i don't know what ya mean i just think that friends should hold things down together and you can't plan for future events. sometimes at no fault of their own some one you had backing something up can have something happen and things can be lost in an instant but you can't be hung up on it... so if you want to give something to some one don't do it just because you expect them to hold it do it because you want them to have it and thats it. the great thing on the flip side is that there's seeds to find new better stuff in that you didn't know about before...