A Friend's last days--

[DJXXPLATINUM]

GO SEE HIM.......PUT YOURSELF IN HIS SHOES...YOU JUST DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH IT MEANS TO HIM...GIVE HIM A HUG FROM ME...I DON'T KNOW HIM BUT KNOW HE NEEDS A HUG...DJ

 

[kmk420kali]

This sucks, because there is a good chance somebody who knows him might be on here--
But let me try and make my case anyhow--
I prolly should have never made this Thread--
He was a very good friend...10 years ago-- His son got killed in 2004-- That was pretty much the last time I seen him--
Except I seen Larry at Christmas time...and it was very good--
Now he is dying...and his wife is the only one I can get info from--
So today she hits me up, and asks if her daughter...who I was once very close with...if she can come and stay with me-- But the kicker is, she just left Rehab, for heroin addiction...and thinks that coming here...where I sling weed, drink all the time...and have a pretty much a party house...is a good place for a recovering addict to come stay at--
I talked to the wife earlier...and she was all pilled out--
Fuck man...I want to do the right thing...but I, as a recovering heroin addict myself...just thinks this is all a bad idea!!
If i was only about going and seeing my friend...I would be there--
But I can't do that, without dealing with all this also--
FML!!

 

[wantaknow]

well if i were your friend ,iwould not want you or anyone else to put themselves out over me ,because you cant fix me ,i would want you to come see me only if it help you,soo,take a load off burn one for him ,and just spend and hour or so thinking of him ,my best wishes for all who are involved,wish i could do somthing to fix this broken world

 

[oldguy]

kmk420kali....No matter how you or they look at it comes down the same thing. Some thing is being shoved your way regardless.. I'm going to be frank here...Excuses can be on going no matter who or where its from. This is where we each have to draw that line as to what we each will be willing to take. AS A RECOVERING ADDICT MYSELF. Are you willing to jeprodize your recovery by being put in that situation which is where that is heading. Sometimes we just gotta step back an look at everything. Look at all the flags that are popping up! This is about your friend not thier family and thier issues. Keep it simple! Dont let thier problems become yours. Just pay respects to your friend. If they cannot understand that than you have your answer towards them. Cheers!

 

[huligun]

I am sorry you are having to deal with this. There are no right words and especially no right advice to give someone that is suffering like you and his family. The only thing to get out of this is the fact that life is precious and you have to make the best of the short time that that live on this planet and the even shorter period where we are healthy. Stay tough and follow you heart.

 

[Arthritis_sucks]

Rock and a hard place, just go and let them know your there to see him and you can talk when your visit is over. Not worth it to bring someone like that to ur home, especially with the issues you share. Tough road ahead my friend, good luck.

 

[kmk420kali]

He passed away shortly after my last post in here-- Sorry I didn't update--
I talked to her, and explained how I was feeling....and she told me the whole reason he came out at Christmas, was to say goodbye--
Her and her daughter are doing better, and I have talked with her several times-- Just got some pics from her the other day, of happier times--
I feel I made the right choice for me...and it was confirmed that he would not want me to have seen him, wasted away, with tubes down his throat either--
This stuff sucks, and choices can't be undone--
Thank you all for your comments and well wishes--

 

[turtle farmer]

So sorry to hear about Larry..may he rest in peace.
Remember those good times and smile.
My prayers go up for you and his family.
gotta go I'm a cry baby

 

[Puffinstuff420]

Stay strong my friend.The readers on this site really care.

 

[OrganicBuds]

May God be with Larry, and also with you. Take care my friend.