FUCK!!! Damn Im Pissed OFF for REAL!!!!!!!!!

[Guest]

Ok, so Ive been with my wife for almost 10ys, but I thnk that it's over. Loose Lips Sink Ships man!!! Fuck.

We have a halfway decent relationship, and a kid (a 4yo.) She's cool as hell in alot of respects, but man, she a socialite and needs to be "cool" so she tends to talk alot to appear top notch. Which she is. She is a beautiful woman, but fuck, I think that this is the last straw. She's done it before too.

Fuck fuck fuck.

Everything gets shut down TONITE!

Tomorow may be the first day of our separation, and may lead to divorce. Which sucks cause she's a good lady. I just am not in love anymore, and this just breaks the camels back.

Fuck Im gona cry.

Thanks for listening.

 

[Wisconsinsmoker]

ay man my mom left my dad cuz she wasnt in love anymore...i mean shit man if you dont love someone theres really no point in acting like you do. just think of your kid before you do anything think about whats best for her/him.

anyways good luck man keep it safe..


peace...

ws

 

[PhenoMenal]

dasme, sorry to hear things have gone downhill ... hopefully if you both do break up itll be smooth and youll both work together for the sake of your kid, and for his sake i think you should sleep on it mate - doesn't sound like you should be making any decisions today
Best of luck mate

 

[Guest]

This is the second time Ive had a nice setup going and she blabs about! This sucks. To top it all off, I may never get back into it again... Who knows, she may THINK Im growing and call on me, just as payback for not wanting to be with her. Id be TOO parinoid.

Im not sure what to do about the kid.I have always been fearfull of leaving and having my youth turn into some sort of wreck. That would break my heart. But there's that other part that's like... "Oh well, Im not happy and I have to do what makes ME happy." No matter what I do, I have to plan it out well cause I dont want to just leave. I would want to at least pay rent for a few months.

Man, latley Ive been wanting to sell my home buisness and move out west, or overseas. Though I am very emotional and extreme. The only thing that has kept me sain is my plants. All of them, not just the beloved.

 

[zamalito]

Wow man that's a big sacrifice for your garden. Im not pretending to know you or your situation and I'm by no means judging you but leaving your wife and child because you cant keep a garden sounds pretty extreme. At the same time I'm amazed that a mother would blab knowing that a bust would could mean losing custody of your child. One thing about a long relationship is there's always going to be an ebb and flo to how strongly you feel about each other. I'd never admit this to her but there have been times when I wondered if I loved my wife but 3 months will go by and I realize there isn't anyone else in the world I'd rather be with.

A few weels ago a close friend of mine's father got busted. He's 65 years old, heavily arthritic and his wife suffers from a serious degenerative illness. The police had come to serve some kind of warrant and his wife let them in and his plants were in the kitchen. She knew they were in the kitchen but she's in so much pain all of the time she probably forgot when the police knocked on the door. They live really depressing lives. They're both sick poor and their home is falling apart. I really wish the police had just made them destry the 3 plants and just left with a warning, If wishes and buts.... I know their situation is much different from you own but maybe it will help. I'm sure there's many other factors at play but I mean this is a beautiful woman who's promised to stand by you and take care of you when you're sick or broke she had your child that's not something you should take lightly.

 

[Guest]

Do the world a favor, get neutered. 10 years you are married and you still aren't a man. Picking your garden and YOUR happiness over your family, they'll be better off without your sorry ass.

If you think all your going to pay is a few months rent, your in for a big surprise, daddy.

 

[cooked cook]

uh oh, dasme...loks like your wife has got an account here and is chiming in on your thread. I think the jig is up.
good luck.
cc

 

[Guest]

You talkin to me? I'm no fucking woman you dumbass.

 

[cocktail frank]

Do the world a favor, get neutered. 10 years you are married and you still aren't a man. Picking your garden and YOUR happiness over your family, they'll be better off without your sorry ass.

