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MRS. DJXX RIP

Mrs.Babba

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IMHO we should thank you, when people share what hurts or helps or gives them joy we all get connected and grow together. I know you sharing your experience changed the way I look at the people around me. I think this is a good example of your late wife making the world a better place, she inspired enough love in you that you where able to reach out and share your pain. We all grow together.

Well said theother, it is so true. So sorry for the loss of your wife DJ.
 

Tulku

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hope you're holding up DJ, glad you got plenty of homies showing some love up in here...stay up and positive about life bro.
 

DJXX

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once again more kindness...you guys have touched a place in my heart and hers too...thanks DJXX
 
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SPG.

your words are greater than any of these "Great Comforting words" to you ;)



all luv m8...
 
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monkey5

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DJXX, So very sorry to hear about your wife passing on! Prayers for you my brother! Many blessings to you! monkey5
 
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turtle farmer

Very sorry to read about your loss..Healing prayers out to you from Nor Cal..
 

DJXX

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thanks for cking budman....doin ok i guess....i have the new routine down but still find myself just in a fog thinking about her...my crying spells are much farther apart but still have them...a special thanks to the IC family...it really helped me in my crisis...i love all you peeps on here...DJXX
 
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johndoe123

I never stopped in to offer my proper condolences to you my friend.. I can only imagine the pain from the loss of a spouse. Keep on truckin brother...
 
thanks for cking budman....doin ok i guess....i have the new routine down but still find myself just in a fog thinking about her...my crying spells are much farther apart but still have them...a special thanks to the IC family...it really helped me in my crisis...i love all you peeps on here...DJXX


you're doing the best anyone could ask of you, big, big, hug going out to you brother. free to listen if you need an ear.
 

DJXX

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thanks rik..things are finally settling down...hard to believe that almost 6 weeks have passed by...if i didn't have my garden to play with, i don't know what i would have done...great therapy and meds too...DJXX
 

monsoon

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I lost my oldest son 3+ years ago and it has been incredibly tough.

My thoughts are with you, DJXX. PM's always open if you need to vent...

they died, but the love they left lives on within.
 

Weird

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thanks rik..things are finally settling down...hard to believe that almost 6 weeks have passed by...if i didn't have my garden to play with, i don't know what i would have done...great therapy and meds too...DJXX


Pot has helped gotten me through the most painful parts of my life and when the pain became so bad I became a junkie, well it helped me past that as well.

Glad to see you posting, talking about it and moving forward with as much grace as possible.

I have learned that suffering does not have to be a consequence of loss although it is our nature to go to this place first.

My grandmother passed 37 years after my grandfather, yet it never felt as if they were apart. She had an amazing way of looking at the world and keeping memories alive.

We can look at the dynamics of life and call them a punishment or a call them a gift, it is after all a matter of perspective.

You could break it down to a simple were you cursed to lose here early or blessed to have her at all.

I know that these are simply matters of perspective but this is the realm we ultimately have control over.
 
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