I got shitted on...

[Four2Zero]

I can understand someone who is a roommate but not one of the growers, being uncomfortable with your grow. You dont want your school or landlord to find out but you are legal. Actually this says allot about the situation and bolsters your previously "clill" roommates position. Why should he risk the same with school and landlord etc as if he were the grower? For a little bud? Probably not... not me anyway thank you very much. You kinda put him in a bad position didnt you? As others have mentioned most landlords dont want grows. A friend who just signed a year lease told me that the lease specified no indoor prop 215 grows, outdoor only and they told him because they ended up with mildew in one room. This is in the mountains norcal. You are not ready to grow if there are these issues in my opinion. Your sitch aint clean.

 

[Jack Crevalle]

I can understand someone who is a roommate but not one of the growers, being uncomfortable with your grow. You dont want your school or landlord to find out but you are legal. Actually this says allot about the situation and bolsters your previously "clill" roommates position. Why should he risk the same with school and landlord etc as if he were the grower? For a little bud? Probably not... not me anyway thank you very much. You kinda put him in a bad position didnt you? As others have mentioned most landlords dont want grows. A friend who just signed a year lease told me that the lease specified no indoor prop 215 grows, outdoor only and they told him because they ended up with mildew in one room. This is in the mountains norcal. You are not ready to grow if there are these issues in my opinion. Your sitch aint clean.

Good point, I agree that college apartments or rentals for that matter are highly subject to breaches in security..You're missing the main point though, the bitch handled business like a kid, not an adult, Narcing to mommy and daddy is an unwritten law, you should know that!

 

[inverse]

alright thanks for the responses everyone. i specifically appreciate stoner4life's post roasting me, as i probably deserved it. I guess i should have mentioned that i'm not pissed he wanted to leave...its just that he didnt talk to us at all about it first. When he came with his parents he avoided us and refused to talk to us in person...so it was his bitch out that made me upset. He didn't handle biz like a man...and yeah

i'm really thinking about taking down the grow, but ive already invested so much money into it...it sucks. what do you guys think about finishing off the grow, ponying up those 2 months of this guys rent, and then cleaning up shop and subletting to someone for the remaining 4 months? only problem is grow room security is completely fucked....damn, the reality of my having to trash this grow is becoming more and more clear

 

[Four2Zero]

Good point, I agree that college apartments or rentals for that matter are highly subject to breaches in security..You're missing the main point though, the bitch handled business like a kid, not an adult, Narcing to mommy and daddy is an unwritten law, you should know that!

I agree any narcing is bad. The roommate that bailed should have talked with his roomies before his Dad. Aparently we ARE talking about kids, not adults so yeah thats what happens. On the other hand a grow in a place with 4 young guys, 2 of which are doing the grow and the other 2 not is a recipe for a million people knowing anyway. The kid who told his Dad is no surprise if they are close so I dont automatically see that as narcing. Its a legal grow and the roommate was being put at risk in other ways. The Dad is cool as he wasnt gonna say nothin but his kid was put at risk for all other kind o shit so he probably told him son get out before shit flies, like for instance the landlord kicks you out or you get expelled from school. For those reasons, I doubt the growers could win a lawsuit to recover the funds... after all we're not talking about being busted were talking about other repurcussions.

 

[Jack Crevalle]

i specifically appreciate stoner4life's post roasting me, as i probably deserved it.

No you don't, he's a moron, been sending me tons of stupid pm's, the guy is mental

Anyways, find a spot for you and your grow buddy to start over, maybe rent a 2 bedroom (far from college campus) and grow in a whole room, that way you can cover rent and have enough income to offset the expenses which can be a difficult thing living with so many roomies, 4two0 is right

 

[Stoner4Life]

alright thanks for the responses everyone. i specifically appreciate stoner4life's post roasting me, as i probably deserved it. I guess i should have mentioned that i'm not pissed he wanted to leave...its just that he didnt talk to us at all about it first. When he came with his parents he avoided us and refused to talk to us in person...

I'm glad you didn't take offense dude. I'll try to explain my ways in a few words right here.

There are three sides to every story, your side, his side, and the truth which lies somewhere in between. I only heard your side w/o any consideration for what his side might've been so I took the offensive stance for him in what might be his legit reasons for wanting out of there.

Do we know whether or not his grades were suffering for the party atmosphere in the house? No. Do we know about his paranoia about being busted? No. Maybe because he though the whole scene was cool & a legit grow he might've mentioned it to his folks during a conversation, maybe then they insisted he get out or they'd cut off his $$$ for college. Any of those scenarios is/was a possibility and more or less a legit reason for him to leave the apartment.

