Committing suicide...

[longearedfriend]

it's not for everyone though

 

[]A[Boss]

who gives a fuck if someone wants to live or not. Some people just rather die.. that's their choice. Accept it and leave them be. If you have kids and all then that's not good, at least get good life insurance.


the selfish people are the ones who can't let go and sit around feeling guilty for why so and so suicided or 'why this happened'

you have to let go...

to the op, sorry for your loss...

 

[greenmatter]

who gives a fuck if someone wants to live or not. Some people just rather die.. that's their choice. Accept it and leave them be. If you have kids and all then that's not good, at least get good life insurance.

to the op, sorry for your loss...

i really hope you never get to look back on that post and wonder how you could be so cold. you really don't get it and for the record i hope you never do.

 

[]A[Boss]

bet you guys who sit around feeling sorry for suiciders and judging them would really hate if your pet dog/cat could blow its brains out.

real suiciders dont need or want your fuckin help, only the fakers do.

 

[greenmatter]

 

[Strainhunter]

bet you guys who sit around feeling sorry for suiciders and judging them would really hate if your pet dog/cat could blow its brains out.

real suiciders dont need or want your fuckin help, only the fakers do.

Let's see how long it'll take for this to work:

 

[greenmatter]

smileys are killer when you are speechless

 

[]A[Boss]

troll? because i don't believe the way you do....

what a fucking idiot.

have fun with your thread.

 

[greenmatter]

no sir the reason your being called a troll is because of the thread you are in and what your saying or more to the point the way your saying it. one or two people in the thread are a little closer to this subject than they ever wanted to be. the funniest part is that you are offended. maybe you are closer to the subject than we thought and are just venting, been there..... but you did not post that. so does troll apply ?

 

[Weird]

bet you guys who sit around feeling sorry for suiciders and judging them would really hate if your pet dog/cat could blow its brains out.

it seems to me your interpretative of compassion is simply feeling sorry for others, this is not the case, they are not the same.

in the same sentence you call it feeling sorry judgement which is OBVIOUSLY born of your own mind

i simply read it as your life experience has taught you nothing about the human dynamics of compassion and hope, in fact i'm willing to be you simply believe them to be a weakness without benefit

it is not a measure of weakness but of understanding that brings human beings to compassion

one phenomenon you may notice is that after you grow a while and contribute to the welfare of another living organism is that mankind has the propensity to create synergies with other living organisms

it starts with plants, leads to animals but leads to potential of synergies between other people

the latter dynamic, when experienced leads to true joy and happiness, which when once encountered is hard not to want to share compassionately with others

real suiciders dont need or want your fuckin help, only the fakers do.

the opposite of compassion is apathy, and i take issue with this statement

I was born into this paradigm, lived with it like it were a second skin and by the grace of god still alive.

you for certain do not understand the complete emptiness and hopelessness , since in order for it to be truly painful there needs to be great contrast

you cant feel a great loss of love without feeling love first, you cant feel a great loss of happiness if you never possessed any

having lived that in an extreme, one of NEUROLOGICAL nature one that was diagnosed without a cure I feel i do posses a measure of understanding

it is very hard to connect to someone who is that hurt and that withdrawn and it is not easy to walk up and through compassion heal some one BUT to shine a light of hope that there is true happiness for those who are trapped in a moment of despair and hopelessness

well for me, thats what compassion is all about

i also realize that not everyone can afford to give compassionately to others because they have not learned compassion for themselves

and once again for me, there is no greater human quality than compassion for each other especially when there is a lack of unity or understanding

 

[paladin420]

it's not for everyone though

To true man, mom chose Hospice and morphine to check out. did not pot in the autopsy.;(-

 

[paladin420]

it seems to me your interpretative of compassion is simply feeling sorry for others, this is not the case, they are not the same.

in the same sentence you call it feeling sorry judgement which is OBVIOUSLY born of your own mind

i simply read it as your life experience has taught you nothing about the human dynamics of compassion and hope, in fact i'm willing to be you simply believe them to be a weakness without benefit

it is not a measure of weakness but of understanding that brings human beings to compassion

one phenomenon you may notice is that after you grow a while and contribute to the welfare of another living organism is that mankind has the propensity to create synergies with other living organisms

it starts with plants, leads to animals but leads to potential of synergies between other people

the latter dynamic, when experienced leads to true joy and happiness, which when once encountered is hard not to want to share compassionately with others





the opposite of compassion is apathy, and i take issue with this statement

I was born into this paradigm, lived with it like it were a second skin and by the grace of god still alive.

