The holiday though.. well.. there is always another holiday to go on
may God bless you and you wife thru these difficult times...my wife died of cancer and it took 3.5 years for the disease to gain control...my big boy Dutch knows the smell and a year after my wife died Dutch comes lumbering onto the bed, pulled the covers off of me and began licking my liver, 2 weeks later he and I went into the hospital and we spent 3 days with the removal of the diseased lobe...agreed, a chemo ward is difficult to deal with...I do hope you get to smoke one while gazing upon the pyramids...I should be in Cairo tonight. More specifically, we were booked in the Mena House in Giza where I had shot the expense budget to hell. Tonight, I had planned to be sucking a cocktail of duty free booze on the balcony staring at the pyramids. And boring my wife with a recitation of the history of everything. And then there were the drivers, and guides, flights, Cairo, Aswan, Luxor, a dahabiya Nile cruise, the new GEM Museum (although I see that it still isn’t open) . . . anyways it was all canceled.
My wife of 30 + years was diagnosed with lung cancer last fall. She knew she had it for months before but I was in denial until I heard a doc say the dreaded words. I won’t go on with everything that means to a person, a partner, a marriage but we were both shell-shocked. So together, we (she) faced three rounds of chemo + an immunotherapy drug. Each round was three weeks. Two on, one off . . . repeat times three. With frequent blood test, CT scans, x-rays. I have donated hundreds and hundreds of $s to the hospital through parking fees. Btw if you have never been, a chemo centre in a hospital is very, very sobering. A lot of people – every race, creed, sex etc – a lot of people shooting for a cure – or even just a few more years. Not desperate, but determined.
My wife was ‘lucky’ in that a surgical solution was still possible. Again, I won’t go on but suffice it to say she had a portion (only – thankfully) of her lung removed. It was a major operation. She was in icu for three nights and then general ward for another three before they released her three days ago. Now I am her health care provider.
So our life has changed. But . . . maybe . . . just maybe . . . we still might get to Egypt sometime.
Thanks for listening. I am not great at sharing sometimes . . .
I do hope you get to smoke one while gazing upon the pyramids...
You knocked the sharing part all the way to Giza. Cancer sucks and it does not only affect body parts. It's a mind sneaker that begs the question "What now?"Thanks for listening. I am not great at sharing sometimes
It was far enough away from Barcelona.I had to use image search to find out where your pic was.