If you think all your going to pay is a few months rent, your in for a big surprise, daddy.

i have to agree w/ this statement.
saying it's all about you is B.S.
you have a child, it should be about THE KID!!!
once you have children, it's not about you anymore man.
make the mature desicion, what's best for the child!
wtf is wrong with people today?
it's a bummer about your wife, but it appears to me, that you are both quite selfish.
does she think that her blabbing couldn't get her in trouble either?
either way, i mean no disrespect, but you have to do the right thing for the sake of the child.
NOT YOU

 

[nycdfan042]

hash sheesh have some class( & take a joke) guys.....flaming eachothers only gonna make US as a community look bad

as for the thread starter, i hope you find peace in your heart and harmony in your life..

 

[Alancr]

Sorry to hear that mate I know how it feels pal and it's unbareble pain

 

[Guest]

Do the world a favor, get neutered. 10 years you are married and you still aren't a man. Picking your garden and YOUR happiness over your family, they'll be better off without your sorry ass.

If you think all your going to pay is a few months rent, your in for a big surprise, daddy.

So what did you become a member here just to post that. Maybe you should walk in Dasme shoes for a day before posting your bull.

 

[cocktail frank]

really guys, how is that bull?
i mean i don't agree with the slandering in there, w/ the whole neutering tidbit, but he made quite a valid point.
shouldn't he/we be more concered about the kids well being here?
it's all about the big picture.

 

[bagseed77]

once you realize you will never be content with what you have,then and
only then can you be truly happy!!~me

the feeling of being in love is overated,doesnt last forever,got me in jail a plenty

"If you havent practiced your alibi speech in the mirror,your not in love!"chris rock

Its all about the kid now, not you,i barely speak to my father because he was never there so why should i talk to him now.

 

[nycdfan042]

thats why i dont post my personal business, your subject to EVERYONEWS viewpoints...and some might not like it...i beleive its up to the thread starter and not us.

 

[Andyo]

most guys in jail are there because of women.watch your back .

 

[Danksta]

No point of prolonging your dismay... let it end on a good note with the good memories intact

 

[cooked cook]

If I offended anyone with my previous post, I apologize. Just a little joke. I'm constantly clowning, and really wasn't trying to stir any shit. My apologies.
That being said, I don't think any of us really know what the thread starter's particular situation is, so I don't think any of us can speculate as to what kind of a husband, or what kind of a father the dude is. for all we know, he may be prepared to take the wife to court and spend his every cent sueing for custody.
Also, I think there are plenty of guys out there that are no longer with the mother of their kids, but still remain good fathers.
It's this cook's opinion that staying in a situation where one is miserable, and constantly being unhappy and possibly fighting in front of the kids is not a desirable situation, and will not be in the kids best interest...but that's just my opinion...what do I know, as far as havin kids is concerned, this cook is happily a non-breeder.
So, to the thread starter, I say good luck in sorting this situation out. I wish you and all other people on the planet much safety and happiness.
cc

 

[Guest 18340]

Do the world a favor, get neutered. 10 years you are married and you still aren't a man. Picking your garden and YOUR happiness over your family, they'll be better off without your sorry ass.

If you think all your going to pay is a few months rent, your in for a big surprise, daddy.

Take a pill dude, no need to flame the guy. You dont know the ins/outs of his relationship. Hes' here looking for alittle support from the community and you come along and dis him, not cool.

And all that shit about doing whats right for the children-are you supposed to stay in a relationship JUST for a childs' sake? Thats like telling a battered woman to take the beatings for the sake of her child. Obviously his wife aint thinking about the child or else shed keep her mouth shut so her husband doesnt get busted. Its a 2 way street. Stop trying to be fucking therapists that claim to know everything. How about just giving the guy a pat on the back and wish him well on this dificult time for him. Wheres the love here?
And you dont even have kids, cook? You have no clue what the hell youre even talking about then. Jeez.

dasme, do what you gotta do brother. Lotsa guys in jail 'cause there ol' lady couldnt keep a secret

 

[beej]

Gotta do what you gotta do man. You should definitely consider the child's well-being. Daddy left us when I was young, but I didn't turn out fucked up or anything. Just don't abandon him/her.

If it was me, I don't think I'd leave over my garden, but that blabbing would surely piss me off. I would definitely smoke on it for a while. It is your family...