My big brother

[johndoe123]

So sorry for your loss. Ya got a family full of support here for you in this trying time.....

 

[resinryder]

Thanks for the support everyone. What I'm trying to figure out now is how the hell I get his body from here to red hook new York. He never left any info on burial wishes but Im pretty sure he would want to be buried by his son. So that's what I'm gonna do. Has anyone ever had to do this? Do I call an airline and make arrangements? How the hell do i get his remains cross country? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Contact a funeral home either where you are or in Red Hook. They do this everyday and can give you the best advise you can get. I'd call the one in Red Hook first to see what they suggest as they are the one you'll have to deal with to open the grave site. May keep cost down a bit by dealing with just one. If traditional burial he will have to be transported in a casket so you'll probably have to deal with a funeral home there. If cremation is an option, that can be done where you are then you can carry him on the plane as carry on with a xrayable urn(TSA has to be able to see through it as with everything else) and the appropriate paper work.

 

[Midwest sticky]

Contact a funeral home either where you are or in Red Hook. They do this everyday and can give you the best advise you can get. I'd call the one in Red Hook first to see what they suggest as they are the one you'll have to deal with to open the grave site. May keep cost down a bit by dealing with just one. If traditional burial he will have to be transported in a casket so you'll probably have to deal with a funeral home there. If cremation is an option, that can be done where you are then you can carry him on the plane as carry on with a xrayable urn(TSA has to be able to see through it as with everything else) and the appropriate paper work.

i made the arrangements. the funeral home made things so simple i will be going Friday. thanks everyone.

 

[sourpuss]

Did what you had to do. Hope you find your peace within. Sucks big time....

 

[Midwest sticky]

thanks sp and rr

 

[fcjohnny]

sorry for your lost brother!

 

[Midwest sticky]

what was the cause of death ?

thread is kinda like trueblood x narnia . needs to have the matrix added to make since. How can you be close enough to him to do that but not close enough to teach him how to use drugs ?

listen very carefully i just burried him this morning the last thing i need to hear right now is your psychotic ramblings stay the fuck out of this thread douchebag.

 

[wolfhoundaddy]

loosin a bro

loosin a bro

Blinkn back some tears here. Lots of us share your pain. I lost my twin brother to alcohol almost thirty years ago. I still miss him and often dwell on how he left us. I am glad for the time we did have and hope to see him when I pass.
He suffered while on earth, why else would he have lived like he did. For that I am glad he is gone. I think he will get a make over and will pass next time around.

 

[sourpuss]

Just wrong. Pure disrespect. Punk bitch is putting it lightly.

 

[resinryder]

Midwest don't let this pathetic glob of santorum ruin your day. He's a lowlife piece of shit that has nothing better to do that spout his twisted brand of drivel on the internet from his mothers basement. He keeps getting banned for the same shit but he can't take the hint to just fuck off and fucking fuck himself when he gets to where ever he fucked off to.
He's not worth the fleck of shit on a blowfly's lip.
Edited to add-the trash has been taken out, thanks admin

 

[Midwest sticky]

thanks rr and sp .i cant wait to hop on the plane go home to my gf and daughter icouldnt afford 3 plane tickets and all the funeral costs so they stayed home it was a sad funeral the only people there was me and his ex wife i wasnt able to bury him right next to his son but he's5 plots away.

 

[Grownomenal]

My heart goes out to you man. I'm glad he was laid to rest. Your a good brother for doing what's right for him. I hope you and your loved ones find peace.

 

[Midwest sticky]

^^thanks. i find peacefulness in spending time with my gf and
my kid and growing so thats what ive been doing. took her to the zoo yesterday in 30-40 days ill be harvesting and i got some testers going plus i just popped a bunch of different kinds so that will keep me busy and peaceful.

 

[resinryder]

You got to keep your mind occupied.

 

[Mrs.Babba]

So sorry for the loss of your brother, you did real good. He would be proud of how his brother has handled some really tough decision. Stay strong and think of the good times.

 

[Midwest sticky]

You got to keep your mind occupied.

definitely staying busy.

 

[Midwest sticky]

So sorry for the loss of your brother, you did real good. He would be proud of how his brother has handled some really tough decision. Stay strong and think of the good times.

thanks for the kind words

 

[JointOperation]

if he told you he didnt want to live on life support you did the right thing bro.. sorry for your loss.. any family loss is hard.. wether you hated them or not at the time..

and what people need to understand is.. heroin.. is tough .. its not about love.. will power. anything you can imagine.. its about not being sick.. like FLU X 1000000 .. for up to 2 weeks.. but.. you know.. all it takes.. is a tiny little opiates.. and your flu is postponed..


what i will say.. is .. when i was using.. i still loved my family. just as much as ever.. just was so ashamed of what i had become i couldnt stand to face them. making it very awkward. .. just know the drugs make people do things they dont want to do ..

also know he loved you and didnt do anything intentionally to hurt you or your family... the drug changed him from selfless to selfish.. the US medical system failed him.. as they know that ibogaine works for all addictions / ptsd. all sorts of shit.. and they keep it illegal because being a drug addict makes them more and more money.. billing insurance companies.. and taxing the citizens. to pay for it ... what a beautiful system we have..