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Prove your point by leaking naked pictures of her on the internet.
Can it include Farm Animals??
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IE2KS_KUSH
All righty, you asked for it. No naked pics here, but here is a pic of her I just snapped working out lol.
IE, I like the new avatar, very liberating. I'm sending you a virtual surf board to ride the wave brotha.
Your wife is cute.
Your wife is cute.
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IE2KS_KUSH
LMFAO! Should have seen her before she started working out.
Time for an avatar change, that other one was kinda dark, and I made it out, so the "escape" is over, so I am gonna try to enjoy what is enjoyable and be the collar poppin' G that I now I can be.
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Marywanna
I could kick her ass for ya......................Man I realize how LUCKY I am to have a good man and treat him that way. Hang in there IE2.
I was in similar situation some years ago when my baby was 1 year old..
I am a product of a "family" that stays together only because of the child and let me tell ya _> it´s horrible for the kid
This in mind we separated with his mummy and things are great nowadays, I just dont see my son, but every other week..
You being in states and having such women I could maybe give you something to think about:
1. drop your grow and convince "the love of your life" that you dont have grow anymore
2. File a divorce
3. Stay clean at least for year and go to test´s and dont grow, or get a "trustworthy" partner
Dont know about USA court system a shit, but I assume they are almost always on the mothers side like everywhere else.. This way you confirm your rights to the child
Wish you luck on this, pls let us know how things evolve, ok? Stay calm and find different address asap, so there is no violence! Believe me, the situation sounds like either of you will get violent very soon under that much "homepress/-stress"
I am a product of a "family" that stays together only because of the child and let me tell ya _> it´s horrible for the kid
This in mind we separated with his mummy and things are great nowadays, I just dont see my son, but every other week..
You being in states and having such women I could maybe give you something to think about:
1. drop your grow and convince "the love of your life" that you dont have grow anymore
2. File a divorce
3. Stay clean at least for year and go to test´s and dont grow, or get a "trustworthy" partner
Dont know about USA court system a shit, but I assume they are almost always on the mothers side like everywhere else.. This way you confirm your rights to the child
Wish you luck on this, pls let us know how things evolve, ok? Stay calm and find different address asap, so there is no violence! Believe me, the situation sounds like either of you will get violent very soon under that much "homepress/-stress"
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LolaGal
please change the title of this thread to something less offensive! please.
2 things lola
1. you cant change thread titles
2. she sure sounds like a bitch, he's entitled to his own opinion.
3. sure beats a "found a frog in my shitter" thread.
4. thats more than 2 things
1. you cant change thread titles
2. she sure sounds like a bitch, he's entitled to his own opinion.
3. sure beats a "found a frog in my shitter" thread.
4. thats more than 2 things
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Marywanna
Notice how women don't complain nearly as much about their partners? Guess we suffer in silence.
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ka0tik_kreati0n
I know a few ex's that think 'im' a bitch... *cough*
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LolaGal
Meow! You sure are catty this morning Cocktail Frank.
Are you still mad at me for farting on your head that time?
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Marywanna
JBlaze
Member
The first thing you should do is get rid of all your equipment, sell it all off. I know this will be extremely difficult but it has to be done. Your wife will always have the leverage if she can show evidence of you possibly growing. Also take that money and use it to start building a case against why you should have custody of your child. Buy cameras or recording devices so you will have evidence against her in court. If I were in your shoes after all of that is done. I'd hire someone to format my computer so that she couldn't have someone trace you back to this site.
You have to make sacrifices for your son. You just have to bite the bullet and be mentally prepared not to be associated with cannabis in your life. No judge will side with you if you failed a drug test.
You have to make sacrifices for your son. You just have to bite the bullet and be mentally prepared not to be associated with cannabis in your life. No judge will side with you if you failed a drug test.
