2 Girlfriends WTF?

[I Used To Grow]

Is this possible?

Is it cool for a man 2 have 2 girlfriends if the main girlfriend is cool with it?

I pose this question not to piss anyone off but for the sake of argument.

My gf has pancreatitis and is slowly deteriorating..she wants to make me as happy as possible while were together..I know this cuz she told me on the phone tonight..

Is it worth the risk or not?

I hate to stir up such controversey but I just thought I'd ask some friends..

peace

 

[_angst_]

That's a tough one. Flip the scenario... what would make you happier?

 

[NOKUY]

ultimately someone is gonne end up unhappy.

I think it's different/better if you play a cpl/few chicks that don't know a thing about eachother, and all think that they are the "only one" ...just don't get caught!

 

[I Used To Grow]

both of course...but she said it was cool if I kissed another woman..it means nada to her.

I think I will at least try this other gal...just for the fun of it ya know...not f'ng or anything..just making out..kuz..like..if I kiss her..then she's kissed Shelbe..then Shelbe would be kissing Kacie..lol..lmao!! every man should be so f'n lucky!

 

[daisy jane]

If you are going to have another girl on the side, I would hope you are doing more than just making out.

 

[stealthballer]

wait your chick is sick and you think its okay to pass the time with someone else?
I couldn't ever do that.

 

[marx2k]

Um... yeah or something...

So, it is not completely obvious to you she's saying that for your benefit and thats not how she feels?

 

[_angst_]

If she's dying, stick it out w/ her so she goes happy, then do whatever you want I guess.

 

[plantbeaners]

wait your chick is sick and you think its okay to pass the time with someone else?
I couldn't ever do that.

WORD

 

[T-type]

Well I'm glad to see your coherent IUTG, but shrooms must have killed the hell out of your conscience

 

[I Used To Grow]

drugs are bad mmmmkayyyyy....

drugs are bad mmmmkayyyyy....

hmm..dilemma on my hands it seems...I know she would hate me if I kissed another woman..specailly this one..but hey..she left the door open to new possibilities..what can a man do?

 

[stealthballer]

wow dude that its even a quandry for you speaks volume about your morals.
I have never understood people like you.

 

[Tarkus]

Well, from another thread I think it is pretty obvious most people on here do not think messing around with others is ok, even if you have consent from your girl. If she says it is ok, then it is obviously ok. It really all boils down to what you think is ok to do. Is there anyway you could spend this quality time with both of them?? As you said, everyman should be so lucky.
Do not get in trouble though. I wish you all the fun you can have, and I hope you and your girl have fun doing what you do.

 

[GrassRoots]

If she's dying, stick it out w/ her so she goes happy, then do whatever you want I guess.

Agreed. I can't imagine how terrible it would be to have my girlfriend slowly dying on my. I would be doing everything possible to make the end of her life the best it could possibly be.

GrassRoots

 

[I Used To Grow]

hmm...

hmm...

well..alrightyyy then..my gf is another town for at least another week..there's no way she'll even find out..she said it was cool though...I think she wants a..how u say..managa trois? lmao!

 

[Tarkus]

I wouldn't really go behind her back to do it, but shit...if she said it is ok....
If she only has a short time left, and wants to experiment, then let the games begin!! Have yourself a ball, and hopefully she will join suit and start making out with the new girl.

 

[Pops]

IUTG, women say shit to be noble and make you feel better. If you want to continue with Shelby, talk it over with her again. Find out if she really wants that 3 some or if she is just sick and being noble letting you go play elsewhere. Otherwise you could fuck up a good relationship. If she reassures you that it is fine. go for it!

 

[Yummybud]

you obviously don't lover her so maybe you should tell her the truth.

you can have sex with 20 people I guess and have 20 girlfriends but you can't say you love your 20 girlfriends lol. that wouldn't make sense.

 

[Tarkus]

you can have sex with 20 people I guess and have 20 girlfriends but you can't say you love your 20 girlfriends lol. that wouldn't make sense.

Can and have(maybe not 20...). You may not mean it, but that is a different can of worms...

 

[Guest]

you obviously don't lover her so maybe you should tell her the truth.

you can have sex with 20 people I guess and have 20 girlfriends but you can't say you love your 20 girlfriends lol. that wouldn't make sense.

That's really very insightful - you are bang on...

Good post Yummybud

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