when i "loan" a friend money, it is money i do not expect to get back. if i help push their car out of a ditch on a snowy night, i don't expect them to come shovel my driveway. i help friends because they are friends, and I don't give out anything which i cannot afford to blow off. helping is MY reward to myself, for trying to be a good person. i don't always succeed, but i sure do try.
hmmmm...how do you get banned for your very first post? verily, tis a mindfuck...
Maybe Jennifer used her real name and regretted that decision. More than likely it's all your fault by soliciting her support for your position.
when i "loan" a friend money, it is money i do not expect to get back. if i help push their car out of a ditch on a snowy night, i don't expect them to come shovel my driveway. i help friends because they are friends, and I don't give out anything which i cannot afford to blow off. helping is MY reward to myself, for trying to be a good person. i don't always succeed, but i sure do try.
It’s nice to be nice ,,,,s2
could you possibly show me where i solicited anything? i missed that bit...i AM used to being blamed for everything after 29 years of marriage.
Yes,,,feebly given or lent to help a brother or sister out of a hole and knowing you may not get it back or it’s gonna take them forever sits fine with me,,,
I think we get it back with good karma,,,,
Deliberate piss taking that’s a calculated malicious play resulting in “ food being taken off our table” is a whole different story and something we’ve never been confronted with thus far and hope we never do,,,
It’s nice to be nice ,,,,s2
I have a few boxes I put people in. If you have good fortune, some people think they're entitled to some of it just because they know you, and if you're down, you're a leper.
I gave 5k to a buddy I knew was being devastated by divorce/job circumstance. He never asked or even hinted for it, and I never reminded him of it. 2 years later he dropped 6k in my lap. I gave him back 1k. I didn't give it to him to make a profit.
I wouldn't give ten cents to my younger brother if he needed it to get out of jail. Dude constantly plays on people's good nature, and will stab you in the back when your down. Fuck him.
Very few people like to pay for “ yesterday’s buzz”,,,,,