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IE2KS_KUSH
HEy, sorry Lola, I do not want to insult any members here, at least w/ regard to my thread title, and I apologize to anyone that is offended. It is not meant to be put towards any of the women here, just simply at my wife. Like Cocktail Frank said, no way to do it, if a mod wants to I would invite them to, it is not my intent to make this a woman bashing thread by any means, and in fact this thread is better off for the contributions of the women of icmag, most of whom are normal, great woman, for the most part....I guess. (JK)
Truth is, and I know Lola knows this, but if I want to offend someone I will do it and there will be no question as to my intent. Just the same, if you find it offensive Lola, then I don't need an explanation and I don't want you to be offended, I value you as a friend, and I value your opinion. You folks are the best, and if it weren't for all of you, I would not have the courage, to face this down, and seek a better way, or even think that there could be a better way. I do have an interesting tid bit to add from late last night talking to my wife, but no time now, gotta get to a baseball practice, (old man league, to see who keels over and dies last I guess). But yeah, no offense meant, mods if you can then by all means, accommodate her request, if not I understand and would just ask that you please understand that adjective is meant only w/ regard to my wife, not the ladies here, whom are obviously very good women, and whom I respect, w/ very little exception, (there's only an exception lol). Thank you for saying something and not holding it against me Lola and giving me a chance to ask for help w/ your request. I'll be back on topic later tonight, later tators.
Truth is, and I know Lola knows this, but if I want to offend someone I will do it and there will be no question as to my intent. Just the same, if you find it offensive Lola, then I don't need an explanation and I don't want you to be offended, I value you as a friend, and I value your opinion. You folks are the best, and if it weren't for all of you, I would not have the courage, to face this down, and seek a better way, or even think that there could be a better way. I do have an interesting tid bit to add from late last night talking to my wife, but no time now, gotta get to a baseball practice, (old man league, to see who keels over and dies last I guess). But yeah, no offense meant, mods if you can then by all means, accommodate her request, if not I understand and would just ask that you please understand that adjective is meant only w/ regard to my wife, not the ladies here, whom are obviously very good women, and whom I respect, w/ very little exception, (there's only an exception lol). Thank you for saying something and not holding it against me Lola and giving me a chance to ask for help w/ your request. I'll be back on topic later tonight, later tators.
Truth is, as you said, you got a BITCH on your hands. My question to you is this.......first of all, she's selling for her boyfriend to you, spending more time with you every time she comes over. You start f**king her, and a few days later she moves in with you. What the HELL does that tell you about her? You're just as fucked up as she is. You should have known better. It's possible she could be tired of your ass like she got tired of her previous boyfriend, but the bad part about it is you got a baby boy in the deal which you love dearly. You'll be at peace if you leave, but the pain will come from not being woth your son. That will take care of itself, but if you stay, you'll be a miserable man at the sake of keeping your son happy - if possible.
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IE2KS_KUSH
All righty,
first, Vash, I know, I fuct up, and I am fuct up in my own right. Never denied that.
So last night, she came home, put our son to bed, and started talking to me again. It was the first time I can even remember that I have seen her actually sincerely upset. Tears, listening, not yelling, asking not telling, the works. Turns out, she found out that her brother had just filed for divorce from his wife, these 2 seemed to be the perfect couple and it was a shocker. But apparently she spent alot of time talking to her sister inlaw, and the inlaw was giving her all the sorted details of what a divorce meant and the perspective of what actually happens. Needless to say, she was scared, and obviously upset. I don't know if that is a result of her being on the other end of a psychotic episode, or if something clicked in her head. They have 2 kids, a little older than my son. I told her, that for me it really only looked like I had 2 options, stay w/ her and end up in prison, or divorce her and give myself a 50/50 shot. I told her that I just did not see any inclination on her part to actually be "partner/wife" as opposed to an antogonist/enemy which is the role she has been playing. She asked me to just be nice to her, and promised that she would never ever be anything but supportive of me and respect me and what I do. I told her that's all fine and well, but her words don't hold alot of weight w/ me, she has never ever done what she says, or been able to say what she will do. I told her because of the way things have been, I could not trust her any farther than I could throw her, and that I have to see her do this, not hear it.
