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Go for it bro..just don't get stuck there. I'm not saying I made a mistake by doing something very similar to your situation..but sometimes I wonder...where did my 20's go?
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Oh..and let her know right off the bat what you WILL NOT do. Relationships have this way of surfacing certain things about 2 years in that never got talked about before hand.
"Why do I hav to ask you to take out the trash?"
"Did you brush your teeth?"
"Ughh..your feet stink..i know you just got off work, but go wash them"
"Did you tell my dad Happy Birthday?"
"You know..we both need to go on a diet"
"Why does the room look like shit?"
"I'm too tired to have sex."
Me: "For the last 9 months?"
her: "yes"
"I thought you said you were gonna try & stop smoking"
The list goes on, my friend...but have fun while you can. There's nothing like falling in love. But staying in love is no walk in the park.
"Why do I hav to ask you to take out the trash?"
"Did you brush your teeth?"
"Ughh..your feet stink..i know you just got off work, but go wash them"
"Did you tell my dad Happy Birthday?"
"You know..we both need to go on a diet"
"Why does the room look like shit?"
"I'm too tired to have sex."
Me: "For the last 9 months?"
her: "yes"
"I thought you said you were gonna try & stop smoking"
The list goes on, my friend...but have fun while you can. There's nothing like falling in love. But staying in love is no walk in the park.
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sow the seeds
This situations are pretty strange...as almost any relationship is I think. My advice would be live for the moment. Don't be thinking now "oh I love this girl and I want to marry her and ect" (I'm not saying are you)...just let whatever happen. I don't have much experience with this type of thing but I always find I end up getting ahead of myself and things go to shit.
But congrats on finding a cool girl and I wish you all the best.
But congrats on finding a cool girl and I wish you all the best.
DrugleyDoRite
Member
pieceofmyheart said:
Yes. As the old saying goes, "It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all."
Follow your heart, not your head. Your head will just get you all confused.
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The only way to know if you can stand someone is by living with them. Unfortunately it's the truth. If you want to know if you can stand each other on a daily basis one of you will have to make the move if you are serious, the whole long distance thing opens the door for cheating. I like what Mr. Nevermind said about banging other dudes while talking to you on the phone. Sounds like you are more in love than she is maybe?
I'd make her prove that she really wants it...maybe she is just saying that to try to make you happy? Ask her if she is willing to move to your town. Passion and love are two things that go hand in hand, but one can't really last without the other in man/woman relationship.
I'd make her prove that she really wants it...maybe she is just saying that to try to make you happy? Ask her if she is willing to move to your town. Passion and love are two things that go hand in hand, but one can't really last without the other in man/woman relationship.
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Hey I say atleast go spend some time with her and get to know her. Your conversations on the phone are just a beginning. Dont think about moving just think about goin and getting to know her and then see what happens. You never know she could be your "mrsbabba" and you certainly wouldnt want to miss out on that. Of course those are few and far between. So at least you could make a good friend. My advice is if she dosesnt smoke and want to grow .... " keep on truckin"
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To me, in the year 2006, this means sex...I'm just a realist
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Mr. Nevermind
Flamengo said:
Pretty much. Which is why i said he was silly for wanting to move to be with a chick that supposed to like him. If the chick felt the same way about him as he does for her. I dont thinl she would be dating or banging other men. I look at it this way. he wants to move in with a chick over talking to her on the phone. Meanwhile she has dated and done more with guys in her area while talking to him on the phone. The gys in her area must not see her as anything that speacial on spending time with her.
No disrespect but if a girl likes me and wants to have something with me , the least she can do is keep her legs closed while i am not there, or say to the guys she is dating that she doesnt want to see them from the begining due to her interest in you and not wanting to do anything to ruin her chances.
She may be a nice girl and great to talk to on the phone. But if she felt the same way as you do for her, she wouldnt be dating other dudes. Sorry
Nevermind
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I met a gal online 2 years ago. We chatted and talked on the phone for about 9 months and then finally met. She came to visit for ten days and it was wonderful and I KNEW I was in trouble. Since then she's been here 10 more times and will be here again next week and over Christmas and New Years.
We found something very special and have taken our time to let it grow and mature. It's very difficult having a distance relationship but also very doable and rewarding when it succeeds.
By-the-way... she's a redhead as well and I could not be happier. I've found my best friend... hippie chick... stoner bud... lover and hopefully someday my life partner.
Good luck finding yours.
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We found something very special and have taken our time to let it grow and mature. It's very difficult having a distance relationship but also very doable and rewarding when it succeeds.
By-the-way... she's a redhead as well and I could not be happier. I've found my best friend... hippie chick... stoner bud... lover and hopefully someday my life partner.
Good luck finding yours.
Mais-
CaptJamesTKirk
Active member
I'm just checking in - from the first few posts,,,,
Your a fool if ya do
and/or
Your a fool if ya don't
A good woman is hard to find; and worth the effort.
Shine On!
ummmmm
sounds like a princess complex - - I luv my subjects but don't know where I want to lie. or worse yet just likes to lie any ol where. You sleep with who she sleeps with, ya know?
Your a fool if ya do
and/or
Your a fool if ya don't
A good woman is hard to find; and worth the effort.
Shine On!
ummmmm
sounds like a princess complex - - I luv my subjects but don't know where I want to lie. or worse yet just likes to lie any ol where. You sleep with who she sleeps with, ya know?
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