That's it inverse, no harm intended but I felt I needed to put forth what might've been his side of the story. Whatever you decide to do in regards to his leaving you high & dry for his share of the apartment costs are up to you.

Best of luck in all your goals.......

 

[The_Leader]

i bet money the kid flunked out and used you and your weed as a mom and dad excuse for being a dumbass retard that rats....

s4l is spot on about the money. if the folks are willing to blacmail ya? u know they wouldnt hesitate.

one thought. what was rats religon? i know catholics and jewish ppl that would kill to keep their elders out of bad crap.

 

[Stoner4Life]

No you don't, he's a moron, been sending me tons of stupid pm's, the guy is mental

There are the TWO PMs I sent you.

 

[KharmaGirl]

If you have a problem with a member put him/her on your ignore list. Or pm a Mod or Admin. This is not the way to go and you both know it. Neither of you is in the right so end it now before it gets out of hand.

 

[Stoner4Life]

If you have a problem with a member put him/her on your ignore list. Or pm a Mod or Admin. This is not the way to go and you both know it. Neither of you is in the right so end it now before it gets out of hand.

You're right KG. I guess by proving someone is lying about me it looks like an argument. I'm going to remove the inflammatory language above.

 

[FRANKENBLUNT420]

from what i have learned of people especially with my last grow, he isnt worth it at all. its obvious from his actions when his parents came to get him what was up. that could have gone so many ways. someone that you talk to all the time, share a apt. with, now all of a sudden you cant talk to them? B.S.!!! no matter what/how he and his parents talked about things,he didnt have to filtch on his portion of rent.

he could have talked to everyone and said "hey, after "X" amount of time im gonna be going, the grow scene just isnt for me" plain, simple, end of discussion everyone parts ways amicably.

what i think happened was he was home, blabbed about it, his convo was overheard and moms/pops got into his ass. he probably didnt even make eye contact huh? for me body language speaks volumes over verbal any day. i would have watched the way his parents looks, his looks/demeanor all that. not to say that it circumvents the fact that you have to get the loot for the rent, but the body language does help overall. was he acting funny b4 all this happened? and then for it to happen all of a sudden? fishy very fishy indeed.

 

[inverse]

from what i have learned of people especially with my last grow, he isnt worth it at all. its obvious from his actions when his parents came to get him what was up. that could have gone so many ways. someone that you talk to all the time, share a apt. with, now all of a sudden you cant talk to them? B.S.!!! no matter what/how he and his parents talked about things,he didnt have to filtch on his portion of rent.

he could have talked to everyone and said "hey, after "X" amount of time im gonna be going, the grow scene just isnt for me" plain, simple, end of discussion everyone parts ways amicably.

what i think happened was he was home, blabbed about it, his convo was overheard and moms/pops got into his ass. he probably didnt even make eye contact huh? for me body language speaks volumes over verbal any day. i would have watched the way his parents looks, his looks/demeanor all that. not to say that it circumvents the fact that you have to get the loot for the rent, but the body language does help overall. was he acting funny b4 all this happened? and then for it to happen all of a sudden? fishy very fishy indeed.

well, more has come out since yesterday.
Since we live in a ghetto, I have had for several months locked up and hidden in my room a mossberg shotgun, which i sometimes take up to the range for sport. As well, i have a orange perscription pill case filled with pills i got 2 weeks ago from the doc for some whiplash i experienced. Apparently, dude went into my room over break snooping around (for whatever reason) and found the shotgun, then looked on the counter and saw the perscription pills, and flipped out.
He told my other roomates today on the phone that he feared for their lives that i would kill them all because he thinks i'm "popping pills" and will "kill everyone" because i have a shotgun.

At first i was completely taken aback that he was insinuating i'm strung out on drugs that will make me a killing machine with my shotgun. However, on further reflection i could have seen this mental breakdown of his coming. he's been acting hella weird for weeks now co0mplaining about how hes stressed and just wants to go back home. I think he had a breakdown (hes alwys been a bit mental) and wanted to go home, so he used the excuse of us having a grow and me "being crazy" to his parents. The only thing that had me and my roomates puzzled was that he actually called them and told them they could lvie at his house because i'm such a danger. Me and my roomates had a laugh at that...but really, dilusional thinking like that is probably what lead to him going home

sigh