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Bear's spot '09

Tonatiuh

its me Dave man open up the door...
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damn brotha,i dont know what to say.keep ur chin up,BIG BIG RESPECT and everything to be smart enough to walk away when you know its over instead of stayin in a dead end situation.
anything you need to get back goin strains beans whatever let me know yo,you already know i hook you up in a heartbeat.
do what ya gotta do,take care of ur young ones and you know the F.A.M. gots ur back.
i know this shit sux but you will get thru it yo.stay up.peace-T-
 

chubbynugs

Registered Pothead
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Damn i didnt read your last post man. Sorry to hear the news and i hope all works out in your favor.
 
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arcticsun

there is always a norse saying in occations like these. i think this one is most suited..

You can give a piece of advice, but not good luck along with that.

... so i will just wish good luck. best wishes brother
 

vintner

Careful, I just had my bullshit meter recalibrated
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Bear, there is nothing I can say to help you through this.
Just know you have friends all over the place willing to help you out, ok..
much love from us..
~cw and crew

^^^Ditto that! Lots of K+ your way BB. Hope your move goes well. Stay safe yo!
 

Lapides

Rosin Junky and Certified Worm Wrangler
Veteran
Aw man BB, I'm really sorry to hear this. This kinda shit is never easy. Homie, if you ever want to chat, vent, whatever, feel free to pour your soul into a PM or whatever to me. I'm here all the time, and always around to help prop a brother up when he needs it.
 

Core

Quality Control Controller
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ohw my ...not such good news....well just wanne say be safe and be carefull
i don't wanne bud in on the Wife thing .....but maybe its for the best??
Nway hope you be back soon!
 
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WeldFlash420

Hope all turns out well for you, Bear. I do know having to shut down really bites bro, if you need anything drop me a line. Peace and shine on.
 

xOOx

Active member
wow,

i just read this BB..

sorry to hear what's going on. i know how it is. if your not with the right person, and things are going sour its only a matter of time.. remember tho, the weed is also a female, and giving too much love to one over the other can cause issues in a relationship too.

need to make time for the main female. but i know, sometimes too many emotional scars can not be healed.. and maybe you are just sick of the other person, or vice versa. there is no other choice but to end it then, unless - have you considered counseling?

but wow, i am shocked - i thought you guys had a good relationship goin on.

shit man, a trip to the cellars would definately put me in the same boat as u tho, as my wife does not really like herb at all, but tolerates somewhat. i kinda think my love for it makes her hate it, but that's just the way it is. if i vanished for a weekend of partying, i probably would have my bags on the door when i returned for sure. i hope thats not what happened man. if it is, professional counseling sometimes works yo..

good luck,

xoox
 

whiskeytango420

There is only one king, god picks em, hand pluckes
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Damn BB...sorry to hear that man. Shit sucks. If you need anything man, likey our other brothers have already said....reach out brother. We are here. Keep your head high brother. good vibes your way
 
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cellardweller

Lets just be clear on something right now xoox.
Bear has assured me that his trip up here had NOTHING to do with it.
 
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UBER21

Wow BB sorry to hear man....hang in there bro and if u need anything just holla man....peace and be well....
 

xOOx

Active member
of course cellar! everybody do not take what i said out of context. i was just using an example as if it was myself. seems like his issues w/his girl were/are a long time coming/building. at least that's the feeling i get. sometimes certain things can be fuel on the fire - catch my drift.

i stick to my counseling suggestion.. but some things are obviously just beyond that, wishing BB good intentions only.

xoox
 
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cellardweller

"you must spread..."
no offense taken xoox, but you know how it goes here on the boards..


Always in our thoughts Bear..
 
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WhoMan

You Will c2c Brotha-B that its all for the good homie, things like this make us STRONGER:) I give you my motherphukin WORD on all that and you can hold my ass to it. "My Will make your way safe" are the famous words bro. If you ever decide to test it out in a crazy situation it goes "My Will make this way safe" and i swear by it, but you gotta believe jus a lil and your Will will take care of the rest. Whoman
 

Brother Bear

Simple kynd of man
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ok here is the new deal with the grow
my wife is super pissed its so damn big
so as we agreed i will be flowering every plant i have
then i will be tearing down my grow cabs :(

not sure if i will be able to do something on a much smaller scale we will see i guess ?
it is what it is :rollj: ima go smoke some blueberry
up-date by the end of the week friends
 

accessndx

♫All I want to do is zoom-a-zoom-zoom-zoom..
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Well now I'm just F.U.C.K.I.N. confused. Does that mean you two aren't splitting up?
Does that mean that you're staying together provided you flower everything out and then get rid of the plants? Or does that mean you're splitting up anyway and that she's allowing you to finish up the grow?
Ow...my entire head hurts trying to process this.
I already knew the little lady had issues with the size of the operation. Maybe the O cuts pushed her over the edge....hmmmmm.
My interpretation of this last post is that you two came to some agreement about putting this all behind you (or at least something on this scale). You being not sure if you'll be able to do something smaller infers that she's still got some say in the matter, and if I roll the logic all the way back....it prolly means things are back to normal and you can take the skin boat to tuna town without too much fuss. That man trap will always get ya.
Well, I guess that's good news. No rushing out with the kids in the middle of the night looking for a place to hang your hat. No alimony. No venomous lawyer driven court battles...and no dropping dimes on you when your back is turned. All good on front street.
The downside: your man potatoes are on lockdown, and the weed got the shiv right into the lungs in the prison yard while the guards turned a blind eye.
I think this calls for the super-ultra-hyper-secret-extreme-growcave........spin the family picture around on the wall 3 times. A secret panel opens up that only Bear knows about. A brisk 4 minute walk down a dimly lit corridor takes you to an underground river....a cloaked ferryman waits for 3 coins and takes them with an outstretched skeletal hand. Silently he takes you to what looks like a vault door encased in granite....With the flick of an eye, a retinal scan is taken confirming your identity. The doors open and you're ushered into another main chamber, where you wait patiently for a monorail that travels underground 5 more miles to your ultimate destination: Bear's Grow cab.
As far as I can see it, that's really all you need for a bit of privacy these days. Peace!
 
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