bobblehead overtakes
In my personal life I am much the same way. Brutally honest to a fault. I have lost 6 figure jobs because I couldn't bite my tongue.
Since then I look at people completely different. Every individual is wired to be who they are. And once you stop holding others up to your standards, expectations, and perspectives, you stop getting your feelings hurt.
My Ex's father used to tell stories of 30# Kokanee (world record is in the teens iirc), and buds, not plants, the size of coffee tables! I stopped arguing with him and just smiled during "story time". The point is, I know he had good knowledge, just have to ignore the peripheral shit. Everyone gets their inspiration from other people's work, and add their own twist to make it theirs. Ones persons journey is different than others.
Freds does have a point, but I may be mistaken on the details, when advice is given, but not fully headed, they can't be blamed for lack of success. I know I do the same thing. Someone tells me something, and I am almost compelled to put my own twist on it. Ultimately, I come around... Took me a year, and untold losses, before I ditched DWC.
As a parallel example. When I was a construction project manager/consultant, and inspector, I had to be "ambiguously precise", and refuse to tell the workers how to do their job, because I am then responsible when they don't do it exactly the way I said, or the architect gets his panties in a bunch.
Anyways, I hope this blows over, and what the fuck happened to Jbonez? I know some members appeared to know him irl, anyone know why? Kinda hesitant about my future here...
In my personal life I am much the same way. Brutally honest to a fault. I have lost 6 figure jobs because I couldn't bite my tongue.
Since then I look at people completely different. Every individual is wired to be who they are. And once you stop holding others up to your standards, expectations, and perspectives, you stop getting your feelings hurt.
My Ex's father used to tell stories of 30# Kokanee (world record is in the teens iirc), and buds, not plants, the size of coffee tables! I stopped arguing with him and just smiled during "story time". The point is, I know he had good knowledge, just have to ignore the peripheral shit. Everyone gets their inspiration from other people's work, and add their own twist to make it theirs. Ones persons journey is different than others.
Freds does have a point, but I may be mistaken on the details, when advice is given, but not fully headed, they can't be blamed for lack of success. I know I do the same thing. Someone tells me something, and I am almost compelled to put my own twist on it. Ultimately, I come around... Took me a year, and untold losses, before I ditched DWC.
As a parallel example. When I was a construction project manager/consultant, and inspector, I had to be "ambiguously precise", and refuse to tell the workers how to do their job, because I am then responsible when they don't do it exactly the way I said, or the architect gets his panties in a bunch.
Anyways, I hope this blows over, and what the fuck happened to Jbonez? I know some members appeared to know him irl, anyone know why? Kinda hesitant about my future here...