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Sorry to hear this. That is one hard road to go down, my prayers are with you him and the family. you noticed that his brain is rewired this is true to an extent, when some one gets addicted it turns from using to get high to useing to get normal finaly into using to not be sick. Do not blame yourself as i can tell you love your son immensely. Love is what will get you through this. Best of love peace and prayers my friend
Im very sorry to read this RR...i wish i had some wise words that would comfort you, but sadly i do not...i can only send warm and positivity your way and keep your son in my thoughts....may fate be kind to you..
my best wishes also for you and your boy in this hard situation. i hope the judge sends him to treatment of some kind, maybe some kind of boot camp drug rehab, to get his head straightened out. jail will most likely not help at all with this, he will only learn to be a better criminal in jail. maybe once hes had a few weeks inside though to get his system clean, he can be motivated to seek help.
just reading this now RR,i think what a few folks are saying about being there if he can show its genuine that he wants to change,but its got to come from him,not because he got in trouble and needs help right now... on a less serious note,send him a pic of JW and say you will look like this in a couple years if you dont stop,if that dont scare him straight,nothing will!
seriously though,you're a good hearted honorable person,i hope you two can find a way to work all this out
try and persuade him to ask for a rehab program or something
and remind him how much you all love him despite everything - and that hes got something to live for if he cleans up
My sincere thought go out to you and your family resinryder... This is terrible indeed. Hate to hear when drug addicts are treated like common criminals. Hard drug addiction is a disease and can affect many more people than the addict himself/herself.
My thought are with you brother.. i hope the light finds its way to your son..
Oh Resinryder, so sorry to hear about this.
I wish I had something brilliant or comforting to add...There is a lot of good advice here already, not to mention a ton of support and love!! Stay strong Resinryder!!
Love and strength to you and your family;
<3
Natty
Wow. Thanks so much for the kind words and support you guys have sent my way for both my son and my family. It's a very hard, emotional, and worrisome time for us all.
I spent about 7 hours today doing some serious yard work. Not an easy thing for me to do with my disability. So I seriously over did it. Had to do something to clear my mind and to get some thinking done. Totally exhausted now.
I clicked on this thread and had tears welling up in my eyes after the first couple of post. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for sharing, the advice, and mainly for just being there,