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Faithfully married
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turtle farmer
29 years in February...High school sweethearts and best friends.
Got her preagnant senior year
Wouldn't change a thing..
Empty nesters at 45,cant beat that.
Got her preagnant senior year
Wouldn't change a thing..
Empty nesters at 45,cant beat that.
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noyd666
44 years.
picture of the kids,
SecondAttempt
Active member
A lot of you have been married longer than I've been alive... good job. Married for 4 years, together 4 years before that... We spend every second together, when it's right it's right.
Walt Jabsco
Member
O.K.
Close your eyes.
Now imagine taking everything you have ever worked for.
Piling it up in a big pile.
Then striking a match and setting it ablaze.
There is an 75% chance this scenario will happen.
If you are willing to accept those odds and consequences then by all means, get married.
Just go in with that in mind.
Close your eyes.
Now imagine taking everything you have ever worked for.
Piling it up in a big pile.
Then striking a match and setting it ablaze.
There is an 75% chance this scenario will happen.
If you are willing to accept those odds and consequences then by all means, get married.
Just go in with that in mind.
OranguTrump
Crotchety Old Crotch
what about bacon? i could have it TWICE a day from now on...
A hearty "Ramen" to that - bacon IS life!
bacon doesn't call the cops ,cheat on you ,steal your shit....I don't even eat the same kind of bacon daily....variety my man ,variety...my kids days a re done my sonis 26..i am free to catch and release women just like fish....yeehaw
whatsmells
Member
21 years this month. I found the key to staying married. Forget all the books and marriage counselors. Its the ability to just say Fuck it. The wife spent too much money on shoes? Fuck it. The wife ran into the back of another car while talking on the cell phone and putting on her makeup? Fuck it. Standup for what you believe in but pick your battles. Is .... worth a divorce? No, fuck it. My wife is an idiot? Fuck it.
Like I tell the wife "Till death do us part...AND THERE ARE PLENTY OF HOLES IN THE BACK 40 THAT NEED FILLIN"
She resorts to "yup, and I'll cut off you wang and feed it to the beaver in the pond if you ever "dick" around"..
7thson
Member
My wife says the same thing about cutting it off.She also tells me to stick it in the socket(outlet).
women evaporate at the first sign of work or trouble.
I have this 30 year old microwave I just threw out. The new one probably won't last 3 years. now that I've just called you all microwaves, wanna date?
I have this 30 year old microwave I just threw out. The new one probably won't last 3 years. now that I've just called you all microwaves, wanna date?
I'm not technically married. She asked to be my girlfriend over 8 years ago. I said no. We still hang around each other. Outlasted a lot of friends marriages. She hit 30, abandoned partying, and now I'd be happy to think on it.
Just wish I didn't push so hard to marry the one that wanted to be with me. Build a life, all that. She said she never wanted to be married, but I know better. And I pushed her away by asking for too much, too soon.
Just wish I didn't push so hard to marry the one that wanted to be with me. Build a life, all that. She said she never wanted to be married, but I know better. And I pushed her away by asking for too much, too soon.
The wife and I have been with each other 20 years, married 10+
Once you find the right one (or as close to "right" one can find in a woman) it is easy.
We give each other whatever we need/want, within reason.
Don't go to bed angry, communication is key!
The best help I can be with advice is this.
Make sure she isn't crazy!
There's a lot of crazy women out there, don't wife one of them.
Also make sure she isn't insecure, although that's a double edged sword.
Insecurity is closely followed by jealousy.
Can't keep a confident woman in check, I've tried!
Remember the math
Insecure + jealousy = crazy
Crazy + you = alimony +/- child support
Once you find the right one (or as close to "right" one can find in a woman) it is easy.
We give each other whatever we need/want, within reason.
Don't go to bed angry, communication is key!
The best help I can be with advice is this.
Make sure she isn't crazy!
There's a lot of crazy women out there, don't wife one of them.
Also make sure she isn't insecure, although that's a double edged sword.
Insecurity is closely followed by jealousy.
Can't keep a confident woman in check, I've tried!
Remember the math
Insecure + jealousy = crazy
Crazy + you = alimony +/- child support
There's no instruction on how to do it because it happens when it happens and when it happens it's different for everyone. Don't worry though you'll know it when it happens, it will hit like an epiphany.
Unfortunately not everyone finds that perfect match or they do but the match isn't interested or available. Some people can't wait so they start setting their sites lower. Which tends to result in unhappy unions.
I did it, 16 going on 17 years ago now. In all that time when we got angry we might yell at each other but we've never resorted to name calling. We both figure if you truly love each other you won't resort to hurtful names you'll regret latter when you make up.
I was single until almost 40 and I was starting to be ready to remain single. Not for lack of trying to change that either, just lack of success. For me it's like that Tom Cruise line from Jerry Maguire when he says to Renée Zellweger "You complete me". When I met my wife she filled these parts of me that I didn't even notice were missing. She describes it much the same for her.
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noyd666
I found mine wandering the roads at night looking for road kill.
