Should you break up with a girl if she...

[skullznroses]

For all us guys out there and ladies who like ladies. This is the thread about should you break up with a girl if she (blanks) or if you (blanked) and she did (that).

Im personally in on this too, but might wait till second page for my personal saab story.

 

[gws35]

Spit it out skull, tell us what happened....otherwise how can anyone give you an opinion?

 

[944s2]

c,mon skull! you will fold under questioning! lol so you may as well tell us now,,s2

 

[joe guy]

Fuck it just keep 3 or 4 around on rotation just don't marry one lol
Joking, joking... But yeha buddy we need more details to vote

 

[Jellyfish]

Yes!

 

[clearcutter]

If you need to ask, then the answer is yes.

 

[Perpetual Nooch]

You should break up with them every night.

 

[skullznroses]

Nothing happened thats the damn problem half the time. Should you break up with a girl if doing things with her feels more like carrying a warm body around then doing something with someone you love. Ive got domestic bliss all figured out, but the second we get out the door its like Im the only one not in slow motion, the only one with a plan, and def the only one capable of driving. And sometimes domestic bliss is sharing your headstash and being left alone to ICmag, and cook all the meals, and walk her dog. The part she does is clean. And call me stupid and gross a lot, I mean a lot.

Oh theres details, lots of details, but hey its not all about skulls is it?

 

[d3cryption]

1. You cooking? you need to check that shit, and nip that shit in the butt fast...

2. Walking her dog, or "y'all" dog? if it's hers,,,, nip that shit in the butt too... skull I hope you not one of these guys out here, walking a 5-10 pound dog around.........

3.name calling? even if it's in a joking manner, it's disrespectful....... looking up the 7 level of disrespect... you're at 3, possibly highly if you get called stupid/gross in public, etc...

4... it's seems like you're the submissive one..... grab your damn balls, and be the man of your house.....


hope this helps....

 

[LEDfoot]

[. . .] And call me stupid and gross a lot, I mean a lot.

The rest of it is OK (if you're OK with it) but that sounds like verbal abuse.

 

[skullznroses]

not bad analysis, you could work for ESPN mate

1) Yes I am a great cook, and since I like to eat, I do the cooking. I do like mac and cheese, but just not that much. Loves to eat=loves to cook for me...

2) a very cool dog, that is very annoying. A wild mutt type with german shepard in it. But the dog is very needy, and because of our schedules I am home with the dog more, much more.

3) yes, lots of really annoying name calling. "Useless" "gross" "insane" "selfish" "disgusting"... hey at least I know to take a shower before having sex after a long day. The best is "druggie" ... yeah Im the loser druggy who grows her weed to smoke for free every day of the year. Oh and I don't do other drugs, except a lil L or Shrooms in lot, once in a full moon.

4) Im extremely aggressive and assertive. I am also compassionate, and realise my intense advantage both mentally and physically. I try not be too brow beating or demanding. My rules for the house are based on years of personal research. Things never get physical unless she is drunk, in which case she has hit me several times, but whatever I can handle a slap or two. (edit: by mental advantage I really mean experience, Im early 30s shes mid 20s in age)

yeah it helps, I just feel like a shining star sitting in the bottom of a bucket.. I gotta shine bitch!

 

[skullznroses]

Yeah and Im very clean person, low body fat, few odors, with a BS degree from a good school. I used to be Deans list material lol. Jesus, I remind her to floss everyday fer the lords sake.

 

[k-s-p]

Can't tell you what to do, but those are red flags for me - name calling and striking. Life's too short to put up with that kind of bullshit.

 

[ZZTops]

There comes a Time in Everyone's Life...

 

[d3cryption]

1. just because you love to eat, and you're a good cook doesn't mean you should do all the cooking..... that's her chore...... spin it whatever way you...

2... again who dog is it...?

3... again.... nip the name calling in the butt.....

4..... I find it hard to believe you're agressive and assertive...... i believe you can be at times, ( onces all your buttons are pushed..... but it seems you more are submissive than anything.... either put you foot down, and get the hell out of there....... drunk or not drunk, she should never get physical............ don't allow this..!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[skullznroses]

zztops- yup thats about it

d3- Trust me she doesn't strike twice, but she can be sneaky. Im not aggressive, that often, but trust me my will is clear to her, shes just a player hater I guess.

 

[BullDogUK]

1. just because you love to eat, and you're a good cook doesn't mean you should do all the cooking..... that's her chore...... spin it whatever way you...

Wait what? If Skull enjoys cooking fair enough. Otherwise man, it's been said but life's too short to be putting up with anything. If you're having to ask then you're probably not happy with it right? Then there's your answer!

 

[skullznroses]

lol- zenroses

I don't mind the cooking. Heres the problem with the cooking in a half shell. Im a good cook, hell pro cooker you might say. She much prefers my food, as do I. If I could work my new smart phone Id post a recent dinner pic. I cook most of it, and thus am forced to work hardest to get the food into the fridge, cleaned, cutted, wok fried, pan fried, boiled, steamed, or deep fried. We even eat main course salads fer all goodness. Its just that our deal is 1 person cook, 1 person clean. Well as time goes on she gets more and more pissed off about cleaning up. She basically can only do the cleaning, but gets sick of it. If it didn't take 1-2 hours to cook a gourmet meal from scratch I would mind less about the 30 minute cleanup time. Its just that to serve somebody dinner and then cleanup up after them is insulting when they are 25 years old and perfectly happy.

 

[trichrider]

wow, you gots a long journey ahead.

 

[lost in a sea]

it sounds like she already knows/wants the relationship dead if she is demeaning you.. i hate that tit for tat, i'm sick of your face, passive agressive nonsense humans get thesedays from being unnaturally fused together in a claustrophobic box,, it's like rats in a maze going insane and chewing on each other..