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So the woman says

leaddraft

Active member
the feeling is mutual...
were not married, been together 11 years..
We both want out...
The woman says I want everything, including your life.....
 

Pinball Wizard

The wand chooses the wizard
Veteran
...that's better than legal marriage..(robbery)...

...that's better than legal marriage..(robbery)...

...got the divorce papers last week...everything I have worked for...down the drain... :badday:
 

Pops

Resident pissy old man
Veteran
Leaddraft, in some states, 11 years is considered Common-Law marriage and the woman is entitled to half your shit and your testicles. If she is serious, you had better see a lawyer. Either that, or kill the bitch and bury her in an abandoned mine somewhere in the boonies (J/K)(Bad idea!)
 

minds_I

Active member
Veteran
Hello all,

Sorry to hear of yoru troubles.

Get the lawyer, he may be able to save one testcle. If you do not, the reality of your bad choice will become apparent as they mechanically seperate you balls from your body. Oh, ther is no anestesia before or after...only time.

Either that or kill the bitch and bury her in an abandoned mine somewhere in the boonies. Bad Idea?? Maybe not??? Talk amoungst yourselves.

Seriously, get the lawyer and get another woman fast...that pisses them off

minds_I
 
G

Guest

Sorry to hear you are going through this... It's never easy when a long term relationship comes to an end... even when both parties agree it's time to get out... someone always seems to get vindictive and vengeful... sad but true... sometimes people will say things and not follow through too... hopefully you both can part and wish each other the best... but I know only too well... those are just words too.....

Any kids involved? If so... I hope for their sake it doesn't end up to be a war...

I agree with the others... talk to a lawyer... find out what the laws in your state are.... some surprise the HELL out of you when it slams you right in the face...

Wishing you both gentle healing...

Peace~

Hippie Chic
 

Truth

Member
just say you never had sex with her! I don't know if it varies from region to region, but if you don't have sex with the woman, you have not consecrated (or whatever that word is) the marriage. meaning, it is null and void. I believe I saw a gay man get out of it this way. say your gay if you have to, if it saves you your possessions! talk to a lawyer about it and he might say you have a case.
 

Gangabiss

free your SELF
Veteran
^^That's a pretty good idea.

Tell the judge her pussy looked like a dead raccoon so you never even bothered trying.

Make sure she is restrained beforehand :D
 
I watched "WAr Of The Roses" last night ....truly..i did, maybe you could get ideas from that...lol.. run over her cat or urinate on her dinner guests dinner..(like in the movie..lol..)
. I dont know..but i hope you come out the strongest or u
make up..one of the two.

good luck!!
 
G

Guest

I would wait to piss her off after you have made a clear break with your stuff.
 
G

Guest

There must be something in the water of late. I'm currently going through a divorce and, unfortunately, there's a kid involved too.

It' been the shittiest two weeks of my life because I haven't seen my little boy. As far as possessions go - she can have everything I own - I don't care - but she's taken what money can't ever buy and there's not a lawyer in the land that can prevent her from doing that until the divorce goes through and the filing for access etc. I could be looking at 6 months before I see him again.

I've been drowning my sorrows with the Glenlivet every night and it hasn't really helped me any. The only way I know how to deal with that kind of shit is just to get blasted. :bat:

Anyway, leaddraft, paintball wizard - I wish you guys the best - and right now I know how you guys must be feeling. I guess you've got to do your mourning (in my case two weeks of just being a bit of a mess really) and then man up, take stock and move on.

She can have half of everything I own and she can take my son (for now) - as much as it feels like I'm dying a slow, painful death at her mercy - I'll bounce back and rebuild my life. At least I'll know that the pain with her ends and then I can move on to living in peace. Luckily for me, I've got some pretty decent mates - who've all been really sound.

I don't reckon that jumping in the sack with the first girl that comes along will help - although it might help a little I suppose - ya never know. :D

Anyway, I've decided no more whisky sessions and drunken lariness - the anger's got to be focussed more constructively. So it's a few deep breaths and back to the ways of the aum for me.


Apologies to ICMAg members for some of my erattic posts and general uncool behaviour of late - and I hope this goes some way in explaining it.

Life eh..?

Packing a fat chillum and passing it around to all the people who've been through this kinda stuff.
 
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Pinball Wizard

The wand chooses the wizard
Veteran
....Vision of Shiva....it's all good ...don't sweat the small stuff.....

...good things comes to he who waits...or so I have heard...works for me most of time..... :wave:
 

AKgrower

Member
don't know your situation but if you got plants going, get rid of them. i had a long term girlfriend (no ring) and she decided to rat me out. things can turn bitter very fast.I thought she would never go that far but like i say now better safe than sorry. hope things work out and remeber time heals all wounds. fukkn women!!
 
R

Ronley

AKgrower said:
don't know your situation but if you got plants going, get rid of them. i had a long term girlfriend (no ring) and she decided to rat me out. things can turn bitter very fast.I thought she would never go that far but like i say now better safe than sorry. hope things work out and remeber time heals all wounds. fukkn women!!

Very good advice.
 

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