I bet this is a pretty common occurrence these days. I met a girl online on one of those dating sites a couple years ago. We traded personal emails and talked a bit, then made a date for coffee. First she gets there and looks nothing like the pic she had sent. But I had heard that was common and almost expected it. Then our table was right next to the line to the counter. Some guy comes along and she starts chatting with him. He was totally making on her. She ate it up. Strike two. Then a little later she gets a call. A few minutes after that she made some lame excuse that she wanted to go try on bathing suits at this place and they were going to close so she had to go. Strike three. I guess she thought I was stupid. I never talked or emailed her again. She sent me sad faces and saying she wanted to date again. I just never responded. I also never do that online dating thing anymore. But not just because of that, just think it's bogus.