you for certain do not understand the complete emptiness and hopelessness , since in order for it to be truly painful there needs to be great contrast

you cant feel a great loss of love without feeling love first, you cant feel a great loss of happiness if you never possessed any

having lived that in an extreme, one of NEUROLOGICAL nature one that was diagnosed without a cure I feel i do posses a measure of understanding

it is very hard to connect to someone who is that hurt and that withdrawn and it is not easy to walk up and through compassion heal some one BUT to shine a light of hope that there is true happiness for those who are trapped in a moment of despair and hopelessness

well for me, thats what compassion is all about

i also realize that not everyone can afford to give compassionately to others because they have not learned compassion for themselves

and once again for me, there is no greater human quality than compassion for each other especially when there is a lack of unity or understanding

Hey Brudda keep hangin in!! Im not sure but duh boss sounds like he is cryin out for help. group hugs??? then troll spray the asshole

 

[mrwags]

just read the thread starters bit,

didnt find a SINGLE word expressing a begging for forgiveness a parent complicit in the demise of their child would have IF they had an honest bone in their body.

all i heard was a commercial for a social bandaid, which serves the interest of those who want to avoid responsibility, more than help the disaffected.


all i can say is GOOD on this child for kill themselves,
as the parent underlines... they were brought up in an enviroment so ill equiped to help its own, that when the oppertunity arose to make some amend and better the community,

it ran the other way, and defaulted to doing commercials for market speculators who thrive on the disfunctions modernity inflicts on the individual...




sorry for your loss old man,

and if you care about this occurance,

shut the fuck up

I'm guessing you don't or ever had any children ben? Gotta say those are some pretty harsh words coming from the gallery.

and if you care about this occurance,

shut the fuck up

I gotta ask tho wth does this mean? Occurrence is said to be a situation that can be used for learning an experience if you will so as you said if we stfu about it how is anyone gonna learn anything?

It would be like growing the biggest beautiful tree of bud and then never telling anyone what you did to get it,that would be the bad part I would think.

I will never judge you ben but your social skills if not corrected might be better served on another forum.?


Be Well
Mr.Wags

 

[longearedfriend]

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[CannabisFox]

Committing suicide in most cases is such an egoistic and self centered step because there is ALWAYS light @ the end of the tunnel! ALWAYS!
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Maybe its egoistic to not suicide. Cause every human of our western society fucks this planet so much...

 

[thisthingwedo]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9oIeLKB0wU8

 

[longearedfriend]

i dont agree that every human from western society fucks the planet so much...

and weird, that was a beautiful post... really.

I have nothing to add to that

 

[AGBeer]

FWIW - Suicide is NOT always a willing choice.

After re-reading between the lines of the OPs thread, it reminded me of how I lost a brother when I was 17. Billy was craaaaaaaazy. There wasnt 1 dare that this cat wasnt willing to take. Gainer off the roof? Sheesh, Ill do that shit from the chimney. Dudes talking shit and has 26 friends around him? Get ready to join the outnumbered fray...

And so came his demise at the hands of trying to 'push the envelope' by playing with a gun that was 'supposed' to be not loaded. Of course the story changed between the investigating detectives and the kids that were present with him, but the fact remains the same that it was NOT an intentional suicide. It was just Billy being Billy, and it finally caught up with him.
RIP bro - you are missed.

 

[e4ian]

dont look so much at mans doin' look more for gods doin',look at the beauty and be at peace with that, s'WHAT TO DO MANNN.

 

[Rob547]

I think its more the lack of knowing how to deal with certain situations, events, feelings that drive alot of ppl to it, for the younger generation more than others. The whole bullying thing, etc etc. I just don't think they know how to deal with it, or to find help...
I've definitely been there, just a few days ago I was dumped by my gf which I have a 2 month old son with, fired from my job, then ditched by a friend at a bar. Now I have shingles that hurt like a motherfuckerrrrr from all the stress, but I'm still here.
I won't blame most people that go through with it, only you know what you're going through, you are ultimately the only one responsible for yourself, and if you are hurting to the extent of not wanting to be alive....... well I think that is only for you yourself to decide. *i am in no way condoning suicide*

to the OP, I am infinitely sorry for your loss, glad your still with us, and addressing this issue of all things.