As it is, it will be a few months before I can really get things moving forward, I told her that and said that she needs to show me that she can do what she says, and that it needs to last for the rest of our lives, not a couple months, or until the next time she gets a hair up her ass. I also told her that I will continue to assume that us divorcing is exactly what we need to do, but that I would be open to making it work if she actually puts in the work. I explained that I can do my part and be nice, but that I will not be nice to anyone that threatens my life and liberty, because if that is what is gonna happen, I am not gonna wait around for her to follow through on any of her threats, I will try to be the best father I can as a divorced dad, because the other option means that I won't be able to be there for my son at all.
I don't know if she was pulling this out of her ass or not. I am not going to hold my breath, but if by chance she can come through and actually act like a human, then I will stay. Since I have some time to kill before I could file, we shall see. Obviously I would prefer to be able to go to sleep at night and wake up every day in the same home as my son, which obviously he would prefer too. Only time will tell, maybe talking to her sister inlaw was the come to jesus moment that she needed. I don't know, I can't predict the future. I did tell her that the last time she threatened me was just that, the last time ever. And that if she ever did it ever again, whether it was 2 days, or 2 years from now, that no questions asked, it is over.
I will continue to update this thread regardless, for one, it is very therapeutic for me to be able to talk to other people, and get feedback. Due to the nature of my lifestyle, I chose not to have 1st person contact w/ anyone aside from very casual contact at work etc...
I do not go anywhere and "hang out" w/ anyone, and really do not have anyone that I would consider a friend w/ exception of maybe 2 people.
This is why I cherish this community, although the manner of interaction is electronic, it does not change the fact for me that it is significant and meaningful. I share a common bond w/ you all here, and can openly talk to you all about things such as this, that I really could not talk to anyone about in my life. Nothing wrong w/ squares, but I would never ever expect them to be able to relate to my life, experiences, and challenges. Most could not get past the fact that I am a grower, and the conversation would never get past that point. This is why you all here are so important to me, and even though I am not at all religious in anyway, I just have to say, god bless this place and these people, w/out them I would be in total solitude and in a very dark place.
So hope for me that she does change, so far so good today, she has not said anything to me w/out using a soft voice, she has not argued w/ me about anything, even when I caught myself being short and rude to her, she did not waiver.
I hope that this thread will go on, and be a place where others in similar situations can post and seek the advice and kind words that were so generously given to me. It's obvious that many of us are in or have been in similar situations, so I see a need for this to live on and benefit others that share my pain. I hope that my posts in the future will be of a positive nature about how we are making it work, I don't know if that will happen or not, and I will not assume that it will for now. She knows she has work to do, as do I, so only time will tell.
Thank you again. Because of the advice that so many of you gave me and the encouragement, I went from believing that if I divorced her that I would be the lowest worst person on earth, to believing that it was in fact the right thing to do is a testament that you all have had a significant and positive impact on my life. For the first time, I had the power, and the upper hand, and for the first time, she realized that it could all be over in the blink of an eye, may have saved my family. It's not all rainbows and unicorns, but it was a little brighter day today, and I really believe if I did not find the courage w/in me to take charge, then she would have never had this sudden change of heart. But I dunno, not going to count my chickens yet, only time will tell me if that is the case. And if it's not, then I have no qualms about moving forward and on w/ my life w/out her and for the first time ever, I think she realizes that.
Thank you
Thank you.
Thank you.
Rep train is about to leave the station now, we'll see how far I can get tonight lol.
first, Vash, I know, I fuct up, and I am fuct up in my own right. Never denied that.
So last night, she came home, put our son to bed, and started talking to me again. It was the first time I can even remember that I have seen her actually sincerely upset. Tears, listening, not yelling, asking not telling, the works. Turns out, she found out that her brother had just filed for divorce from his wife, these 2 seemed to be the perfect couple and it was a shocker. But apparently she spent alot of time talking to her sister inlaw, and the inlaw was giving her all the sorted details of what a divorce meant and the perspective of what actually happens. Needless to say, she was scared, and obviously upset. I don't know if that is a result of her being on the other end of a psychotic episode, or if something clicked in her head. They have 2 kids, a little older than my son. I told her, that for me it really only looked like I had 2 options, stay w/ her and end up in prison, or divorce her and give myself a 50/50 shot. I told her that I just did not see any inclination on her part to actually be "partner/wife" as opposed to an antogonist/enemy which is the role she has been playing. She asked me to just be nice to her, and promised that she would never ever be anything but supportive of me and respect me and what I do. I told her that's all fine and well, but her words don't hold alot of weight w/ me, she has never ever done what she says, or been able to say what she will do. I told her because of the way things have been, I could not trust her any farther than I could throw her, and that I have to see her do this, not hear it.
