grow is paying some bills, then why are you still working?
If your going to grow commercially, then get to it and start pulling down some decent cash so you don't need that job, a half ass commercial grow that's not bringing in that much cash, a job you hate, and a compromised style of living does not sound like fun to me.
Work it out so all parties involved can be happy.
Throw the girlfriend out asap along with the plants because with her letting some dude in the house when you are not home then I'm sorry bro but YES you are going to get busted that way I'm afraid to say. Before I moved here and got my med license the only times in my life I almost got in trouble were all when my girlfriend(s) did not fucking listen to me. For some reason they don't seem to use their brain when it comes to these oh so sensitive & important matters of not letting people in the fucking house.
That all being said, don't stress man just relax and try to think positive. Whatever happens is gonna happen and you will make it & learn from it. Just try to get your security figured out better.
If I were you I would replace the pot plants with legal plants like tomatoes or something just in case they do come busting down the door. Then you can sue their ass off!
God damn we have men that hit women coming out of the woodwork. I think the see you next tuesday you f*gs came out of was your Moms. And Mods, where the hell are you? We don't tolerate spousal abuse on this site do we? I don't think so. ICmag is getting shitty again....clean this crap up.