blueberryfarmer
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texasluv said:blueberryfarmer- I've read every single post in this whole thread and I can't believe you gave cocktail frank -K for the GOOD advice he gave you. I am not coming down on you, but I think you need to get back and re-evaluate the way you are reacting. You asked a question, and got an answer. Not the one you wanted to hear, but it was the right answer. If you don't want to hear the answers, don't ask the question. Just because you don't agree with what someone says doesn't mean you punish them. I agree that that was a dick move, but whatever. Not my problem.
You say you are not 100% sure that he knew about your grow?!?!?!?!? Is it going to take your landlord actually saying the words, "I know you were growing" before you believe it? WTF more do you need?!?!?! He gave you notice, he INSISTED to look in a wardrobe he has NO BUSINESS IN. HE ****ING KNEW WHAT WAS IN THAT WARDROBE AT SOME POINT!!!! If you can't understand that then sell your light, dump your seeds, and leave growing for those of us that understand common sense.
I'm not directly insulting you, you are just inexperienced. Please don't get offended, I'm not trying to be dick. It would be unfair for me to say "you should have known..." simply because I've been doing this FAR longer than you have, and on a much larger scale. You learn with time, consider this a learning experience. As you can see, a lot of people on this site knew exactly what was going to happen based on your first post. You didn't have the experience to come to same conclusion as all of us 'old timers.' That should tell you there are a lot of people here with more experience than you that can teach you something. Although cocktail frank came down a little hard on you, it was for your own good. Just remember, he did not give you a single piece of bad advice (trust me, I went back and read all of his posts....) He tried to help, you punished him for it.
Do what you must. Obviously, you are not going to get rid of the buds. I wouldn't either, even though I know better. I know its hard to hear the exact opposite of what you want to hear, but it is necessary sometimes. In the past 6 months I had to shut down an entire 4KW operation, cutting down every single plant and throwing them into plastic bags to be sunk to the bottom of the ocean. Trust me, it hurts to be safe- but it hurts less than getting ****ed in the ass in jail.
It wasn't the 'advice' he was giving me that I had a problem with, it was the way he said it. It wasn't necessary the way he worded it and I took offence. It sounded more like he wanted to tell me how stupid I was/am, rather than give me respectful and useful advice.
Whatever, i'm getting pretty sick of this shit. I can deal with being given advice that i dont want to hear, but I dont see why I should have to deal with being ridiculed. I dont need this shit. You guys talk like you know everything about me, my situation, and my landlord. I understand that you guys have a lot of experience, but it doesn't mean you KNOW whats going to happen to me or that you know what I know, what my landlord knows, etc. I dont know how anybody can be 100% sure of anything, let alone what someone else has in their head (IE what my landlord supposedly knows).
Verite - Okay, the form he gave me specifically says on it that I have one week to comply with his conditions - which consist of keeping our apartment temperature where he wants it, essentially. If I do that then the everything is fine. If he wants to say I did not comply (I AM COMPLYING) then I am served another eviction notice. If I disagree and want to fight it, I stay where I am until the situation is resolved in court or whatever. I really do not see it going that far. I've spoken to another guy in the building and he says that he's had problems with the LL being anal about the power and serving him eviction notices and shit, but he's never moved out and keeps paying his rent and nothing ever really comes of it. I'm not saying this is what I will do if he tries to claim that I didn't do what he wanted, but I dont think it will go that far. I said in my earlier posts that i have to comply within a week and all that....
Listen.. thanks to all the people who took the time to read the thread and have given me constructive criticism in this situation. I appreciate that very much because without that things probably would have gone a lot differently for my girlfriend and I.
I wish more people would read and actually listen to what I'm saying on here... but anyway.. I think this thread is done.