hey makedadproud,,,,Well, if everyone thinks I'm a douchebag then I must be one. My wife and I went to the bank this morning and politely chatted with the manager and showed them on different forms how the bank kept switching when the charges were posted and we were able to get them to remove the rest of the charges to us.
This might make me an ultra douchebag, but we closed our account then and there and opened another one up at a credit union. The credit union told us that they could, in fact, just decline our card from now on if the funds arent there. Splendid.
Wish I could've handled it better.