What do I do...?

[Natural]

My girlfriend wants to go to a party.
It's in the ghetto part of town, I mean GHETTO.

I'll try not to be racist here, but...
She's mexican, she can fit in down there.
I'm as white as white can get... I can't.
I have a nice car that I'm worried about getting broken into.
I can't get a ride from anyone else...

My buddy just went down there last night for a party (Same place, 2 people just turned 21, it's basically an all weekend party shit thing) and got robbed... 2 mexicans jumped him, took his wallet and his cell phone as soon as he got out of the car.

I don't want my girlfriend going down there.
I'm afraid something bad is going to happen to her.
Also, knowing how she gets when she's drunk, she may be hit on by a guy at the party and give in to it...

What the fuck do I do?
Risk getting my car stolen / robbed / beat up / killed to protect my girlfriend or stay home?
I really, really don't feel safe going there...
I'm pretty much the only one in her circle of friends that isn't mexican/hispanic so I don't fit in at all... alot of you know how people of other races will get picked on and targeted in parts of the city that are primarily another race...

fuck I hate this shit...
she can't just come over to my house and have a relaxing night once in a while?!? bullshit...

 

[Guest]

take her out for a nice dinner/movie/joint then some crazy sex...

 

[Natural]

take her out for a nice dinner/movie/joint then some crazy sex...

I already said I'd go do something else with her.
All she wants to do is go to this party...

 

[NOKUY]

if you go down there w/ the right attitude you'll be fine.

...but your obviously scared, and your gonna have a hard time hiding that....good luck. ("fear" has a particular stench to it, and they are gonna smell ya a mile away)

...that all said, you should go and try to have fun...its probably the only way to get over this hurdle (unless u wanna hide in the woods like me for the rest of your life)
-yukon

 

[Guest]

sounds like Sean Penn in Colors,,,,,walk down and fuck em all. bd

 

[JJScorpio]

You said you are afraid how she acts when she gets drunk? The bad part of this is you will feel you have to guard her and your life will be miserable. Have you told her you are afraid she will do something with someone else? If she is really that way, sooner or later it is going to be the right circumstances and you will not be around. Thats not a very good relationship then.

 

[PazVerdeRadical]

controlling a lady is pretty impossible, and if you try you are gonna loose. of course, we learn this the hard way wising up hurts
oryou can stop being a wimp and go down there, like yukon said basically. if you really don´t want to go, then don´t go, who gives a fuck, i don´t, let her go, whatever, she fucks someone else, you either get over it or find another lady, can´t do much else, let life flow. can´t control the will of others, no matter how dis-orderly it may be. or so it seems

peace.

 

[Natural]

Thanks guys.

I drove down there.
I got out of the car, turned the alarm on.
I had to park about a block from the house (party was packed).
I went inside to look for her, couldn't find her... then I saw her and she kind of ducked from me like she didn't want me to see her. I turned around, went back out to my car and 5 mexicans were huddled around it. Took out my knife just incase, hit the panic button on the car and they all scattered.
I'm glad I didn't stay, my car probably would have gotten broke into.
Fuck my girlfriend, I'm ready to break up with her just about anyway.

Sorry to say, but I keep growing away from people day by day... everyone seems to be against me.

Fuck it.

 

[Guest]

that's some ole bullshit, sounds like she was trying to get you into some trouble.

Sorry to say, but I keep growing away from people day by day.

at least ur growing

 

[green_grow]

you are well rid of her pal . as for everyone seeming to be against you ... i doubt it . bad times come and go . same as good times . have a happy weekend .

 

[killa-bud]

fuck that bitch,thats grimy shit

 

[Guest]

You said you are afraid how she acts when she gets drunk? The bad part of this is you will feel you have to guard her and your life will be miserable. Have you told her you are afraid she will do something with someone else? If she is really that way, sooner or later it is going to be the right circumstances and you will not be around. Thats not a very good relationship then.

Well said.

 

[smokeymacpot]

u can disguise yourself as a mexican with the following:
brown facepaint
black hair dye
a rug with a hole in the middle to stick your head through
a big mexican hat
and some taco's filled with chilli

lol

(dont blame me if they can see through your disguise and kill you tho )

 

[Guest]

u can disguise yourself as a mexican with the following:
brown facepaint
black hair dye
a rug with a hole in the middle to stick your head through
a big mexican hat
and some taco's filled with chilli

lol

(dont blame me if they can see through your disguise and kill you tho )

Yeah, and bendeho means 'good friend'.

Seed

 

[Guest]

Natural - damn good thing u got out of there...

I don't know... sounds like your relationship with her sucks. Thing is... if she was cool she would do what you wanted... if you said you didn't want to go there cuz of the situation, she should have hung out with you.

Stick with your guns man. Who knows what went on in that party...but just be weary of her.

 

[smokeymacpot]

Yeah, and bendeho means 'good friend'.

Seed

@ OP
well i didnt see that you went there, but the fact that she hid from you and didnt respect your worrying for both your safety shows shes probably a little bitch.
people from different cultures/origins dont tend to mix well anyway, so find yourself a nice girl instead.

make sure you get one for the road and maybe violate her as payback

 

[Guest]

Next contestant!

 

[Silver Bullet]

She's your girlfriend and she's ducking you? Drop that ho like its hot.

 

[I Used To Grow]

just chill...let it pass..see what happens after the party...and go from there...

what kind of g/f would try to dodge you at a party? that's some shady shit right there.

 

[Guest]

Wayne Brady would get out of the car and slap a ho'...

ws