naga_sadu said:The diff. between cities and villages is that a villager never harasses another person for charity. That's demeaning one's own worth. And in reality tho, panhandling is a profession in India's citys. An alarmingly high number of "beggars" have enough money to engage in private money lending. I've caught some redhanded this way.
A poor villager is prolly a lot worse off than the "beggars" of the cities, yet a poor villager never begs. They even offer you food and hospitality, and in return, people would be very happy to reciprocate.
I concur, and to put things in context, there are more beggars here on the streets of Paris than there are in Bombay, although not at all the same poverty. It tells you something about different types of mentality.
naga_sadu said:You really need a motorbike on u to get the most out of your trip to India, if you know what I mean. You can't really expect the best to get door delivered to you
That's basically what I do when I go on vacation in a foreign country. I buy a cheap second hand motorcycle and do the country in my own pace and liking.
In India though, you need to be a damn good driver, because the roads are not forgiving.
I was cross-country driving on an Enfield in Tamil Nadu when the rain set in. The road just turned to mud, and at one point, I couldn't keep the bike on the road, it slid down into a deep ditch and got stuck. No way of getting it out on my own. I sat there on the road until a brand new four wheel drive came by. Inside, there were two Germans on a "hiking tour". I asked them to tow my bike out of the ditch, but they claimed they didn't have a tow line in their car (funny, they were equipped to their teeth with just about anything, but they didn't have a tow line, which is THE thing you need if you're in trouble), so they said they would drive into the nearest village and borrow one.
They came back after a while, but guess what? They didn't bring a tow line, they brought four villagers, so these guys and I dragged my bike out of the ditch, in knee-deep mud and pouring rain, while the Germans sat in their car watching. F.....g A..holes!