never again.......

[Stoner4Life]

I made my last post @ 5:11 and have been on the phone with Jack ever since, 2 hrs 40 mins.

We spoke with him crying again (claims he's a broken man) about his woes and to tell me of course that Russ gave him all his stuff back, he just couldn't understand my position in not giving a key to his crib out to someone w/out the homeowners permission.

He told me that he was going to call me and rip me up for calling his mom but she told him how nice I was on the phone and he considered that I was acting as a friend and not a foe, he knew there was nothing in it for me in regards to Russ holding his stuff so why after helping him since Oct would I turn on him.

All during his being on the run I was in touch w/his mom, I helped her keep tabs on her son and she appreciated the effort. I knew she'd understand the situation w/out being so emotional as Jack and I'm sure she talked some sense into him.

just a bit over 30 hrs and all is copacetic again here, won't be making that same mistake again but nice to know he understands where I was coming from.......

 

[chuckyoufarley]

it sux but look at it this way 1,000.00 is a cheap way to get rid of a free loader could've been 2,000.00

 

[flubnutz]

you got a big heart bro', k++ to you

 

[Vash]

Damn, you're glutton for punishment , S4L. This guy has been a POS from Day 1. What is it? You attracted to lifetime losers, or what?
This guy is nothing but an expense - 'bout to be a big one to his mother. Kicking his ass will only bring you down as low as his sorry ass, and you might wind up in the next cell - for wallowing in shit.
The best thing you can do is cut him loose.

 

[Buffalo Brown]

I'd rather gouge out my eyes than move back with my mother.

LOL. I mentioned something similar to a friend of mine who posed a similar question.

My reply was Id rather crawl on my hands and knees over shards of broken glass than move back in with my mother.

 

[ellipsis]

you are good man Classy.
just keep a grip on yer wallet.

 

[Hydro-Soil]

You know the expression "All Jacked Up?"

You're a good man. Glad you learned cheap.

Stay Safe!

Educate Yourself! Then Educate Your Neighbor!

 

[Directrix]

ever heard of karma?

cause she's a total bitch. haha

 

[Marywanna]

LOL. I mentioned something similar to a friend of mine who posed a similar question.

My reply was Id rather crawl on my hands and knees over shards of broken glass than move back in with my mother.

I'd rather stick a red hot poker in my eye before I would let any of our kids move back in

 

[Stoner4Life]

so here we go again, Jack now looking @ jail time once more claims he's going to take it on the lam, heading south for oil clean up work and to get out of state before they decide to toss him back in jail.

this guy hasn't done a hard days work in fucking decades and has quit several jobs recently because they're too tough on him so I can't believe he's going to clean up the oil spill.

he does however want me to hook him up with a bag of weed for his road trip, I can't do it because I've got this creepy feeling I'm being set up by him. He can't/won't provide child support for his kids and wants to stay out of jail desperately (as we all do) and now that I've seen him quit 3 jobs I know how weak he is, no backbone. He did 45 days in that last stint and told me that he cried everyday except maybe 3 days he was there.

I don't sell weed for profit, nor do I buy/grow enough to provide for friends (unless they suffer cancer), I usually burn whatever I get my fat greedy fingers on and something inside me says NO WAY on helping out in this 'friend in need' scenario this time around, I don't need that $100.......

 

[JamieShoes]

its a real pity that you're "in between grows right now" then eh

 

[RudolfTheRed]

just read the bill hicks quote in my profile...

its exactly how i feel about people. leave me alone, don't ask for help, and i wont ask you for help either. i've been screwed like you in similar situations before and i found its best just not to help anyone, because when you need help or when it comes to compensate you back, they have 1,000 excuses, even though when i helped them out it was inconvenient for me but i still did it. now i just have a blanket policy not to help anyone except for close family, like my bro. or something who i know would do anything for me, as he's shown to in the past. otherwise don't ask me for nothin'!

anyone that cries in jail would have no problem flipping on you. very weak. anyone that can't keep 3 jobs isn't worth knowing. sounds like a complete waste of a person to me. people like that will only get you in trouble.

 

[teemu shalanie]

lets see...how did "judge judy" once put it...

...."if you 'loan' someone $1000 and you never see that person again...........it's money well spent"

thats totally right nokuy , money veery well spent!, hahaha, ive had my share of shady friends and weird hang arounds with criminal backrounds and hope he doesnt know how or where your hustle comes from , cause he could turn bitch quick it sounds, like i say hope for the best but be prepared for the worst!, Peace TS

 

[flubnutz]

i don't know s4l, this guy is all take take take, no give. comes a time when your friends offer help and a man with dignity and pride's gotta say, "thanks but i'll be all right" and suffer silently. helping to keep a roof over a man's kids, making sure a family's fed is one thing, setting someone up with an oz 'cuz their "stressed" is another.

 

[buckeye-leaf]

wild story it makes ya realize who your real friends are, as charlie daniels said in one of his songs "i aint askin nobody nothin, if i cant get it on my own"

 

[de Toke-ville]

so here we go again, Jack now looking @ jail time once more claims he's going to take it on the lam, heading south for oil clean up work and to get out of state before they decide to toss him back in jail.

this guy hasn't done a hard days work in fucking decades and has quit several jobs recently because they're too tough on him so I can't believe he's going to clean up the oil spill.

he does however want me to hook him up with a bag of weed for his road trip, I can't do it because I've got this creepy feeling I'm being set up by him. He can't/won't provide child support for his kids and wants to stay out of jail desperately (as we all do) and now that I've seen him quit 3 jobs I know how weak he is, no backbone. He did 45 days in that last stint and told me that he cried everyday except maybe 3 days he was there.

I don't sell weed for profit, nor do I buy/grow enough to provide for friends (unless they suffer cancer), I usually burn whatever I get my fat greedy fingers on and something inside me says NO WAY on helping out in this 'friend in need' scenario this time around, I don't need that $100.......

O-M-G Glad to hear you're finally gonna go with your feelings on this S4L, cause you're exactly right.

The fact is, even if this deal isn't a set-up per-se, he would use his knowledge of you in a nano second if he thought it would help him in any way.

A dude that can accept that much help from a friend and then not act grateful, assuming you acted in good faith, is just not right. It's one thing to privately believe you didn't defend him enough, but to be 46 years old and not understand the basic real politik of dealing with what seems like his last friend on Earth is a little scary.

He may not have deserved this last beef, but he's at least a two-time loser, right?

Tell him--for your good AND his--that he is persona non grata as far as you're concerned until he can support himself and act like a god-damned citizen.

Good Luck.


-dTv

 

[bentom187]

nothing good has come from giving him anything theres other people in the world that have pot tell'em to go find one.seriously why would they recruite somone not from luisiana for employment,you think the least bp would do is hire locals, it just sounds wrong to me.

 

[Japanfreakier]

I've told a guy's mommy before. Amazing how well it works.

 

[theHIGHlander]

tell him to jog on ,,,

keep it green
highlander

 

[Stoner4Life]

nope = no dope.

in fact this guy has been playing golf every chance he gets, again instead of doing the right thing by paying child support.


his priorities are askew so badly that I'm sure by now that he's demented enough to have manifested a reason to roll on me and insure his freedom. he's desperate, a few weeks ago he was talking about offing himself instead of going to jail again, I've got no faith/trust in Jack any longer.......


Jack used to be in the inner circle, one of my allies. now he sits in the red ring, an acquaintance bordering on risk.

Sanctuary of the Inner Circle


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