As it is, it will be a few months before I can really get things moving forward, I told her that and said that she needs to show me that she can do what she says, and that it needs to last for the rest of our lives, not a couple months, or until the next time she gets a hair up her ass. I also told her that I will continue to assume that us divorcing is exactly what we need to do, but that I would be open to making it work if she actually puts in the work. I explained that I can do my part and be nice, but that I will not be nice to anyone that threatens my life and liberty, because if that is what is gonna happen, I am not gonna wait around for her to follow through on any of her threats, I will try to be the best father I can as a divorced dad, because the other option means that I won't be able to be there for my son at all.
I don't know if she was pulling this out of her ass or not. I am not going to hold my breath, but if by chance she can come through and actually act like a human, then I will stay. Since I have some time to kill before I could file, we shall see. Obviously I would prefer to be able to go to sleep at night and wake up every day in the same home as my son, which obviously he would prefer too. Only time will tell, maybe talking to her sister inlaw was the come to jesus moment that she needed. I don't know, I can't predict the future. I did tell her that the last time she threatened me was just that, the last time ever. And that if she ever did it ever again, whether it was 2 days, or 2 years from now, that no questions asked, it is over.
I will continue to update this thread regardless, for one, it is very therapeutic for me to be able to talk to other people, and get feedback. Due to the nature of my lifestyle, I chose not to have 1st person contact w/ anyone aside from very casual contact at work etc...
I do not go anywhere and "hang out" w/ anyone, and really do not have anyone that I would consider a friend w/ exception of maybe 2 people.
This is why I cherish this community, although the manner of interaction is electronic, it does not change the fact for me that it is significant and meaningful. I share a common bond w/ you all here, and can openly talk to you all about things such as this, that I really could not talk to anyone about in my life. Nothing wrong w/ squares, but I would never ever expect them to be able to relate to my life, experiences, and challenges. Most could not get past the fact that I am a grower, and the conversation would never get past that point. This is why you all here are so important to me, and even though I am not at all religious in anyway, I just have to say, god bless this place and these people, w/out them I would be in total solitude and in a very dark place.
So hope for me that she does change, so far so good today, she has not said anything to me w/out using a soft voice, she has not argued w/ me about anything, even when I caught myself being short and rude to her, she did not waiver.
I hope that this thread will go on, and be a place where others in similar situations can post and seek the advice and kind words that were so generously given to me. It's obvious that many of us are in or have been in similar situations, so I see a need for this to live on and benefit others that share my pain. I hope that my posts in the future will be of a positive nature about how we are making it work, I don't know if that will happen or not, and I will not assume that it will for now. She knows she has work to do, as do I, so only time will tell.
Thank you again. Because of the advice that so many of you gave me and the encouragement, I went from believing that if I divorced her that I would be the lowest worst person on earth, to believing that it was in fact the right thing to do is a testament that you all have had a significant and positive impact on my life. For the first time, I had the power, and the upper hand, and for the first time, she realized that it could all be over in the blink of an eye, may have saved my family. It's not all rainbows and unicorns, but it was a little brighter day today, and I really believe if I did not find the courage w/in me to take charge, then she would have never had this sudden change of heart. But I dunno, not going to count my chickens yet, only time will tell me if that is the case. And if it's not, then I have no qualms about moving forward and on w/ my life w/out her and for the first time ever, I think she realizes that.
Thank you
Thank you.
Thank you.
Rep train is about to leave the station now, we'll see how far I can get tonight lol.
