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vindictive women and LARGE PLANTS

paladin420

FACILITATOR
Veteran
U gotta break the cycle bro.

U are in a prison you built. Slowly but surely you need to dig your way out..
For your childrens sake...
 

WelderDan

Well-known member
Veteran
Since you have children with this woman, you can't just walk away. She will always have that as leverage. You're gonna need some leverage of your own.

That said, if you are going to eventually break it off with her, make sure that you have wrapped up all your growing and taken great care to hide or eliminate all evidence. Every plant, light and roach clip, down to the last seed. Everything. Then make the break when she has zero evidence.

In the meantime, get some evidence of your own. Get a picture or two of her smoking a joint or pipe, drinking, passed out, whatever. Make duplicates and keep them in a safe place.

When she starts her shit again, wave one of those photos around. "Want to call the cops? Go ahead. We'll see what they have to say about this..."
 

meadowman

Member
ohh i've been in your shoes, kids n all. i shut all indoor down for 3-4 years, only outdoor. divorce papers are in court and she's engaged and finally giving me room to breath again. they're all crazy, just different levels of it. mine posted it on fb and brought it up in domestic relations. real gem that she is, wonders why i wont speak to her......
 

D. B. Doober

Boston, MA
Veteran
ohh i've been in your shoes, kids n all. i shut all indoor down for 3-4 years, only outdoor. divorce papers are in court and she's engaged and finally giving me room to breath again. they're all crazy, just different levels of it. mine posted it on fb and brought it up in domestic relations. real gem that she is, wonders why i wont speak to her......

Oh shit! :comfort:

She took pics of your grow room andput them on Facebook? Women can really suck.
 
Well in a way she isnt so stupid.Putting me in jail would definitely put a crimp on finances and housing.Its her way of manipulation.If i took pictures as evidence and presented them during one of her threats she might be stupid enough to fly off the handle and call cops for real.She knows if cops came now she would look like a accomplice.
 

EsterEssence

Well-known member
Veteran
Women turn men in all the time, they make a deal with her. To me it sounds like it is going to keep building until she does call, not to mention what effect it has on the kids. Your kids are young, if you want to have anything to do with them you should seek counseling and try to work things out, or leave or have her leave and forget about growing. She, because of the kids is going to be part of your life for a long time...
 
So many comments.Fact is there are women who are good all of them arent psychos.She is home with the kids.Ill try to make it work for the time being.
 

Dropped Cat

Six Gummi Bears and Some Scotch
Veteran
Finish the grow.

Go legit, anyway you can.

After that, a divorce and child support.

And don't look back.
 
Im still laughing at the comment.You love your plants more then me..LMAO its true though.My girls are more reliable then my old lady any day!
 

Stoner4Life

Medicinal Advocate
ICMag Donor
Veteran
Ok,
You got me.
I read the title as: vindictive women with LARGE IMPLANTS...

I had to stop in.


I've got bad eyes, first 2 times I saw the title I thought it said vindictive women and LARGE PANTS, I had no intentions of peeking.......
 
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