I would love to know what happens with using the gravel for aeration. I think it could work like Perlite - Perlite works because it doesn't compress and keeps the mix from compacting. It creates spaces for air and the irregular surface has lots of pores for air. But perlite is closed-cell just like gravel - aiir, water and roots cannot get inside the chunks of perlite.
Gravel could work the same, with the one difference that it's much heavier. I'd be worried about the weight actually pressing down on the lighter elements in the mix like the fibrous peat or coir strands and crushing them. it probably depends on the exact rock too, if the gravel has a smoother surface than perlite it won't work. Rocks with a rough surface like lava rock are used in soil mix.
https://buildasoil.com/collections/aeration/products/small-black-lava-rock?variant=12367261728885
FWIW, I love perlite, cannabis loves it, I would pay whatever it costs to get it
Interesting..I did not know perlite was closed cell